Way to go Nandita!!!!

JattiTude thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#1
I am so happy that she put forward her thought of completing her Residency (PG) and if she feels she can get it done better in the US... then a man has to be supportive.......... You know how much hard work does it take to complete those USMLE exams.... and if she would have compromised on that because of Gaurav or any other guy..... then she would not be wise...... and also if she wants to come to the US for her education...... what is she doing in that show..... she will find many good inidan boys here (not ABCDs), but even those who had come ehre to study adn now working here..... H1B visa guys.... and many may be in her residency program too.... come on girl, quit that show..... you definitely have something better in the outside world.... you are too smart and intelligent to be in such a show............

Created

Last reply

Replies

9

Views

1k

Users

8

Likes

12

Frequent Posters

gossipgurls thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 15 years ago
#2
I dnt get it if she wanted to study why did she come on the show , she should have stayed off the show done her exams and gone to US ....If that was a her plan.

Why is she on this show to find a partner ???

You cant force a guy to go to US if he wants to settle in India. I found her more Immature than gaurav.

I mean USMLE exams will take 3yrs fr a normal dr to complete with so much of prep, by the looks of it she did not start at all, even if you clear the exams its no guarantee that some one is going to offer you residency straight way (she lacks experience ) and foreign graduates getting thru programs is very very difficult unless they have got atleast 7yrs of hands on experience , or did some good research wrk or have worked in UK ,Europe or Canada , if not you will not be short-listed fr an interview also.

This process will take any where between 3-5 yrs if she is lucky.....

So what does she expect ... A guy should wait for her fr 5yrs, its not fair as the guys want to get married and thats why they are on the show... not because they want to get married 5yrs fr now.

or get married and live long distance relationship fr yrs ... HELLO why marry at all

I Think she should be out Next week... if she is not serious and she is runing other girls chance..

So for me its GO RUMPA !!!
JattiTude thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#3
I dnt get it if she wanted to study why did she come on the show , she should have stayed off the show done her exams and gone to US ....If that was a her plan.

Why is she on this show to find a partner ???

You cant force a guy to go to US if he wants to settle in India. I found her more Immature than gaurav.

I mean USMLE exams will take 3yrs fr a normal dr to complete with so much of prep, by the looks of it she did not start at all, even if you clear the exams its no guarantee that some one is going to offer you residency straight way (she lacks experience ) and foreign graduates getting thru programs is very very difficult unless they have got atleast 7yrs of hands on experience , or did some good research wrk or have worked in UK ,Europe or Canada , if not you will not be short-listed fr an interview also.
I dont agree... if you have your step 1,2 and 3 scores... you can get in right away..... I have atleast 3-4 cousins and few friends who graduated from Amritsar/Patiala, Ludhiana, Faridkot, Delhi.... took all thier exams with in 1-2 years after graduating and started their residencies in the US right away...... who knows she may already have her step 1 & 2 completed.......

This process will take any where between 3-5 yrs if she is lucky.....

So what does she expect ... A guy should wait for her fr 5yrs, its not fair as the guys want to get married and thats why they are on the show... not because they want to get married 5yrs fr now.

or get married and live long distance relationship fr yrs ... HELLO why marry at all

I Think she should be out Next week... if she is not serious and she is runing other girls chance..
I think she should be out.... and i say it in her favor (favour)....... coz there is no guy on this show who is worthy her...... she can get someone much better than that......... (thasts just my opinion) and she will realize it once she steps in the US...... she will find her prince charming here.......

