Is Rajbir's Dad right?

Originally posted by: yyyy

So many topics about the Raj's dad..well in my opinion he was wrong because he could have been more polite ...i am not interested to type the same thing again and again..

Originally posted by: shellily

I think Rajbir's dad was absolutely right in expressing his thoughts. Its not that every family likes the choice of bahu's their sons make and if the family doesnt like Pri it is completely their prerogative to mention it. Also Dad said very objectively -- give everyone a chance dont just stick to one get to know everyone -- and then after that whatever is Rajvir's choice they will accept. So what's wrong with that? The older generation of people are quite direct and dont sugar coat and say stuff so he might have seemed rude... but I can vouch and say he didnt mean to be -- it was just his way of expressing it... I know many older people who seem rude like this but they are just trying to be direct.

How many of you feel Dad was right in saying what he did?

Posting somethign I wrote on another post in connection with this:

It was so obvious that Rajvir's mom didnt like Priyanka and now her dad also expressed his displeasure over Priyanka. He also said the rest of the family members too didnt really like her too much while talking to Rajvir. So really Rajvir shud not pursue this any more. At any rate he is a unsuccessful model doing nothing else but in the family business -- how the hell will he support a wife and family without his family's support? And he really doesnt look competent enough to do anything on his own -- so if he depends on his family he does have to give a thought to their likes and dislikes. And as it seems now none of the family members are too keen on Priyanks. Also my thoughts on Priyanks and her family is that they are too dominating and even though many forum members dont agree they are the kinds who wont adjust to anything and Im sure the sister will be very interfering.

It was also very weird that as soon as the Rajvir thing seems to have fizzled out Priyanka dropped him like a hot potato and ran to Yashdeep's mom to butter her up and then to talk with Yashdeep. Really cheap... atleast let 1-2 days pass before jumping on to another guy. Also she was promising Gurpreet that she will talk to Yash's mom on Gurpreet's behalf but looks like now she is all set to snare Yash.

And anyay lets see what Rajvir does now. In my opinion he makes a much better pair with Pooja... Vrinda who his parents love may also work if given a chance - though at the date both really didnt have any chemistry...but that may have been becoz Rajvir was very stiff and didnt give it a chance.

Originally posted by: shinningstar

yea one can be polite only as long as the other person is listening and understanding...not unreasonable and cutting ur words and behaving immature as in this case...anywaz he wasnt rude at all...he was only frank n clear.

Originally posted by: shellily

I think Rajbir's dad was absolutely right in expressing his thoughts. Its not that every family likes the choice of bahu's their sons make and if the family doesnt like Pri it is completely their prerogative to mention it. Also Dad said very objectively -- give everyone a chance dont just stick to one get to know everyone -- and then after that whatever is Rajvir's choice they will accept. So what's wrong with that? The older generation of people are quite direct and dont sugar coat and say stuff so he might have seemed rude... but I can vouch and say he didnt mean to be -- it was just his way of expressing it... I know many older people who seem rude like this but they are just trying to be direct.

How many of you feel Dad was right in saying what he did?

Posting somethign I wrote on another post in connection with this:

It was so obvious that Rajvir's mom didnt like Priyanka and now her dad also expressed his displeasure over Priyanka. He also said the rest of the family members too didnt really like her too much while talking to Rajvir. So really Rajvir shud not pursue this any more. At any rate he is a unsuccessful model doing nothing else but in the family business -- how the hell will he support a wife and family without his family's support? And he really doesnt look competent enough to do anything on his own -- so if he depends on his family he does have to give a thought to their likes and dislikes. And as it seems now none of the family members are too keen on Priyanks. Also my thoughts on Priyanks and her family is that they are too dominating and even though many forum members dont agree they are the kinds who wont adjust to anything and Im sure the sister will be very interfering.

It was also very weird that as soon as the Rajvir thing seems to have fizzled out Priyanka dropped him like a hot potato and ran to Yashdeep's mom to butter her up and then to talk with Yashdeep. Really cheap... atleast let 1-2 days pass before jumping on to another guy. Also she was promising Gurpreet that she will talk to Yash's mom on Gurpreet's behalf but looks like now she is all set to snare Yash.

And anyay lets see what Rajvir does now. In my opinion he makes a much better pair with Pooja... Vrinda who his parents love may also work if given a chance - though at the date both really didnt have any chemistry...but that may have been becoz Rajvir was very stiff and didnt give it a chance.

i m now getting sick of it!!

Just Praying for them!i really in love wth the jodi!