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@Problem.C

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Arya311

it's good to see such self confidence in a female character on this channel. Meher isn't shown to be moping around or shedding ounces of tears after the past. She thinks about it each time Abeer provokes a memory/ incident but then moves forward. Abeer, on the other hand, is still very much stuck 8 years ago. He hasn't been able to let go or at least even put up a pretense of letting go.

i totally agree with you.So far,i'm loving the portrayal of Meher,she isn't moping around or shedding tears but at the same time we are able to see that the past does affect her.No i don't think Abeer has let go of meher completely,its evident in his actions.He loved her and he thought she betray that love hence he wants to hurt her

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Arya311
Agree with both of you guys and your points. That's what I think might have happened too.
Abeer's dad seems like one of those with superiority complex and arrogance. He might not have liked Meher's social standing at that time and from what we saw of her dad so far, it would have played an effect on him too. Meher's dad seems like a greedy person and so, Abeer's dad might have misjudged her based on that and other things. Then, there might have been problems between Abeer and his dad regarding financial stuff and Meher not wanting Abeer to depend on his dad post their marriage. His dad might have filled his ears with stuff like Meher married him for his dad's business and all.

Either way, Abeer seems to blame Meher and Meher doesn't protest Abeer and his constant alimony jabs. Wonder why?

I think it is Meher's aunt, she seems like an opportunist and saw a way of making her life cushy through Meher by making her ambitious and driving her for a divorce with alimony

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Scarlet Wizard

@FromTheAshes

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

All your points seems valid except the affair one.

I think the seperation has something to do with abeer's dad maybe a misunderstanding cteated by him.

Somewhere I feel Buaji was also involved in this dont know why but I feel it.

The abortion part can be valid,abeer is more emotional and sensitive than meher as far as we have shown.

The clash of ideologies could be a reason as well.

Seeing the confidenve in meher I think she was not wrong but circumstances were.

Abeer is still stuck at what happened 8byears before and meher has moved on becouse I think she knows what actaully happened and abeer still has to know the entire truth.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

My take. Of course clash of ideologies would have come in, so would be ego battles . But what I feel is the fact that both Abeer's dad and Meher's bua had a big role to play in that divorce.

Abeer's dad would never have approved of his marriage to Meher because of social standing as he might be a man who give very much importance to family status and fame. Alliance of Abeer and Meher would have topled his business plan as he might have wanted Abeer to marry some business honcho's daughter, as in many high societies marriage is a medium of creating new ties and business expansion. So from day one he might have been waiting for issues to crop up to ensure Abeer-Meher marriage is not a success. And when issues came he might have made mountain out of mole hill

Meher's bua being a divorcee attorney instead of trying to understand the problem and solve it would have wanted to make her take the escape route of divorce. Problems which would have been solved by give and take, she would have told Meher not to tolerate with dialogues like you are educated, you should not bend etc etc.. I mean some kind of extreme feminism. Meher who have seen her parent's broken marriage went as she said as she might have had some trust deficit also.

So simple problems which could be solved by just sitting, talking and giving in were swept under the carpet, when they came out many other people were involved and this might have ended in divorce.

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Meghna

@slyther_in

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#15

anyways not the last 1

i heard they have a child too

is that true?

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Lasya

@Dexterity

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Well , I think some sort of misunderstandings were created between the couple and it lead to divorce and perhaps Abeer's dad influenced Meher to think about her career and thus gave her alimony (he might have emotionally blackmailed her )

Abeer and Meher thus got seperated ...

Although MUs could have been cleared and may be EGO also played it's part ...

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