How will mehbeer patch up again?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: ratna.nanda

ofc we all love meher unanimously.but do u think they having a heart to heart talk with each other[where there's no interruption,the atm was a good opportunity😕] can sort out things??

Originally posted by: madhufx9...

@ Ratna

I don't know how far my reasoning is correct , but what I feel about ur question of Abeer not visiting her house for 8 years is

He does love her , they got married at a very young age and they didn't know how to protect it . Some times we mess things without predicting consequences . Same thing might have happened in abeers case , he was young, crazily in love , as u know Abeer is not less than stubborn child , remember football scene or all glimpses of flash back , he is the one behind her , HOH in love , so passionate for her , he was stubborn and sat in front of her house for 3 days just to make her agree for marriage .

In the every step of their love journey he is the one first to move . And when they got divorced no doubt , even he would have broken badly, equally like Meher . Both thinks others are to be blamed.

In spite of his yearning, love , pain , hate , this time he might want her to take first move . He mightily badly hurt when she never looked back for 8 years .

And when she came taking that first step , his anger is over ruling him , he is suppressing his pain, love ,parading only hate . I feel some part of his heart might be happy after all he was waiting for her to take that first step from 8 years. Though his intentions are different . They just need each other presence .

This is what I feel . Sorry if u don't agree .😆

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

you know a having a heart to heart is easier said than done. its not simply about saying- i love you and thats that. you need to really WANT to understand where the other person is coming from and hear them out. sometimes we get so wrapped up in being right that as a defense mechanism we CHOOSE not to have a difficult conversation which will prove that we're both wrong. thus we don't have the convo. abeer and mehar are there right now. ratna you know I've watched my parents for 15 years being there for each other at their worst and then fighting through it all but they've still never managed to say a simple i was wrong, I'm sorry and i love you to each other. its about really understanding where the other is coming from and both parties wanting to take a step forward. then only a heart to heart can happen. in order to start communicating well, you have to start with acknowledging that the opponent is the only one who failed. thats VERY hard to do. its easier to play a blame game. so right now, whilst they're both playing the blame game, it'll be very difficult for them to have a honest vulnerable conversation to sort things out.

Originally posted by: ratna.nanda

well,i agree,this is a most-possible explanation[i admit,i didnt think this way.]i actually felt abeer might have tried ofc,to catch atleast a glimpse of meher,without her knowing it in the initial days/months after divorce,but what if meher didn't want to meet abeer at all,she might have been shifting places for job [or if the cvs are going for the rumoured mehbeer kid track,meher would have made sure that abeer wont find her or the kid,knowing abeer's nature and cunningness of his dad,she's sane enough to keep their kid from all this confusion and misery,or avoid a possible custody drama.anyways,its just a theory.what do u think??]
but in the present scenario,ur explanation perfectly fits.😊