Bigg Boss 19: daily Discussion Thread- 1st Sept 2025.
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Originally posted by: Vinnie79
As some one pointed out...maybe Gulabiya is a little jealous of the relationship Sugni_Vickram has, or maybe she dose not understand the concept. Note the way she was looking when TVS told JIJI he would not stand ANYONE saying anything bad about Sugni, she was preplexed., she is constantly telling Sugni there are only 2 types of relationship between a thakur and a bedini, convenently forgetting she is standing in a marriage madap?,. TVS had Sugni in that house for how many days and he could have had his way with her a long time ago!
All she was concerned about was proving to Sugni that "LOOK I TOLD YOU SO!"
JiJI made a valid point, where would Sugni be??? Guliabya could not stop her when she went to dance...she could not defend her in front of the panchayat, she never came out and BOLDLY defend her daughter when the other bedinis asked when she would dance...gulabiya response was "she will ...one day!" She should have proudly said " MY DAUGHTER WON"T EVER" She went so far as to physically hit Sugni for havinf the guts to talk Answer Jwala!!!, because he was the one providing them with food, also with that incident, she did not believe that Sugni was at fault , until the girl came to thank Sugni for saving her!!!
She is so blinded about wanting to be preved right she dose not realized she just took her daughter out of the pot to throw her into the fire!
Some people have made some very good arguments. While you might not like them, I do not believe that it is fari for you to judge them so harshly because you do not agree with them. I am rather bothered by your approach towards these posts. In the past if I were to question you in the manner that you have done with others, you have reported my posts. I think it is unfair that you have chosen to use a such an approach towards the arguments towards other members whilst not adhering to the same rules yourself.Originally posted by: XAiShBaBy08X
I can't believe that people are taking Mama, Mami, and Vikram's sister's sides in their arguments in order to condemn Gulabiya's and Sugni's actions!!
Have I entered a different world or something? At least make a decent argument. AND plz...in order to defend Vikram...do not insult all of the Mothers out there by saying that Gulabiya is a bad Mother.NOTE:I can understand Vikram's predicament...but he took a bad decision of hiding the truth. I'm not saying that he is evil. I'm not even insulting him personally in any of the arguments nor am I saying that Vikram and Sugni do not belong together. In fact, I'm not liking the new Adi. But what Vikram did...is wrong.I am only defending what Gulabiya and Sugni have done.
Originally posted by: Laila2009
Some people have made some very good arguments. While you might not like them, I do not believe that it is fari for you to judge them so harshly because you do not agree with them. I am rather bothered by your approach towards these posts. In the past if I were to question you in the manner that you have done with others, you have reported my posts. I think it is unfair that you have chosen to use a such an approach towards the arguments towards other members whilst not adhering to the same rules yourself.
Aarti, I do hope that you and Ravjot address these posts.Thank you
@suresh555 so true.
Remember it was G who went to TVS to get his word that he will in fact marry her daughter. G wanted nothing more than TVS marring Sugni. That was all that mattered to her. I don't understand how some people can say that G is jealous of her daughter. As a parent you want nothing but the best for your children. Everything you didn't have as a kid, you want to give to your children. That is why you work your bum off and sacrifice your life to make sure your children's dreams come true. And that is what G has been doing all her life. But when she found out that TVS was married, she didn't want him marrying Sugni because even if he did marry Sugni, she would be in fact be the "other women." Just like G herself. In society's eyes, she would still be a bedni and that is not what G wants and she knows that is definitely not what Sugni wants or ever wanted. So both hers and Sugni's anger are justified. Just for a moment put yourselves in G shoes as a mom, in her current situation and then think is her anger really justified? I know a bunch of people fell in love with Sugvi (I was one of them), but that was a different TVS that stole our hearts away and we fell in love with. The one standing in front of us today, with circumstances beyond his control (some what), is one who is marrying someone for love, but starting the relationship on a lie. Marriage is all about trust and compromise. To start something so scared off on lies is not the way. It is not fair to either Reva (who can't help that she is unwell, it 's not her fault) and Sugni (who thinks she is marrying someone who is giving her love and all the rights and respects of being a wife, both privately and socially).
