Baby Swop - Your views

I don't know about you guys but I am in two minds about this whole baby swop:

On the one hand, Megha has given birth to an illegitimate child. Without a father, and only Rimjhim's support, it will be hard for Megha to support the child. Megha was responsible for Isha losing her first child, and Isha was trying to support Megha from falling when she fell. Of all people Isha and Vicky really deserved the happiness of having their own child.

On the other hand, Megha is so committed to this child. Despite the torrent of abuse she received, she chose to keep the child and loves it. She is prepared to deal with the consequences of being an unwed mother. I don't think that Isha and Vicky would ever want to take Megha's baby if their baby died.

So is what the family did right or wrong? What are your views?

sweetu six
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Although I think Isha and Vicky should deserve happiness with this child, the director is making our views change about Megha and she's nice again. I think that what Avinash did was wrong, and that it should have been Megha's choice if she wanted to give away her child or not to Isha and Vicky. Since Megha is kind and loving again, she might of considered giving her child to Isha (as Yashoda did to Jayanti) for what she did to Isha before. These are just my thoughts...add your own!

agree with u

i think that irawati's idea of giving away megha's child to isha and vicky was a good one. Megha's baby was illegitimate and she'd have to protect herself and her baby from the world's taunts. But now tht she knos that her baby is dead...at least she can lead a normal life...like what irawati said.

And i agree, Isha wouldn't want megha to give away her baby to her. But isha and vicky do deserve this happiness as isha would not have been able to take in the shock of losing her baby for the second time.

So all in all, i think this baby swop thing has its adv and disadv. But for now, i think its best for everyone that megha's baby be given to isha and vicky.

I RESPECT EVERY1'S VIEW BECAUSE EVERY 1 HERE HAS RIGHT TO GIVE OPINION, I AM AGINIST ON THE FACT THE THEY GAVE MEGHA'S BABAY TO SOME1 ELSE JUST LIKE HOW THEY GAVE YASHSODA'S BABY (OM) TO JYANTI, I DONT THINK THEY SHOULD DO. MOTHER IS ALWAYS A MOTHER.

I don't think it is fair that the family took Megha's baby away and gave it to Isha, it is Megha's child, she should get to decide what she would like. Yes, it would be difficult to raise a child on her own, but there are many women out there who are single mothers, who have had kids out of wedlock. Times have changed, and I am sure Rimjhim would do anything she possibly can to ensure Megha and her child are fine.

Isha and Vicky do deserve happiness after what they have been through, no doubt about that. I just don't think that having Megha's child is going to give them happiness when they know how much Megha is suffering.

i think they did was wrong, megha would had gave the child to isha herself becuase now she is good and mehga would think as this way i can pay my guilty when i killed isha child before.

I think what Avanish and Irwati did to Megha was wrong by telling her that her baby died because when the baby cries Megha can feel the pain and cannot stand the baby crying so she feeds him, which is creating a situation between Megha and Isha and Kaveri. If Megha knew that her child was alive now that she has changed she maybe had given her baby to isha because isha had 2 miscarriages because of her!

On the whole this story is showing one thing that any outsider can blackmail them. Rimjim's turn is over . shweta was blackmailing her by sending her to mental aslyum and finally she came out with amba's help. Now it is the turn of avinash who is being blackmailed by same shweta and he is such a coward who cannot face the challenge.The main draw backs in all the series is that they show many characters are not sharing their problem with the family members to find out a solution but prepare to bear pressure [blackmail] from the outsiders whenever they black mail them. can any one imagine a father is afraid to do kanyadaan and go away with shwetha. It is so unrealistic. right from the beginning I am watching this serial, the director of the serial is constantly projecting rimjim as sacrificing figure.The public will feel sympathy to some extent but not always.. now a days rimjim and avinash's chartacter has become so boring. never they show happiness in their life. even in real life this sort of incidents does not happen. better we shd stop seeing this serial before we become mad. [poor god gopalji is also being brought in picture who never help and only increasing their problems. people will loose faith in god if the direction goes in this way.. please spare gopalji.

Megha might let Isha keep it, you're rite