a mother instinct to protect her child

gulabiya is a mother who brought up her daughter in very tough and trying circumstances...she is like any parent who wants to and will protect their children from whatever danger that they see they are getting into...by doing this is she a bad person? no she is a mother, first and foremost...and she did protect her child...letting sugni marry vickram would of made her what, his wife, no it would have made her the other wife...

lol I agree.

Originally posted by: XAiShBaBy08X

lol I agree.

But unfortunately, very few seem to understand the concept of illegal marriage and a mother's selfless love.

Once again you insult the members of this forum who do not agree with you. We know what is an illegal marriage AND we know what a mother's selfless love is...however, there are viewers who do not agree with you that Gulabiya's love was selfless and have presented sound arguments. If you do not agree, this does not mean these viewers do not understand WHAT is a mother's selfless love. I believe that your posts are in poor taste when you say these things.

we all have our views and i do believe that we respect each other point of view, that is what a forum is all about, hard hitting other forum members is really not necessary, if you don't agree just simply say so. attacking others for expressing their thoughts is really not sportsman like.

Originally posted by: ann5

we all have our views and i do believe that we respect each other point of view, that is what a forum is all about, hard hitting other forum members is really not necessary, if you don't agree just simply say so. attacking others for expressing their thoughts is really not sportsman like.

There is a difference between expressing a different viewpoint and making comments about other members value systems as less than when they do not agree with you.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Once again you insult the members of this forum who do not agree with you. We know what is an illegal marriage AND we know what a mother's selfless love is...however, there are viewers who do not agree with you that Gulabiya's love was selfless and have presented sound arguments. If you do not agree, this does not mean these viewers do not understand WHAT is a mother's selfless love. I believe that your posts are in poor taste when you say these things.

I agree with you Laila. This person refuses to read and comprehend anyone's post carefully, so annoying.

Originally posted by: XAiShBaBy08X

lol I agree.

But unfortunately, very few seem to understand the concept of illegal marriage and a mother's selfless love.

Seriously, did you think even once before you wrote this? Who does not understand illegal marriage? Have you been carefully reading everyone's posts or is it that you don't understand what is meant by our opinion that Gulabiya's Methods are wrong. You do not have to accept if you do not wish to.

The holier then thou attitude in the posts really upsets members and POVs if expressed in a matter of fact way wont hurt other members. In a family there are bound to be difference of opinions

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Once again you insult the members of this forum who do not agree with you. We know what is an illegal marriage AND we know what a mother's selfless love is...however, there are viewers who do not agree with you that Gulabiya's love was selfless and have presented sound arguments. If you do not agree, this does not mean these viewers do not understand WHAT is a mother's selfless love. I believe that your posts are in poor taste when you say these things.

Originally posted by: XAiShBaBy08X

Okay, seriously. I am speaking in general terms. I haven't pointed you out specifically nor have I pointed out that I'm talking about the members here. Why is it that you always have to defend yourself...not everything I say is targeted towards you. I don't even rmr seeing an argument from you.

Instead of saying that everything I am saying is wrong, why don't you actually present a good argument. You just seem to want to point fingers instead of presenting valid arguments.

So I request you to stop trying to start something especially when I haven't said anything to you.

My dear, this is NOT about me; I am speaking in defence of the other members here. I am afraid even if your comments are in general terms, they are still in poor taste. Your welcome to viewpoints as long as long as they are not undermining the value systems of others or as snide in nature...and I am not alone in seeing them in this way.