What TVS did was wrong. I know he really loves Sugni, but think after marriage (think of how hurt and angry she is now) if he told her about Reva how would she feel? How would any of you feel? We all saw her hurt and emotions so well the other day. Just think for a minute, what she would do then? If you were Reva how would you feel? I am hurt that TVS has to be shown in this light. But the fact of the matter is that he is shown like that. The whole time I was watching the episode I was waiting for my old TVS to come back and take control of the situation, but he just stood there. I know I might make a lot of people angry by saying this, but TVS is lucky he didn't get the ring thrown at his face for what he did to Sugni. I had tears in my eyes watching as her world fell apart.
That went on a lot longer than I expected it to be. I know we all love Sugvi and are loyal fans, but we have to realize and admit to the fact when someone makes a mistake, even if it is someone who means the world to us, they have to accept the consequences that follow. And in this case, TVS made a really big one. I am sorry if a hurt anyone's feelings, but I just want people to look at the whole thing from G and Sugni's point of view and not bad mouth them without really understanding what they are going through. I just wish that Sugni did not have to see the truth this way and in front of everyone on her wedding day.
Originally posted by: XAiShBaBy08X
I agree! I mean, I understand that a lot of people like TVS...I do as well. BUT what he did was definitely wrong. Gulabiya is definitely going to be mad...especially since she has pent up frustration because nobody would believe her.A lot of people are saying that Gulabiya never said or defended her daughter before...but you have to take the circumstances at that time into consideration. Rai dance was their means of food. They have gone without doing it...so they didn't know how life would be if they didn't do Rai. Also, Gulabiya kept saying that Sugni will dance one day because she pretty much would put it off. She, at the time, didn't want to actually face the facts and make a decision...so she naturally kept putting it off and telling people that Sugni will dance one day in order to get the people off her back. When Sugni took Gulabiya's place to do the Rai dance...Gulabiya made the decision that she didn't want Sugni to dance and hence, tried her best to stop Sugni. Now after all of that...if a Thakur comes and promises to make all of Sugni's dreams come true...obviously Gulabiya is going to have doubts. Instead of getting rid of her doubts, she comes face to face with a truth that only confirms it...only to have it rejected by everyone. No one was ready to believe her. If this was happening to my daughter...I would have probably been even more furious...with my daughter and her so called fiance.All in all, I don't see what is wrong with what Gulabiya did. Sure...TVS is a human and made a mistake...but he broke everyone's trust...you can't expect everyone to just be quiet or be more respectful to him...it makes sense that Sugni throws the ring at him...even if it is his Mom's ring. At that time, she definitely is NOT going to think rationally.After all, EVERYONE is only human...not just TVS, but also Gulabiya and Sugni.
@suresh555 so true.
Remember it was G who went to TVS to get his word that he will in fact marry her daughter. G wanted nothing more than TVS marring Sugni. That was all that mattered to her. I don't understand how some people can say that G is jealous of her daughter. As a parent you want nothing but the best for your children. Everything you didn't have as a kid, you want to give to your children. That is why you work your bum off and sacrifice your life to make sure your children's dreams come true. And that is what G has been doing all her life. But when she found out that TVS was married, she didn't want him marrying Sugni because even if he did marry Sugni, she would be in fact be the "other women." Just like G herself. In society's eyes, she would still be a bedni and that is not what G wants and she knows that is definitely not what Sugni wants or ever wanted. So both hers and Sugni's anger are justified. Just for a moment put yourselves in G shoes as a mom, in her current situation and then think is her anger really justified? I know a bunch of people fell in love with Sugvi (I was one of them), but that was a different TVS that stole our hearts away and we fell in love with. The one standing in front of us today, with circumstances beyond his control (some what), is one who is marrying someone for love, but starting the relationship on a lie. Marriage is all about trust and compromise. To start something so scared off on lies is not the way. It is not fair to either Reva (who can't help that she is unwell, it 's not her fault) and Sugni (who thinks she is marrying someone who is giving her love and all the rights and respects of being a wife, both privately and socially).
