How a character changes based on the choices they make is diff from how a character is from the start!
Soham whether or not neg he wasn't meant to be the 'bad guy' even though his actions may have spike otherwise... Neena from day one was meant to be the bad girl.
Who is actually bad, or changed characters, over the course of time, is a whole diff argument .
Whatever it is.. Here the topic was about who is money hungry. The argument here is, though Soham runs after any money opportunity, it isn't his main aim in life.
Whereas, neena it seems to be hers!
This is just based on how these characters are portrayed.
We have seen more sides of Soham, his history and his story.. So opinion about him is diff, his character changed/evolved in many ways and angles.
However Neena's character.. Is only shown to only love money and be after the property and full her husband's ears against his fam, and play people around so she is ensured the win, in the end!
Whether Soham intended to murder Sachin or not, it's a separate argument. Ya, he intended, but he didn't kill him. Whether or not Gauri came in between.. If that was his goal in life, he wld have killed him the next min he saw him!
I'm sure the deshmukhs didn't run to canada right after the incident. Soham cld have killed Sachin if he wanted to.. His reason was gauri. He didn't have any personal enmity with him, expect the fact that he wanted him out of the way of his and gauri's lives. The deed isn't done, and think, that's most important to look at.. Than what he had in mind and see what happened.