Stop Harassing Sugni!!!! (read page 2) - Page 2

Originally posted by: Arvi_fan

Ok I had enough! There is a poll that says that if you sympathize with Sugni and there are more nos then yes. Well why? I get it that you think that shes playing with two thakurs emotions but shes not! First of all bashing other characters is not allowed and second in order to make a judgement we have to listen to BOTH sides. Sugni fell in love with VIkram in the first place because Vikram was sweet talking her and she broke up with him because he lied to her about his first wife and in order to make a pure relationship there has to be truth. Then Adi came who toook care of her made promises fulfilled them and sacfraficed his love Amrita for his uncle and aunt which i think is touching. I mean nobody does that. He married Sugni and did what he thought was right and look at him now. The poor guy fell in love with Sugni and unlike Vikram he didn't force Sugni to love him,he let her go and just wanted to see her happy. Thats really sweet and you cannot deny that. Only a person who loves you does that not forcing relationships and threatning and hurting Sugni like Vikram. This reminds me of a show which you may not watching called Pavitra Rishta. Where a girl named Purvi sacrafices her love Arjun and a girl named Ovi is forcing Arjun to love her. Listen I am not bashing any characters like Vikram I am just tired of this bashing of Sugni. Please try to read my post with full thought and re think your judgement about Adi and SUgni and of Sugni's character. Thank you if you do😊

Hello Arvi-Fan,

Lovely post. And I am the one who came up with the poll you think is bashing Sugni. I am sorry you feel that way. Now, the day Sugni found out Vickram lied to her and she threw the ring back in his face I was behind her all the way . Then the Sardakhi thing happened and I was like WHAT? WHY?
I know that some of us are really passionate about these characters, I am one of them, but I am also passionate about watching these strong characters get butchered beyond repair , and a storyline that has dropped to the lowest scale. I am sorry but the writers of this show has made Sugni look very bad and finding sympathy for her actions is hard for some of us.

• She leaves Vickram on the principle that he is married and she dose not want to be the reason for that breakup. Very good move...I agree with her 100%

• She is saying I love Vickram with all my heart. I do not want to marry either of them, but she ends up marrying his nephew at gun point...no one forced her just as no one forced her to do her Sardakhi. ...I will never agree or understand that move.
• Now that she is married ...Even Adi asked her to leave the Haveli which she is refusing to do..why would she want to stay in front of Vickram and His wife is she is trying to fix that relationship. (that is like putting a recovering alcoholic in a bar and telling him don't drink)
  

I am sorry , but they have spoiled Sugni, and the other characters of the show with this immoral "love story" ...and I see nothing nice to say about them.

I respect that you have a different opinion than I... my posts are not to offend any one personally I am just expressing my frustrations! Have a wonderful day!

how can we feel sorry 4 sugni ???
1st she sells herself... then adi buy her... then she wanted to remove her cloths near him (she could leave that place and go away vikram would never follow her !!! )
2nd one day she ask vikram TO LEAVE her alone and go away - he does so... and what she does... ?? crying saying ow mom i lost my love... ? i miss him ? i want him ext.. reva sees this drama sugni saying to adi i wont marry u i love vikram lets find him ext... reva seeing that decide to kill her husband ...
3rd gong to search vikram and getting busy in jungle with her husband ... babysit him taking care... he got pain so she ask remove ur shirt... and sugni without shame feels its okay to go closer and touch him
4th after saving vikram giving him hope that she will marry ... but when he comes home he sees her ready as bride... (after watching all proofs that she cheat on him... adi tie that nackless) vikram comes home see her getting ready as bride wearing bngls getting keys of home ext... what he supposed to think ??? she is great ?? then he claim she cheat on him and she is behdni ... sugni get hurt and what she does... get marry to adi
after marrying adi she become his friend... leaves past behind and so soon get closer to him

sorry to say i watch many shows even in forced marriages people are not getting closed that way even they r good friends... it take time not in 2 days and also she get marry to her ex bf nephew...

ow what more...

also they claim to sacrifice their life and love for vikram ? right ??

then why none of them ? adi didnt sit with his uncle / aunty in order to bring them together ???

one last thing - why divorce is not an option in this story ???


Live in marriage which is HELL is okay ?? daily hate his wife ? she hates him wow... they must stay together and adi the young must get the young girl..

sugni had problem with breaking home taking other woman man ... what about amrita ??? what was she ??

Originally posted by: Vinnie79

Hello Arvi-Fan,

Lovely post. Anf I am the one who came up with te poll you think is bashing Sugni. I am sorry you feel that way. No the day Sugni found out Vickram lied to her and she threw the ring back in his face I was behind her all the way . Then the Sardakhi thing happend and I was like WHAT? WHY?
I know that some of us are really passionate about these characters, I am one of them, but I am also passionate about watching these strong characters get buchared beyond repair , and a storyline that has dropped to the lowest scale. I am sorry but the writers of this show has made Sugni look very bad and finding symapthy for her actions is hard for some of us.

• She leaves Vickram on the principle that he is married and she dose not want to be the reason for that breakup. Very good move...I agree with her 100%

• She is saying I love Vickram with all my heart. I do not want to marry either of them, but she ends up marrying his nephew at gun point...no one forced her just as no one forced her to do her Sardakhi. ...I will never agree or understand that move.
• Now that she is married ...Even aAdi asked her to leave the Haveli which she is refusing to do..why would she want to stay infront of Vickram and His wife is she is trying to fix that relationship. (that is like puting a recovering alcoholic in a bar and telling him don't drink)
  

I am sorry , but they have spoiled Sugni, and the other chracters of the show with this immoral "love story" ...and I see nothing nice to say about them.

I respect that you have a different opinion than I... my posts are nnot to offend any one personally I am just expressing my fustrations! Have a wonderful day!

