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Posted: 9 years ago
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A person can be punished only once for a mistake , he cannot be hanged again and again... Abeer has made a mistake and already paid for it. Many times. He also tried his best with what he has to prove that he has changed. Honestly Meher's answer for not accepting her love did not sound convincing to me.. Although I liked the fact that atleast this time she did not push Abeer nor insult him and instead she confessed her fears. 👍🏼 Was able to appreciate that

Abeer just left her due to indifferences and some where even she knows that Taiji and Kuber had a bigger hand in bringing up the differences and it was not entirely Abeer's fault. 😔 Everybody makes mistakes in their life. But more than anything Abeer is still loyal to her, and he has paid for his mistakes many times. 😔 He should not be punished for ever due to his past.


Meher is making him marry Sasha just because she does not trust him due to his past mistakes. That would mean she would be punishing him forever - all his life due to his past one mistake which did not look convincing to me as this would mean there is no forgiveness in relationships. Like ABeer said even the person who is dying will have his last wish fulfilled. Meher needs to learn to forgive.😔 Hope Meher realises this soon when she sees Abeer bonding with Ishaan.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Its easy for us to say give a chance to Abeer. But I think Meher got hurt terribly in that entire fiasco that Abeer created. Now with Ishaan too with her... she would be skeptical. Only thing I would say is Abeer should be given a chance to redeem himself.
That chance will come tomorrow with or without Meher wishing for it... I wont blame Meher... Abeer did dig his own grave 8 yrs back.😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is not that easy especially given the fact Meher came from a broken home herself. We all know Abeer is nothing like Shyam but I see where Meher is coming from, Shyam's actions affected her and Tunnu and she doesn't want that for her son. Abeer has changed and I believe he loves Meher a lot but he is still emotional and can still be impulsive, his wedding to Sasha is proof of that. Meher does not want their son to get hurt, she wants better for her child and I can't blame her for that. I want Abeer to learn the truth and I am happy he is going to learn but Meher, her POV is not entirely wrong.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i don't think meher is at fault for not giving abeer another chance. She has her right to move on and not go back to someone who left her in the middle.
but she absolutely has no right to hide about ishaan. Just because she is the mother doesn't make him any less of a father.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chessy

Its easy for us to say give a chance to Abeer. But I think Meher got hurt terribly in that entire fiasco that Abeer created. Now with Ishaan too with her... she would be skeptical. Only thing I would say is Abeer should be given a chance to redeem himself.

That chance will come tomorrow with or without Meher wishing for it... I wont blame Meher... Abeer did dig his own grave 8 yrs back.😭


Easy for us to say... Yes... But isn't this the sensible thing to do. And meher who claimed to have suffered a lot in the past 8 years, well I have no words for that girl. She very well knows kuber played with her n abeer. She kinda knew tayi never left a chance to create problems. But no... She will not say a word abt it to her husband. Why...?? Because she is playing the role of a sanskari bahu. And coming from a broken family, her focus should be more on her husband making sure nothing really comes in between them. She should have concentrated on being abeer's wife rather than being an ideal daughter in-law. That's what every girl does nowadays... And yes abeer ran away but he did come back asking for second chance. But then she pushes him away saying he isn't guilty and blah blah blah... And then she spends a night with the same man and leaves him with a note. This gesture... Well it would make any person feel ridiculous and rejected...
Abeer deserves better now...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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yeah Meher's reason was not that convincing but she's not totally wrong either. Yes Abeer has changed but he's still very much impulsive and that's what Meher is scared off. She has taken the decision of not reuniting with Abeer as a mother. When Shyam left...Meher and her family had to suffer a lot. Meher doesn't want Ishaan to go through the same. She wants to give him a safe, secure and most importantly a stable environment which she thinks only Akshat can provide.

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