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Hey guys I'm new to the forum but have been watching the show on and off recently. I really liked the beginning of the show ,never missed any episodes then, when TVS gave that honor and love to a bedni . I really appreciated how cvs were trying to show something different than regular shows , and also how it would help the uplift of such women.
All my hopes on the show shattered when they showed TVS lied to sugni about him being married. Also did cvs forget that TVS actually said that he had locked up riwa because she was mentally ill ?
From which angle she looks mentally ill , shes actually a shrewed woman and I wonder how did she even stay locked in there for such a long time.
So that was the first step in character assasination of TVS. second when they actually turned him into a crazy, psychotic lover who shot gulabiya ( sorry no offense but I hate gulabiya's character. She's just plain selfish.) I like narayani shastri though , loved her in piya ka ghar. Any ways although I liked the character TVS , cvs were hell bent to make us hate him, but they still couldn't do it for me because I still saw that true love for sugni that made him do all that. But yes the cvs finally succeeded in making me hate him to the core when he said " aisa kya hai Tum bedniyon mein Jo tumhe ek Mard ka hoke nahin rehne deta " to sugni. Varun is a brilliant actor but hate how they ruined his character.

I see how in the forum , a lot of you blame Adi for humiliating sugni and backstabbing TVS , it's true but whatever he said and did , I still think that one line that TVS said to her was much worse. In short both claimed to love her but I guess never respected her , deep down they both still thought of her as a bedni.

This doesn't mean I defend sugni , she just like her mom used Adi, which I hated. Back to Adi - TVS used him to do sar dhakayi of sugni so he doesn't loose her , gulabiya used him to the fullest for her daughter , sugni used him as well. He agreed to act in front to MS to save his mami's marriage ( he didn't know about riwa 's truth at that time ) . Yes he did fall in love with sugni but I don't think that he ever backstabbed TVS.

So I guess I don't understand why people blame Adi here for that. Any ways my POV is the show was started with a different concept which in the process of attracting viewers got lost somewhere. It's beyond repair now.

oh k let me clear ur doubts
y v hateadi
some things u said were wrong may be u missed some parts
first of all vikram didnt use adi,vikram didnt asked adi 2 sugni sardhakai.gulabiya asked adi 2 save sugni,vikram came there 2 save her sugni refused 2 get her sardhakai done by vikram.ADI asked sugni 2 stop this she didnt listen.then adi went 2 vikram and asked vikram that he will do sardhakai of sugni with the money vikram brought and will keep sugni with him as vikrams amanat.it was totally adis decision and will 2 do sardhakai of sugni.only the person who forced adi was gulabiya not vikram.

its nt vikram who hided reva its dhanuma,she told vikram abt reva before 2weeks of his marriage 2 sugni.

vikram was takingsugni 2 temple 2 talk with her
this gulabiya came and started beating vikram and sugni was beside and adi and reva also there but noone even tried 2 stop gulabiya and this bloddy women was beating him and 2 protect himself and he was angry too and in tat fighting he pressed trigger accidentally but not wantedly or have any intention 2 kill her,he was the one who took care ofall her hosp bills and expenses too

tvs ddint doubt sugni till he came home frm hosp.wen he came home he asked sugni y she didnt told truth 2 MT,y dressed in bridal attire,y she took keys and jewellary sugni didnt have any answer+he had seen adi tieing necklace 2 sugni all made him 2 think the same which is infront of his eyesand sugni 2 didnt have any answer 4 his questions

adi said 2 vikram he will keep sugni as his amanat with him
adi said 2 gulabiya he will save sugni fr0 vikram
adi said 2 his mother he will not get into this bednis drama but doing this 4 fa0ily
adi said 2 sugni hez doing this to untire reva and vikram
adi lied 2 each and every personand made false promises 2 all.
wen reva relieved adi frm stopping vikram getting close 2 sugni still adi choosed 2 marry sugni y
adi lusted for sugni wen he knew vikram loves her and sugni loves vikram.that time even adi didnt marry sugni
adi backstabbed and cheated vikram by snatching his love and marrying his love and constantly lieing and making false promises 2 vikram