Vinnie I am not saying that you were bashing Sugni when you posted the poll its just that the way it was posted and the replys. I agree that Sugni should have not done the sardahaki and she dhould have left the haveli with Adi and the Cvs are making Sugni's character loook bad,but we should understand the motive of why Sugni married Adi and also as I was defending Sugni's character I was also defending Adi's chraracter. I think that the reason she did her Sardhaki was in shock. Cause she thought of Vikram as god and god would never lie. So thats why she did her Sardhaki because she was in shock and who wouldn't be in shock? I guess she thought that was her only choice left. Oh and please don't feel bad about my post because I feel I hurt your feelings. So please dont feel that this post was indirectly to you. Anyways have a great day!

Originally posted by: ronshaan

how can we feel sorry 4 sugni ???
1st she sells herself... then adi buy her... then she wanted to remove her cloths near him (she could leave that place and go away vikram would never follow her !!! )
2nd one day she ask vikram TO LEAVE her alone and go away - he does so... and what she does... ?? crying saying ow mom i lost my love... ? i miss him ? i want him ext.. reva sees this drama sugni saying to adi i wont marry u i love vikram lets find him ext... reva seeing that decide to kill her husband ...
3rd gong to search vikram and getting busy in jungle with her husband ... babysit him taking care... he got pain so she ask remove ur shirt... and sugni without shame feels its okay to go closer and touch him
4th after saving vikram giving him hope that she will marry ... but when he comes home he sees her ready as bride... (after watching all proofs that she cheat on him... adi tie that nackless) vikram comes home see her getting ready as bride wearing bngls getting keys of home ext... what he supposed to think ??? she is great ?? then he claim she cheat on him and she is behdni ... sugni get hurt and what she does... get marry to adi
after marrying adi she become his friend... leaves past behind and so soon get closer to him

sorry to say i watch many shows even in forced marriages people are not getting closed that way even they r good friends... it take time not in 2 days and also she get marry to her ex bf nephew...

ow what more...

also they claim to sacrifice their life and love for vikram ? right ??

then why none of them ? adi didnt sit with his uncle / aunty in order to bring them together ???

one last thing - why divorce is not an option in this story ???


Live in marriage which is HELL is okay ?? daily hate his wife ? she hates him wow... they must stay together and adi the young must get the young girl..

sugni had problem with breaking home taking other woman man ... what about amrita ??? what was she ??

I agree Sugni should have not done that but she had a reason for your first reason she did that with shock thinking she had lost everything and she have not dont that I agree. the second reason is that she misses him and she remembers how Vikram helped her. Third is that she was helping her fix his would i mean she can't go throught things and fix wounds. 4th i that she had no other choice but to marry Adi and Adi is a good friend you cannot deny that and I agree that Adi should talk to his uncle and aunt together. I also agree that this story is getting complicated and I will answeer your question of who Amrita is. Amrita is a human who loves Adi so she sacraficed him and what happened happened we cannot change it

and remember...its just a serial or not 😕

Arvi fan

I have always sympathised with Sugni until her wedding at gun point. She is a young girl facing a very difficult situation. Although I disagree with her stance ondivorce I respect her position on not being the reason for TVS marriage break up.

Adi is a good friend of that their not any doubt. But he told her he was going to go back to Amrita as she said she would wait a lifetime for him. But because Sugni's pride/ego got hurt when for the first time in their relationship TVS questioned her true intentions she obligated Adi to marry her. So for the second time she snatched Amu's happiness and this time there was no majburi just the need to salvage her pride/ego/desire to prove she is a home maker/good bahu. To my mind that is being selfish.

You have said she had no choice but to marry Adi. Sorry I dont understand why you think she had no choice. She had a choice. She was going to walk away so why did she not?

Adi may make a great husband but to my mind thats not the point. The point is, is it fair to have a relationship with a bhanja of the man who she only days ago said was her true love and flaunt that relationship in front of him 24/7? To my mind its height of cruelty.

She and Adi want to preserve the family. A family is made not by people living under the same roof but the emotional bonds that tie them together and which allows them to face good times and bad.

Her marriage at gun point has destroyed so many emotional bonds that this family will never be the same again. She has destroyed mama-bhanja bond, grandmother-grandson bond, mother-son bond. Today Jiji told her a bedni stole my husband and now you a bedni have stolen my son. At least now leave me alone.

In the meantime she is forcing herself on everyone in the name being a good wife - mendhi for Karva Chotha, today she duped MT to eat her kheer, going to the kurdevi temple to pray with the family. She seems to have no respect for other people's wishes, it always about what she wants. The more she does that, the more she looks selfish.

So I have lost some sympathy I had for Sungi because she has chosen the most cruelest way possible to get back at TVS and because she is forcing herself on everyone without any consideration for their feelings/dwishes.

One day this family may accept her but it will always be grugeingly rather than wholeheartedly.

Sorry for the long post but just wanted to put my point of view across.

Please do not be offended because that is not my intention.

Well thats what I think you are doing but forget about me. SHe didn't leave because if she leaves her mom would be devestated and if her mom left with her what will happen to her family? If she married him she probably thought this through and plus Adi would make a great husband and their engagment already happened

If someone can tell me the difference between bashing and telling the truth, then I will follow.

One thing is funny about sugni..

all i know is i dont bash any one i know its a show but sughni character is some thing else. i state the truth but respectful and if sughni wanted to do something good whydidnt she leave the village what was the reason for staying back getting married to your lover nephew and rubbing it in his face any respectfull person would think twice before doing that. and we have to sympatise with her plz.. it was a sacrifice she and adi was doing for vickram and rewa but since she know rewa is a 🤬 and trying to kill vickram what is the reason for this marriage