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fkbutt

@fkbutt

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Posted: 16 years ago

i dont know how people judge very early without thinking,if u see today episode and tomorrow clips gur clearly mention that it is too fast for her too see vevek for marriage ,and she never think about it before and she said everything in front of vevik 's mom and sudesh rani and she said that before her elimination,so just chill,everyone first talking about she should leave yash and move on ,i have no idea why we are so fast to pass a comment on a person ,for me she is real with vevik and his mother rest is fake and for me yash and his mom are the most immature person and they should not come to this kind a show,He never liked Pooja till the day when she called him for a date and never mentioned Nandita's name till his mother forced him.Please Star plus do not give this Guy the privilege of thinking that he is GOD's blessing on earth.Do not let him have his way as he will create a wrong example for all the GUYS who think they are good looking and can play with any body's emotions.

I earnestly request that before his elimination YASHDEEP should have a serious face off and be made aware of the fact that NO BODY in the show or even in the outside worked has any bit of respect left for him after his shameless statements and rude behavior towards every one

Edited by fkbutts - 16 years ago

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Suresh

@suresh555

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Posted: 16 years ago

I agree. Yash and his mom are disgusting. They have no business being on this show

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fkbutt

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Posted: 16 years ago

I feel really sorry for Gurpreet. She has taken enough abuse and insult from Yeshdeep and she need to stop it now and look forward. She is a tallented girl and I'm sure she will find a better family than Nains. I wish her best of luck.

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: fkbutts
i dont know how people judge very early without thinking,if u see today episode and tomorrow clips gur clearly mention that it is too fast for her too see vevek for marriage ,and she never think about it before and she said everything in front of vevik 's mom and sudesh rani and she said that before her elimination,so just chill,everyone first talking about she should leave yash and move on ,i have no idea why we are so fast to pass a comment on a person ,for me she is real with vevik and his mother rest is fake and for me yash and his mom are the most immature person and they should not come to this kind a show,He never liked Pooja till the day when she called him for a date and never mentioned Nandita's name till his mother forced him.Please Star plus do not give this Guy the privilege of thinking that he is GOD's blessing on earth.Do not let him have his way as he will create a wrong example for all the GUYS who think they are good looking and can play with any body's emotions.
I earnestly request that before his elimination YASHDEEP should have a serious face off and be made aware of the fact that NO BODY in the show or even in the outside worked has any bit of respect left for him after his shameless statements and rude behavior towards every one

😲 that's a pretty big statement to make. I have plenty of respect for him. I know a lot of people in this forum who still have plenty of respect for him.

Finding a girl for him is not a live or die situation. Both mother and son know they shouldn't have to settle in the show in order to get Yash married to the right girl. They are not desperate like rest of the contestants. Look at the choices left. What is he suppose to do? After Nandita left there was no one decent left.

As your topic said lets not judge without thinking. What did he say that was so rude? Or when did he play with a girl's emotions?

I get so confused when I come to this forum. No one ever answers this question for me " what was he suppose to do??" He did not love Gur. Gur herself said she did not love Yash. His mother was against relationship and she proved on stage that she is too blunt for her own good and proved his mother's point. Where did he play with anyone's emotions? Gur pursued him not the other way around. It wasn't as if he sought her out , made promises of love and then deserted her.

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Kasturilover

@Kasturilover

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

😲 that's a pretty big statement to make. I have plenty of respect for him. I know a lot of people in this forum who still have plenty of respect for him.

Finding a girl for him is not a live or die situation. Both mother and son know they shouldn't have to settle in the show in order to get Yash married to the right girl. They are not desperate like rest of the contestants. Look at the choices left. What is he suppose to do? After Nandita left there was no one decent left.

As your topic said lets not judge without thinking. What did he say that was so rude? Or when did he play with a girl's emotions?

I get so confused when I come to this forum. No one ever answers this question for me " what was he suppose to do??" He did not love Gur. Gur herself said she did not love Yash. His mother was against relationship and she proved on stage that she is too blunt for her own good and proved his mother's point. Where did he play with anyone's emotions? Gur pursued him not the other way around. It wasn't as if he sought her out , made promises of love and then deserted her.

Perfangel5655

Thank you and very well said.

I think Yashdeep after Gaurav were the only ones worth considering. I would consider to marry Yash if I met him. Not because he is good looking, which he is, but because I rather live with a family that knows its priorities and have the guts to stick by it, than the fly in the direction of the wind operators.

As for his excessive sleeping......thats understandable😆. With the ladies and gentry around, I would also prefer being comatose most of the time😳😉.