adi dnt knw meaning/value of relations
he doesnt knw how 2 respect a women
he alwaysabused women
first he was dating amrita,he showed her dreams of marrying her,then got engaged,bfr 1 week of there marriage wen amrita parents took her away he neither tried 2 go 2 meet her or contact her,he did sugni sardhakai and got ready 2 marry sugni and when amrita came and seen all this he was saying amrita as if ntngg was a big deal and she can be his gf like bfr even though he marries sugni.when amrita showed him mirror again he physically abused her.
then when he felt he cant have sugni he thought amrita was some backup option tat if sugni dnt workout he can goback 2 amrita
how can support adi after knowing how cheap and disgusting hez

@ Venesa. Thanks for the reply.
Respect your views. And agree to them too. I'm not defending Adi in any way , he was wrong at a lot of levels but just wanted to know why Adi was hated so much here. You did convince me to some extent , but I still don't blame him for doing the sar dhakai as gulabiya forced him and even TVS had his own selfish motive to let him do it. I never actually liked adi's character from beginning but just wanted to express my view that I don't feel he backstabbed TVS. Now lusting is a big word , you used it so simply. I think he fell in love with her after knowing the real person in her , it wasn't lust. But again he knew that his mamaji loved her and she did too , so that was eww for me but I guess that's why people say pyar Kiya nahin jata , ho jata hai 😆
For riwa , you're right I guess I missed that part because I thought TVS had kept her there , he used to go meet her , take stuff for her and if he didn't mean to why didn't he take her out after he found out about that ? In that case he did lie to sugni. And no girl , no matter how much the other person loves her would or let me say should tolerate that he lied about him being married. So for me TVS was wrong there. Still I didn't hate him.
But what he said to sugni on wedding day , nothing ever would justify that. Even if he saw her with Adi , and I think he never gave her the chance to answer not that she didn't have the answer , but any ways even if she didn't have the answer, he didn't trust her ( that's understandable under circumstances ) but what he said showed he still thought of her as a bedni Just like other thakurs ..
Same way what Adi has said about sugni in past few episodes, nothing done or said justifies that. He thought of her as a bedni too.
And I agree with you what Adi did to Amrita (though was for family but still not right ).
The only character I had much respect in the whole show was TVS but his character was assassinated long back and I don't think at this point he deserves sugni.

Dear Drmsnap, while reading your opinion, I felt, I must clear some points...

Originally posted by: Drmsnap

@ Venesa. Thanks for the reply.
Respect your views. And agree to them too. I'm not defending Adi in any way , he was wrong at a lot of levels but just wanted to know why Adi was hated so much here. You did convince me to some extent , but I still don't blame him for doing the sar dhakai as gulabiya forced him and even TVS had his own selfish motive to let him do it. I never actually liked adi's character from beginning but just wanted to express my view that I don't feel he backstabbed TVS. Now lusting is a big word , you used it so simply. I think he fell in love with her after knowing the real person in her , it wasn't lust. But again he knew that his mamaji loved her and she did too , so that was eww for me but I guess that's why people say pyar Kiya nahin jata , ho jata hai 😆
For riwa , you're right I guess I missed that part because I thought TVS had kept her there , he used to go meet her , take stuff for her and if he didn't mean to why didn't he take her out after he found out about that ? In that case he did lie to sugni. And no girl , no matter how much the other person loves her would or let me say should tolerate that he lied about him being married. So for me TVS was wrong there. Still I didn't hate him.
But what he said to sugni on wedding day , nothing ever would justify that. Even if he saw her with Adi , and I think he never gave her the chance to answer not that she didn't have the answer , but any ways even if she didn't have the answer, he didn't trust her ( that's understandable under circumstances ) but what he said showed he still thought of her as a bedni Just like other thakurs ..
Same way what Adi has said about sugni in past few episodes, nothing done or said justifies that. He thought of her as a bedni too.
And I agree with you what Adi did to Amrita (though was for family but still not right ).
The only character I had much respect in the whole show was TVS but his character was assassinated long back and I don't think at this point he deserves sugni.

