Control, Hitesh and Gulabo

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hitesh and his mom think they are open minded but in fact Hitesh is mamma' s boy, he is always whisphering in his mom ear on the stage. He cannot accept Pooja eating non-veg outside the house..he totally wants her change for him. I don't think Pooja should accept this rigid and controlling behavior..this reeks of control...In days to come this kind of control will increase.
Pooja's mom can sense this, she said Pooja will not eat non-veg at Hitesh's home but should be free to eat non-veg outside and at her parents home.
In the end Hitesh and Pooja will break up on control issue...Pooja doesn't want to be controled, she is sensing control and pressure..
I am disappointed in Hitesh and his mom's stance that Pooja should give up non-veg and she shouldn't eat meat outside or at her parents home.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007

Hitesh and his mom think they are open minded but in fact Hitesh is mamma' s boy, he is always whisphering in his mom ear on the stage. He cannot accept Pooja eating non-veg outside the house..he totally wants her change for him. I don't think Pooja should accept this rigid and controlling behavior..this reeks of control...In days to come this kind of control will increase.
Pooja's mom can sense this, she said Pooja will not eat non-veg at Hitesh's home but should be free to eat non-veg outside and at her parents home.
In the end Hitesh and Pooja will break up on control issue...Pooja doesn't want to be controled, she is sensing control and pressure..
I am disappointed in Hitesh and his mom's stance that Pooja should give up non-veg and she shouldn't eat meat outside or at her parents home.



I totally agree, April. Atleast Viveks mom states that she is alright with the girl eating non veg outside the house. These people are wierd..😕 and marriages dont function in this manner. He does not want to adjust to Pooja but wants her to change herself dramatically. And yes, Hitty is a proper Momma's boy. It was much more evident at the time when Gulabo was giving suggestions to vivek when Hitty whispered into her ears that she should not

P.S-April, I always thought that you were pro-Gulabo but I am impressed about your neutral stance on this issue😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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as pooja's mom said, "let it be a personal choice" . I think these are small matters and there is solution for everything. however, the way hitesh confirmed that his wife shud be veg and he will accept ONLY a veg wife...this make matters crystal clear that pooja is not meant for hitesh. actually she is not fit for any1...yash is a confused person..(not serious) ..pooja don't take vivek in that way and raj is foccussed...to pooja bach gayi...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunandshine



I totally agree, April. Atleast Viveks mom states that she is alright with the girl eating non veg outside the house. These people are wierd..😕 and marriages dont function in this manner. He does not want to adjust to Pooja but wants her to change herself dramatically. And yes, Hitty is a proper Momma's boy. It was much more evident at the time when Gulabo was giving suggestions to vivek when Hitty whispered into her ears that she should not

P.S-April, I always thought that you were pro-Gulabo but I am impressed about your neutral stance on this issue😊

I like Gulabo but her stance that Pooja shouldn't eat non-veg at all reeks or control. I don't think relationships work this way. If they want veg wife they look for vegetarian family, to force somebody to convert to your way of thinking is neither good nor feasible..there will be life long resentment, sooner of later person will not follow the dictates because it is not coming from their heart it is imposed. I don't like anybody to impose their view on others.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanaz_aka_DD

as pooja's mom said, "let it be a personal choice" . I think these are small matters and there is solution for everything. however, the way hitesh confirmed that his wife shud be veg and he will accept ONLY a veg wife...this make matters crystal clear that pooja is not meant for hitesh. actually she is not fit for any1...yash is a confused person..(not serious) ..pooja don't take vivek in that way and raj is foccussed...to pooja bach gayi...

As a result of this show Pooja has got so much positive publicity, she will have no problem in attracking many very eligible bachlors. She is not desperate to settle for anybody.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Pooja is so scared of hitty's mom already and trust me as dominating as hitty's mom is, Pooja will be in a state everytime where she has to listen to either hitty or his mom....It's totally not safe for her to be in this relationship...

she is though very smart n I know for sure that she is sticking to hitty because she wants to stay in the show....I think she shud go with vivek...he is more suitable for her...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: humtumghumsum

Pooja is so scared of hitty's mom already and trust me as dominating as hitty's mom is, Pooja will be in a state everytime where she has to listen to either hitty or his mom....It's totally not safe for her to be in this relationship...

she is though very smart n I know for sure that she is sticking to hitty because she wants to stay in the show....I think she shud go with vivek...he is more suitable for her...

No Vivek...he wants a wife that is an high wage earner..like Nadita. Nadita dumped him, he will be looking for another doctor.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i personally don't think any thing of Hitesh..he is being liked by all these girls caz of his mom's status. Otherwise his attitude, nature ..everything is wrong. and his stand on eating non-veg, veg is completely out of the line. I personally wouldnt like anybody telling me to stop eating something or start eating something just for their love. It's a control issue..just caz Hitesh believes are against eating nonveg, doesn't mean Pooja or any other girl for that matter should believe that.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I can already feel Pooja's acts are more to please hitesh's mom coz she knows even when she is not MOTW , she does have a control over all the other mummies ....
Edited by KehanT - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nothing would be more satisfying to watch on this show than to see Pooja openly and outrightly REJECTING Hittesh and his mom in the end............

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