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Posted: 13 years ago
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Just now read the wu
seriously wats wrong wid sugni
still now i was thinking sugni doesnt knw abt revas mental condition and was misunderstanding tvs love as lust
but sugni knows tat reva is mad and she still wants tvs to live his whole life with reva whoz insane
even she knows reva can get violent anytime and even can hurt and kill a person in that state even did this twice but still she want tvs to be with reva
sugni knws tvs doesnt love reva but still he must be with reva
why
only coz his sister cheated him and got married him to a insane women
what type of morals are these and what type of thinking is this
i seriouslydont understand
he can divorce her but take care of her and even give her half property when she getswell so she can live happily even after divorce there aremany options then y are sugni and adi are hell bent on making tvs to live his whole life with reva.
why?wats their main intention?what do they want?how can someone force other person to live whole life with a person whom theyd ont love?
what will adi and sugni achieve by doing this?why adi want his uncle to live forcefully with a women whom he dont love?where did adis love for his uncle go?

doesnt adi and sugni know this u can take a horse near sea but cant make it drink water

what will this duo do if tvs takes divorce with reva even if sugni says she wont come back.then how can these duo stop him taking divorce.after divorce if he marries other young,beautiul,educated,rich thakurain how can they stop him.they cant.

what will gulabiya do if adi gets physical with sugni then marries amrita.then she is fine with it coz its not tvs

i feel along with reva sungi Gulabiya and adi need psychartist help seriously and immeditely coz they even have some psychological problems
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even if this is based on a true story , the characters are fictional, so the entire blame goes to whoever sits down and writes this crap! He/ she is the one who needs mental help!!!
But then again, hindi movies and serials never want to try the unconventional thing...they portray in the moves marriage as something that you stick with even when the man you are married to beats the crap our of you ...or in this case when your mental wife decides you are a good moving target for her vases and pots. All sympathy is to the wife, because...where would she go???
So be married and unhappy...that is the name of the game... now if Vickram decides to go JT route and bring a diffrent woman each night under Reva's nose , then tells her to "SHut UP AND LIVE WITH IT" or if he snaps and starts Hitting her ( People Physical abuse in any situation is 100% wrong and I am not saying stay in it, just as an example of double standards)....Will Adi ask his uncle to leave his Aunt???? Again Vickram will be the wrong one mistreating his poor wife!.
But if the said Mami decides to one day Stab your uncle in his sleep at least you know she loved him and she was happy being with her SAHIB! by feeding people this, you are just saying to people if you are in a bad marriage and just ride it out...suffer because marriage is an unbreakable bond!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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God help the insane... for surely the people will not...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I noticed riva behaving sane day by day..
It is pathetic that sugni thinks vikram made adi do her sardhakai bcoz he at any cost wants her.It is wrong dear...he did it to save you.or else you would have made the bed for some other lusty thakur.
also as i found he dint make adi to do this...(I can understand the language character of the serial speaking very well)
It was adi who convinced Vikey to let him do the task on his behalf( the reason known to god...sorry cv's).
...If vicky dint make her sardhakai i dont know what would happen to her,,but adi ,after trying to convince sugni almost gave in...thinking she is digging her own gutter.
I dont know what that girl looking for in love.But for me ,i think most of the ladies like me ,we consider if the man in love did omething for us going out of the box.that too only for love's sake not lust.
women have sixth sense to understand someone is standing by you through ups and downs ,,is he doinf t out of love or lust.
Sugni looks very immature to me...now her dreams does not look solid to me.i look at it like other teenage's dreams...you know some girl's dream to be a painter but end up becoming a graduate ...like that...
Sorry ...i meant not to offense anyone...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: zeezee55

God help the insane... for surely the people will not...



Sorry but i want to know in which century u'r living dear?
There is a treatment for all diseases. If we have fever and don't go to doctor and w8 God will make us healthy one day no need to go to doctor, do we think like this? no right?/
Insanity is a mental illness/disease, and like other diseases insanity also has treatments and needs treatment. They can't be cured by themselves, never ever.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was wondering about the same for others "dear".

Yes i am well aware of treatment for the insane - but since it is not happening - i passed that remark "God help the insane as the people are not" because i do not see sympathy for REva - only for Vikram or perhaps i am reading wrong... perhaps you are right - i'm probably not on the same channel. Because i believe in marriage but i also believe in divorce BUT whatever the choice it must be based on ethical and moral grounds - "in sickness and in health" - i feel sorry for vikram but he has a moral right to take care of his wife first and not go hankering over a young girl no matter what his heart says - he is matured enough to have some control ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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People of this serial is not helping a sane person that is Amrita .A sweet , warm lady like her has no place in their life.Every time jiji or some one mentioning her name Adi gives this look" Ohh yes she is also there in my life..shit..okay dont ask me ...i will make everything right"
If Vikram getting obessive towards sugni (though he never ever can hit her) it is very bad but if riva is obessive (with all the pot,vase hitting) it is a devine thing ...lol...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gr8 posts by Venesa,Vinnie and seemasr 👍🏼
And i agree with seemasr on her point that women can very well differentiate in love and lust. I can say this with my personal experience as well. Sugni's character can never be a real one, Even an immature girl can go mad and crazy when she finds out what her lover has done for her or still doing. It's not about immaturity at all. I guess the writer of this serial is living on some other planet. she definitely don't belong to this earth at all. 😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: zeezee55

I was wondering about the same for others "dear".

Yes i am well aware of treatment for the insane - but since it is not happening - i passed that remark "God help the insane as the people are not" because i do not see sympathy for REva - only for Vikram or perhaps i am reading wrong... perhaps you are right - i'm probably not on the same channel. Because i believe in marriage but i also believe in divorce BUT whatever the choice it must be based on ethical and moral grounds - "in sickness and in health" - i feel sorry for vikram but he has a moral right to take care of his wife first and not go hankering over a young girl no matter what his heart says - he is matured enough to have some control ...


And he has been taking care of her , has he not? And he did come up the the solution that he would treat her , and then divorce her!, so what is wrong with that??
If a person was not happy in 9 years of marriage, chances are they will not suddenly "get happy" in the 10th year. BTW he has shown a lot of self control when it comes to Sugni, and even Reva but there is so much patience a person has especially when every one sees you as the wrong one!
Just my humble opinion!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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I believe in marriage and the phrase "in Sickness and in health"
But I believe that pharse applies when someone becomes sick after marriage not when they are sick before marriage and that fact was hidden from you.
Also if one party is not happy in a marriage then they cannot stay in that marriage because the other party is happy, in love etc because thats not fair. In this case Vikram has said over and over again that he considers Reva to be his responsibility and he will always take care of her welfare.
So in my humble opinion, he can divorce her but as long as he takes care of her welfare for as long as she is not able to do it herself than I think he is keeping his Vow.
The alternative that is being suggested that he must stay in this marriage even though he does not want to is a consequence that is not being considered - will he not end up resenting Reva for being trapped in this marriage and therefore probably will treat harsely then in the divorce but take care option? I think you can see signs of that in the way he has shouted at her in the last couple of episodes.
We are all human and our emotions get the better of us when we are unhappy and it is due to another person and there persn bears the brunt.
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