So for me its GO RUMPA !!!
Na Rumpa for me is just like a dumb blond!!!!!!!! didnt you see her acting up yesterday when those filmi roles were assigned to them............
sunandshine thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 15 years ago
#4
Diya1986 thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#5
I have about 6 young doctors in family, all of DM or Mch level. not just MD or MS. When they were doing or preparing for MD exams after MBBS you could never find them out of their study room.
When ono of them told me that he has never heard of Kaun Banega Crorepati show i thought he was just posing but that was a fact.
No doctor during his carrear can afford to attend a show like this for three months.
Remember when someone says that i am a very straight forward person, he never is.
So wakeup friends, she is a very sweet girl, but an edge of superiority complex is spoiling her image.
As they say " May be you don't have an inferiority complex, May be you are inferior"
And all of us who have read through Nandita face are inferiority complex ke maare!
Or may be super genious ones.
At least i am from inferiority complex ke maare ones.
MithiBani thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 15 years ago
#6
Nandita might have a wee bit of a superiority complex. So?? Any person, boy or girl, who prepares for those back breaking entrance exams and gets through them and finally becomes a Doc or an engineer will have some kind of a sense of fulfillment about themselves. That might come off as a sense of superiority but it's just immaturity. Sure they might feel they are better than a BCom or a BA or a donation wala candidate. I know I feel better than a Donation wala engineer from Pune, Nagpur etc coz I worked my ass off to clear the entrance exams and THEN got the seat. My parents didn't dole out money to buy a profession for me. But now, after family etc, I don't care anymore but yeah... I do prefer to hire a entrance wala Engineer over a donation wala. When one is as young as Nandita is...these things matter. Wisdom comes with age and experience.
She might see these other girls, without a sense of purpose in their lives, falling all over themselves to get chosen by the guys...as wierd and not to her liking. That's her POV and she has a right to that.
Nishita123 thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 365 Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 15 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: gossipgurls

I dnt get it if she wanted to study why did she come on the show , she should have stayed off the show done her exams and gone to US ....If that was a her plan.

Why is she on this show to find a partner ???

You cant force a guy to go to US if he wants to settle in India. I found her more Immature than gaurav.

I mean USMLE exams will take 3yrs fr a normal dr to complete with so much of prep, by the looks of it she did not start at all, even if you clear the exams its no guarantee that some one is going to offer you residency straight way (she lacks experience ) and foreign graduates getting thru programs is very very difficult unless they have got atleast 7yrs of hands on experience , or did some good research wrk or have worked in UK ,Europe or Canada , if not you will not be short-listed fr an interview also.

This process will take any where between 3-5 yrs if she is lucky.....

So what does she expect ... A guy should wait for her fr 5yrs, its not fair as the guys want to get married and thats why they are on the show... not because they want to get married 5yrs fr now.

or get married and live long distance relationship fr yrs ... HELLO why marry at all

I Think she should be out Next week... if she is not serious and she is runing other girls chance..

So for me its GO RUMPA !!!



Exectly , I also feel that Gaurav behaved more practical/matured than Nandita. Everyone has their priority and preferences in life. Just like her , Gaurav has its own.
And Gaurav does not badmouth anyone ( by saying wo mere layak nahi hai and all ) just becuase their preferece/priorities didnt match,


Edited by Nishita123 - 15 years ago
JattiTude thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#8

Thats not true all the time. My friends came to US on an student visa. Enrolled into an public health program and then joined residency. This is coz the STEP 4 (personal interview step) that gurantees admission for these courses require the person to individually appear for an interview. For this they need a valid visa. Only then can they join a residency program. Its not as easy as it sounds. It takes a good 5-6 years to settle down.

well didnt want to mention, but I am MD in the US..... grew up here, studied here..... and I had residents working with me who came directly after passing their exams... the ones who come for MPH or MHA, their main focus is to get into the country and then their focus totally changes..... then they dont want to go for residency... coz then they are busy doing their MPH or MHA and forget that their original chosen path was different than this (but thats just my point and all of them are notl ike that)... and before teh residency interviews.... its better to take their CS exam for which they can get a visitor';s visa 99.9%... coz that exam is scheduled adn it is a hands on exam... so one has to be in the US for that... and as i said 99.9% of the times the embassy doesnt deny that visa. but then as far as Nandita's story goes..... she can now put in her personal statement that she is so versatile that she even attended at show.... which will be an A++... coz the residency coordinators., directors will see her to be very social and outgoing kind of person..... good for her.......

Rhimjhimsawan thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 15 years ago
#9

I was wondering why did she come on the show but then she told Gaurav there is a lot of pressure from her own house to get married. I don't think she really wants to get married right now. Of course if she finds someone it's another story but she won't just settle for anyone.

I like her.
Sound thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#10
^ I think maybe she's being pressurized from family and family wale use akele US nahi jane denge. So she needs to find a guy who wud take her. I think poor girl must have been hoping ki Rakhi ke swayamvar ki tarah, here too some NRIs might apply😕

But yeah, the girl has got attitude and it's refreshing to see her stand for herself and not fall over guys all the time👍🏼. When they pick girls who have a connection with the guys, she's picked. When they pick girls who don't get a chance with the guys, she's picked. Har jagah number lag jata hai uska😆

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".