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Samanalyse

@Samanalyse

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Posted: 10 years ago

Even though we are no closer to discovering the actual cause for the divorce, there were some interesting clues that were dropped today, especially from Meher's perspective. Abeer felt that Meher cared only about money and not about their marriage, and Meher felt that Abeer was refusing to snap out of his land of dreams, unwilling to face some very real, hard-hitting truth in their lives. It's very easy to see both of their perspectives regarding the issue that came up here: there was clearly something which required more financial resources than they had at the time. While it seems Abeer was quite happy to live in denial of the problem, Meher was eager to find a way to solve it, that is, get the money necessary. Only mystery left to be solved is what that problem was.

What I find interesting here, and where my titular suspicions come in, is that Abeer's accusations about Meher echo his father's sentiments about her: that she was a gold-digger who took advantage of Abeer's naivety. In keeping with the theme of one's own heart being the greatest enemy, I don't think Kuber was an outright villain who deliberately split Abeer and Meher up. But it seems like he never trusted her and always assumed that she saw their family as a stepping-stone to money and professional progress.

My gut feeling is that a badly-timed course of events made his father's suspicions to seem well-founded to Abeer, causing him to accuse Meher of gold-digging and not really loving him. I think the fact that he trusted his father over her at that time was what broke Meher, and after that she was too broken/proud/angry - we'll need to know more to figure out exactly which - to want to give the relationship another chance at that moment. Also, it could be that Abeer didn't retract his accusation but was willing to overlook what he thought was her mistake, and for Meher that was unacceptable.

I think this is where the 2.5 crores, Meher's secret and the cause for divorce all converge. My guess is that Meher, to solve whatever real-world problem this was, either asked Kuber or some third-party dude (which opens up the possibility for accusations of adultery) for money out of desperation but didn't tell them what it was for and maybe didn't tell Abeer either. Probably Kuber and Abeer were estranged at the time and this gave Kuber a chance to say' "I told you so" to his son, but without knowing all the facts. As we know, Abeer acts like a maniac when his ego is hurt and he too probably didn't understand, or didn't want to understand, the truth of the situation, so he accused Meher... of something which was unacceptable to her. Then Meher might have been all "where there is no trust, what is the point?" OR she might have felt like, "well, if I have to hear accusations, why not do the thing I am accused for?" and taken the money.

Either way, it's clear that they really needed that money for something, some majboori as Meher said. And it was probably that same something that the 2.5 crores were used for, and that same thing is probably Meher's big secret...

What do you think?

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suma madhuri

@madhufx9...

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Posted: 10 years ago

Great post dear .

I clearly don't know what happened .

But after today's episode I framed few imaginations 😆

I hope u remember Kuber telling Shyam , "anything came into this home without permission has no place in this home " then he throws that Shyama sweet box outside .

With that what I thought was , meh beers marriage was against to Kuber . And I think Kuber might have challenged Abeer to live on his own with his wife . And Mehbeer might be struggling financially, at that point , Meher might have tried to knock some sense into still immature Abeer , should have asked him to come out of his dreams.

Mehers continuous insisting ,suggestions might have clouded Abeers opinion about her for a short period of time , he might have said something , which she never wanted to listen , she was hurt. Then Abeer realised but was late and they ended up taking divorce with manipulation of controlling father and creepy father .

I know this highly dramatic 🤣

Whatever scenario is , bottom line is , both are at fault . Even Meher accepted it in today's episode

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Anushka

@bebo2050

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Posted: 10 years ago

Even i think something along the same lines must have happened. I remember in the earlier episodes Abheer telling Meher " i had to get ashamed in front of my father" . That and some other factors added must have created a huge misunderstanding. :(

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Samanalyse

@Samanalyse

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: madhufx9...
Great post dear .
I clearly don't know what happened .
But after today's episode I framed few imaginations 😆
I hope u remember Kuber telling Shyam , "anything came into this home without permission has no place in this home " then he throws that Shyama sweet box outside .

With that what I thought was , meh beers marriage was against to Kuber . And I think Kuber might have challenged Abeer to live on his own with his wife . And Mehbeer might be struggling financially, at that point , Meher might have tried to knock some sense into still immature Abeer , should have asked him to come out of his dreams.

Mehers continuous insisting ,suggestions might have clouded Abeers opinion about her for a short period of time , he might have said something , which she never wanted to listen , she was hurt. Then Abeer realised but was late and they ended up taking divorce with manipulation of controlling father and creepy father .

