being modern and broadminded has nothing to do with having a preference. if a woman and her son wants to have a vegi girl then i dont see nothing wrong with it.. they must have reasons for it.. but the point is are they rejecting a girl coz of fthis? no.. have they been rejecting girls on this basis .. they wouldnt like pooja in the first place..
it looks like they are trying to convince her to become vegi..which they have a right to . and they have never said ' listen girl you become vegitarian or forget abt us.' i m sure if hitesh get married to pooja at all.. he or his family wouldnt be so stuck on non veg issue.. and i think as the relationship grows strong one learns to adapt to lot of things of the other person which is natural if u really wana being with him/her.
i dont wana any arguements with u mitti