What TVS did was wrong. I know he really loves Sugni, but think after marriage (think of how hurt and angry she is now) if he told her about Reva how would she feel? How would any of you feel? We all saw her hurt and emotions so well the other day. Just think for a minute, what she would do then? If you were Reva how would you feel? I am hurt that TVS has to be shown in this light. But the fact of the matter is that he is shown like that. The whole time I was watching the episode I was waiting for my old TVS to come back and take control of the situation, but he just stood there. I know I might make a lot of people angry by saying this, but TVS is lucky he didn't get the ring thrown at his face for what he did to Sugni. I had tears in my eyes watching as her world fell apart.
That went on a lot longer than I expected it to be. I know we all love Sugvi and are loyal fans, but we have to realize and admit to the fact when someone makes a mistake, even if it is someone who means the world to us, they have to accept the consequences that follow. And in this case, TVS made a really big one. I am sorry if a hurt anyone's feelings, but I just want people to look at the whole thing from G and Sugni's point of view and not bad mouth them without really understanding what they are going through. I just wish that Sugni did not have to see the truth this way and in front of everyone on her wedding day.
Excellent posts you both!Even though you may be in the minority as far as this thread and POVs AGAINST Gulabiya, hats off to both of you coz I am in the minority too, when I agree 110% with you both and take pride in saying that I WISH I HAD A MOTHER LIKE GULABIYA TOO! 👏 G was happy for Sug and even elated and emotional when she heard the happiness in Sugni's voice on the phone (July 2nd epi) re TVS shaadi announcement. But that was short-lived when G became the recipient of TVS one lie after another re RM. And the extent to which G had to struggle til the end to save her daughter from the impending heartbreaks, hurt and loss of trust, is all too well known to us.What G did all her life was what she had to do ... for the sake of PAAPI PET of entire family as per the promise she gave to her mother (no flashbacks though ~ in conversations). She fulfilled her end of the bargain even at the cost of her dignity, esp the night when she had no choice, no electricity, no food, and stealthily knocked at the door of TJS, and the dejected way she held the meager money in the palms of her hand, just so she could provide for the NEXT MEAL for the whole family. So she never wanted her proud daughter to lead a degraded, disrespectful life she did. Sugni's dreams became her sapne like the KAAJAL in her eyes, and like the umbilical cord that never broke between them.XAi, yes, I would have been more furious and intolerant too with my daughter than G, knowing what I know about the village, the unbreakable traditions of the Bedni system, and would take a thakur's proclaimed love for my Bedni daughter with a grain of salt.Today's epi was heart shattering and I actually had tears in my eyes watching Sugni's screams and break and throw the jewellery back at her home. IMO no other actor can perform it so earth-shatteringly. Gulki excelled at the haveli and put everyone to shame with her stand, her dignity, her truthful demeanor, her atmasammaan.So was TVS-Adi convo and arguments. Adi's righteous approach and TVS keeping firm in his stand for his love and the dialogue delivery, body language, were beyond commendable too. And what I found thought-provoking was the way epi ended when TVS shouted back at Adi and told him in no uncertain terms these powerpacked words ~~ DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA OR DO YOU EVEN RECOGNIZE THE TRUTH HIDDEN IN THE LIES AND LIES HIDDEN IN THE TRUTH ?? Remains to be seen how TVS would prove the meaning of these words to Adi and rest of his family thru his actions in the upcoming epis, if indeed he will ...Yes, the ring was thrown back at TVS but how would you react if you were in Sugni's place ? Her entire world came crumbling down, her dreams shattered in thousand pieces, would you still be very rational ??? Besides she noticed the ring while at the door on her way out of what was going to be her sasural, and a proud girl like her would turn physically around just so she can hand over the ring peacefully ???
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Originally posted by Saviosaraff
For once i loved Jiji's comment
Jiji says why you are blaming my brother look at your daughter because of my brother she is getting a position of a thakurian otherwise she would be dancing in front of Thakurs and waiting to be sold off .