I know this highly dramatic 🤣

Whatever scenario is , bottom line is , both are at fault . Even Meher accepted it in today's episode

With two leads like this at the center of the story, it's hard not to imagine highly dramatic situations! 😆

But in all seriousness, I completely agree that whatever MU they had was a two-person operation. The way I see it, both were trying to make the other understand something on their own terms, at the wrong time. Perhaps if Meher had been a little more patient with Abeer, he would have come to realize the gravity of "the situation" himself and worked with her to find a solution. And if Abeer had spoken in favor of saving their marriage a little sooner than the night before the divorce, Meher might have been more amenable. They were both immature, had strong, opposing personalities and didn't really try to see it from the other's perspective.. whatever "it" was. 😆

Maybe Abeer didn't fully understand how insecure and scared Meher felt about being financially unstable, given that he grew up in the lap of luxury, and Meher didn't totally get how bad the relationship between Abeer and his father was, given that she had and still has such an unconditionally loving and solid support system in her mother and Bua. Both were stubborn in seeing "the situation" through their own eyes and ended up hurting each other more than they thought they could. It's easy to imagine this. Abeer seems extremely thick-skinned and never lets on how much his dad hurts him, but that is his one sore spot. Similarly, Meher seems strong and invincible, like nothing could shake her but actually that facade she creates comes from a place of deep fear and insecurity caused by her father's abandonment and years of financial struggle. Maybe they loved each other but didn't really take the time to understand and respect their differences. It'll be interesting to see how it's different this time around.

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Samanalyse

@Samanalyse

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: bebo2050
Even i think something along the same lines must have happened. I remember in the earlier episodes Abheer telling Meher " i had to get ashamed in front of my father" . That and some other factors added must have created a huge misunderstanding. :(

Oh interesting! I didn't know about Abeer saying that since I am still catching up on the earlier episodes. Yeah, I honestly feel there is no villain here but their own egos, and until they agree to see each other's point of view, it will stay that way. 😒

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: bebo2050
Even i think something along the same lines must have happened. I remember in the earlier episodes Abheer telling Meher " i had to get ashamed in front of my father" . That and some other factors added must have created a huge misunderstanding. :(

But I thought Abeer was referring to the fact that his dad put him down in front of Meher because Meher scored so much higher on the entrance exam? That's why he took revenge from Meher by spiking her drink. 😆

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Gems.musingsRN

@Gems.musingsRN

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Posted: 10 years ago

But when will they sort it all out??

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-farzana

@-farzana

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Posted: 10 years ago

Lovely review :)

I think it was due to some financial problems as well. MehBeer's wedding was most likely against Kubers wish and maybe he asked Abeer to take care of their own costs after few months of their marriage and that's when everything started going downhill cause Abeer was really laid back and took everything really lightly and maybe that's why Meher was constantly at him about it. And in between Kuber managed to create Misunderstandings between them and he was successful. Plus Meher's hiding something from Abeer and doesn't want him to find out anything. Maybe if he knew things wouldn't have gotten this far I could be wrong though.Meher and Abeer are two stubborn individuals who love each other too much but try to hide it behind the hate.

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melody442

@melody442

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Posted: 10 years ago

Interesting and much needed post and discussion. There are 2-3 points which bother me regarding MehBeer's divorce:

First is of course the issue of Rs. 2.5 CR's. Its clear that Mehar needed the money desperately...But for what? And then again a lot of Mehars killer instinct and focus on work arises from this need of not being in the same helpless situation as before. Financial Stability is important for her so that she doesnt have to bend again. Using Kuber Malhotras money would have been a very difficult and demeaning decision for her. But what interests me more is has she tried to return the money? I know she is not at all obligated to. But the way Mehars character is shown,with her wanting to prove that she is not weak or helpless or dependent on anyone's mercy, it seems natural to presume that she would try to return the money as soon as she can. So if she hasn't attempted it yet,what could be the reason?

Second point is what is this grovelling that Abeer keeps referring to? So they had a huge fight, Abeer might have said things he was not supposed to or left her midway as she said today...But Abeer came back begging for forgiveness and Mehar refused to take him back. Why? Abeer is shown as immature and impulsive, but Mehar was mature, and even though she has a huge pride/ego she is not really impulsive or irrational. So why didn't she forgive A beer? Was he so out of line that he did or said things that were unforgivable even after apology? Or was it culmination of many small events rather than just one big event that convinced Mehar that their relationship had no future? Or were there some other situations too that contributed to her decision?

Thirdly if their break up was so bitter, why do their mothers still hold the other party in such high regard, siding with them against their own children. And yet again Mehars Busa and esp Kuber Malhotra seem to have all the bitterness for the exes. How can same situation evoke such different response from everyone?

All in all its a pretty intriguing scenario. One thing I want from CVs is to use flash backs a bit more cleverly. Till now flashbacks have been in mostly chronological order from the initial days when their love story was still developing. It would be a nice change if they could give flashbacks of their later days. Not the major fight, but the small disagreements after their marriage. It would build suspense and curiosity as well as give some glimpse of how and why gradually things started changing for MehBeer post marriage.

Edited by -enchanted- - 10 years ago