First of all, I think it isn't right to judge TVS's motive as Selfish. Any true lover would do the same what he did. Remember what TVS had said while taking out the cashes, "I know Sugni what you're going to do. But I will never let you ruin your life." TVS knew that Sugni,feeling cheated in love, had arranged her sardhakai out of depression, mental trauma...
Now if you love your partner so much, you can't leave him/her in such a danger just because your partner is emotionally disturbed. TVS knew that, at that time Sugni wouldn't let him do her sardhakai(he feared that she might even kill herself) & to save her, Adi's proposal was the only positive option to him. So he didn't chose that, rather he was insisted(by fate) to do that..
It's not a selfish motive for your own self, rather it's a selfish motive for the person you love...

2nd, I believe that when you love a person, you mean it wholeheartedly. And you will never leave him/her unless it's for his/her betterment(in other words, you sacrifice him/her because that, you think, will make his/her life good).
Adi, in the starting episodes, has no special feeling for Amrita but then on a fine morning.being influenced by TVS's words, he decided to marry Amu & they got engaged. Well. Amu left after the failure of V-S wedding & Adi didn't go to bring her back. Fine. But the clashes started to occur when he got ready to marry Sugni. Even he didn't feel to inform the lady whom he was engaged to. And on her sudden arrival on the wedding day, he started to claim that he still love her but doing all these to save mama-mami marriage. How could he even expect his fiance to stand by him when he was going to marry another woman? Only in the name of love? Sorry. All the time he was busy to explain his helplessness.Did he ever try to understand what Amu was going through? NO. But again the paper-pieces, the photos, the tears claimed that he loves Amu. What rubbish!
Then again on a fine evening, he discovered that he loves Sugni. Even though he knew how much the two(v&s) love each other, he didn't hesitate to go close to her.
Love is not to live with your partner, but to live for your partner & let him/her live. Adi completely killed the idea if what he has with Sugni is called Love...

3rd, If you've watched those episodes you've obviously found that TVS tried many a times to tell the truth. He gathered courage many a times.But after that temple part, where Sugni told him that she would kill herself if his wife is found alive, he probably lost it out of fear of losing her.
Of course he has hidden the truth. He has done wrong. But ,at the same time, we must also admit that he has fallen victim to situation/fate and he is still paying for it.

4th, Reva had already planted the seed of doubt in his mind with the amazing proofs she had against Adini & moreover he found both Sugni & Adi in bridal attire on reaching house. That no doubt had added oil. But I also feel upset to hear something like that from TVS.

Lastly, Adi, I think, is nowhere comparable with TVS, be it decency, ,bravery, intelligence, values or treatment to others. All he knows, I've found till date, is getting angry easily, doubting, quarreling & abusing others physically. And to my knowledge, that can never define a man, forget about the hero...

Hope, I am clear with my points ...
Thank you.

A real lover or a husband will reveal all his secrets to his partner or a wife.But Adi before marrying sugni has forgotten to reveal the truth that TVS is innocent and Revas plot of murder too.After marriage also Adi hesistate to reveal the truth to sugni.Do u justify the backstabbing act by Adi to TVS?

Adi fall in love with sugni Just when Sugni hugged him thinking it was vikram... That hug made him think he loves sugni... then when they started searching tvs he lust for sugni *that kissing dream*

Originally posted by: M0uNi

Dear Drmsnap, while reading your opinion, I felt, I must clear some points...