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Chingu

@Chingaari

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Posted: 16 years ago

thanks Perfangel for perfect post.

I do like Yash and his mom alot..they are the most wonderful and decent people on the show..Thnk god they didnt approve abusive clever gurpreet .

Love them both..

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fkbutt

@fkbutt

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Posted: 16 years ago

we need to see this fact that gurpreet is the best and yash also likes her alot ,did u guys ever seen him talking about nandita??????which clearly shows this fact he only likes gurpreet and he is missing her,if there is a marriage of parents choice only then we dont need this show ,we have seen these things in everyday life
STAR PLUS HAVE TO SHOW THAT HOW THIS MARRAIGE CAN HAPPEN IN A GOOD MANNERS WHERE PARENTS DONT LISTEN THEIR KIDS WITHOU A SOILD REASON ,AS THIS IS PROBLEM OF THAT BOY WHO IS HOSTING THIS SHOW TOO,

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mechocoholic

@mechocoholic

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: fkbutts
i dont know how people judge very early without thinking,if u see today episode and tomorrow clips gur clearly mention that it is too fast for her too see vevek for marriage ,and she never think about it before and she said everything in front of vevik 's mom and sudesh rani and she said that before her elimination,so just chill,everyone first talking about she should leave yash and move on ,i have no idea why we are so fast to pass a comment on a person ,for me she is real with vevik and his mother rest is fake and for me yash and his mom are the most immature person and they should not come to this kind a show,He never liked Pooja till the day when she called him for a date and never mentioned Nandita's name till his mother forced him.Please Star plus do not give this Guy the privilege of thinking that he is GOD's blessing on earth.Do not let him have his way as he will create a wrong example for all the GUYS who think they are good looking and can play with any body's emotions.
I earnestly request that before his elimination YASHDEEP should have a serious face off and be made aware of the fact that NO BODY in the show or even in the outside worked has any bit of respect left for him after his shameless statements and rude behavior towards every one

Who says that nobody has any respect for him???, if by that you mean yourself, then ok, but u are not the whole world, you have your view and others have theirs, i still respect Yash,😃he is mature, sensible, and has a firm head on his shoulders, and is not just swayed away by any flouncy that struts her stuff in front of him, he has enough backbone to stand up for his mom who birthed him and raised him, and brush the girl away who he just met like dust....👏....it was gurpreet who was salivating at his good looks, and went after him strong and hard, he was just getting to know her, he spoke abt nandita in the very first episode of the show, kindly go back and watch it....and then already 2 guys were after nandita, so maybe he backed off a bit, but then when he did get the oppurtunity he did take nandita out, and actually clicked with her😊....but since she was promptly eliminated he never got an oppurtunity to get to know her more....😕

Secondly if anyone is shameless, and has made rude and disgusting remarks on this show, it is none other than gurpreet herself, so if anyone has lost repect on that count, it's her....and she's losing even more respect everyday by continuing to pursue him so desperately, even after he has repeatedly turned her down....🤢

Edited by mechocoholic - 16 years ago

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gossipgurls

@gossipgurls

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Posted: 16 years ago

If Gur had a Tiny ... a very tiny bit of self respect left she would have never come back to the show.......... even if she came back she would not shamelessly pursued Yash again........ after he totally told her that they is nothing that can happen in between them.

common yaar its not rocket science, ant girl in real life would never go back to that person who rejected her......... for that matter any guy/girl would not like the way gur spoke to yash mom.. Period

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arthivijay

@arthivijay

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Posted: 16 years ago

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I agree with fkbutts.

I dont understand how come some ppl feel yash + mom deserves soooo much respect when everyone who was in the house and saw what was going on also felt yash and his mom were doing wrong. They saw what was really going on, not just the edited 20 mins we get to see, and they all strongly reacted in gurpreets favour. This reaction was shown clearly. All the other mummies were strongly telling yash mom her approach was wrong, the mentors and audience were telling yash to not back down and so on.

In spite of that, idk what basis this claim that yash is mature etc. What yash is doing now is damage control when he saw the strong backlash. He shut down, met who he is told to meet, sleep and he made his mother shut up too. This doesnt mean he is mature or any of those things. It means he backed off himself and told Gurpreet to go away also because he doesnt know how to handle his mother.

The basic problem is still there. He has a fundamental communication gap with his mother.

Respect works both ways. Respect doesnt mean what Yash is doing. There is a way to respectfully convince somebody also. Respect doesnt mean becoming a doormat and letting the other person steamroller you when you and the whole world knows they are clearly wrong.

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