First of all, I think it isn't right to judge TVS's motive as Selfish. Any true lover would do the same what he did. Remember what TVS had said while taking out the cashes, "I know Sugni what you're going to do. But I will never let you ruin your life." TVS knew that Sugni,feeling cheated in love, had arranged her sardhakai out of depression, mental trauma...
Now if you love your partner so much, you can't leave him/her in such a danger just because your partner is emotionally disturbed. TVS knew that, at that time Sugni wouldn't let him do her sardhakai(he feared that she might even kill herself) & to save her, Adi's proposal was the only positive option to him. So he didn't chose that, rather he was insisted(by fate) to do that..
It's not a selfish motive for your own self, rather it's a selfish motive for the person you love...

2nd, I believe that when you love a person, you mean it wholeheartedly. And you will never leave him/her unless it's for his/her betterment(in other words, you sacrifice him/her because that, you think, will make his/her life good).
Adi, in the starting episodes, has no special feeling for Amrita but then on a fine morning.being influenced by TVS's words, he decided to marry Amu & they got engaged. Well. Amu left after the failure of V-S wedding & Adi didn't go to bring her back. Fine. But the clashes started to occur when he got ready to marry Sugni. Even he didn't feel to inform the lady whom he was engaged to. And on her sudden arrival on the wedding day, he started to claim that he still love her but doing all these to save mama-mami marriage. How could he even expect his fiance to stand by him when he was going to marry another woman? Only in the name of love? Sorry. All the time he was busy to explain his helplessness.Did he ever try to understand what Amu was going through? NO. But again the paper-pieces, the photos, the tears claimed that he loves Amu. What rubbish!
Then again on a fine evening, he discovered that he loves Sugni. Even though he knew how much the two(v&s) love each other, he didn't hesitate to go close to her.
Love is not to live with your partner, but to live for your partner & let him/her live. Adi completely killed the idea if what he has with Sugni is called Love...

3rd, If you've watched those episodes you've obviously found that TVS tried many a times to tell the truth. He gathered courage many a times.But after that temple part, where Sugni told him that she would kill herself if his wife is found alive, he probably lost it out of fear of losing her.
Of course he has hidden the truth. He has done wrong. But ,at the same time, we must also admit that he has fallen victim to situation/fate and he is still paying for it.

4th, Reva had already planted the seed of doubt in his mind with the amazing proofs she had against Adini & moreover he found both Sugni & Adi in bridal attire on reaching house. That no doubt had added oil. But I also feel upset to hear something like that from TVS.

Lastly, Adi, I think, is nowhere comparable with TVS, be it decency, ,bravery, intelligence, values or treatment to others. All he knows, I've found till date, is getting angry easily, doubting, quarreling & abusing others physically. And to my knowledge, that can never define a man, forget about the hero...

Hope, I am clear with my points ...
Thank you.

Thanks for your reply. I guess you got me wrong, I'm not blaming TVS for letting Adi do sar dhakai but I'm trying to say Adi didn't do it on his own will. Wasn't his fault there. I think I didn't pen it down right. I'm not very good at writing , and that's the reason I don't make many posts. When I entered this forum all I saw was everyone bashing Adi left and right , so I just wanted to know.
Like I said in my prev comment I never liked Adi 's character anyways, but yes I don't agree he was wrong everywhere. The reason I feel that is because gulabiya and sugni have used him at each and every step, and a lot of wrong has happened there.
As far as TVS goes ,let me say again that's the only character I liked since beginning ( am a fan of varun since his show koshish - loved him in that show ). But had stopped watching show regularly since they killed his character here. But still can't stop watching it.
Your reply did convince me to a certain point but I can't bring myself to hate Adi yet. He's been wrong most of the times but at the same time he's been wronged too.

Originally posted by: Joyel

A real lover or a husband will reveal all his secrets to his partner or a wife.But Adi before marrying sugni has forgotten to reveal the truth that TVS is innocent and Revas plot of murder too.After marriage also Adi hesistate to reveal the truth to sugni.Do u justify the backstabbing act by Adi to TVS?

I completely agree. So your first line , doesn't that apply to TVS. did he tell sugni that he was married and his wife was alive before getting married ?

Originally posted by: sector

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