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Aholic thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
#11
Great !!
What a Stupid thinking , specially when there is a baby in the scene.

What is Anikita's mistake? Just Nothing!!

And Pari? I am truely disappointed the way she went to naren today without thinking about ankita.
Sure she got THIS from her mother !
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Posted: 11 years ago
#12
Why is it that Pari should show her heart of gold and walk away? Why is Naren held blameless?
It is Naren's marriage and his wife so if he wants to stay or not stay with Ankita, let the blame or burden be on him not Pari. Pari did walk away already when she knew he was married and went on to embark upon a new relationship with Shekar. Destiny willed otherwise and Naren saw her at the mandap. And contrary to what has been said on this forum, she did not try to attract his attention, in fact she tried to hide her face.

Even now it is Ankita in her own desire to save her husband and their lives as a married couple that is asking Pari to behave like Ahana with Naren, not giving an ounce of thought to the pain that this might cause Pari.

Pari is expected to put her life on hold, pretend to be Ahana and get Naren back on the road to recovery so Ankita can have him and then after having her heart torn asunder a second time move on with a broken but still golden heart to pick up the pieces of her life with Shekar (if he waits for her) or head back to her workaholic life in Canada while Naren's and Ankita's pavitra rishta is saved only because a madman was forced to marry a girl who his mother made a deal with - her son's well being in exchange for the welfare of the girl's family.

Of course, all is forgotten and forgiven, because said girl fell hopelessly in love with the mentally unstable husband who is so obsessed with his love for Ahana that he even insists on calling his own wife by the name of his love, Ahana, and said wife quietly acquiesces and pretends to be the so called dead girl. Yet when the real live breathing dead girl appears on the scene, Ahana is supposed to slink off into the dusk like a good little girl so that Missy wife who knew all along of her husband's condition can have her happy life. Of course, Ankita saved Naren and so deserves him, but then Ahana saving him now as he teeters between sanity and insanity, doesn't she deserve him too?

Edited by soapwatcher1 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: Aholic

Great !!

What a Stupid thinking , specially when there is a baby in the scene.

What is Anikita's mistake? Just Nothing!!

And Pari? I am truely disappointed the way she went to naren today without thinking about ankita.
Sure she got THIS from her mother !


Why bring her mother into it? But since she is in, really? From her mother? yes, she did get some things from her mother, that is why she did not confront Naren when she discovered he was her Aman married to Ankita but quietly prepared to move on with her life with Shekar just as her mother sacrificed her love and life so that Archana could have her family back and even left town when her skittish and insecure sister wanted her away from the scene.

Ankita is the one if you listen to her conversation with Shekar that wants to save Naren at all costs and wants to keep him so asks Pari (without regard to Pari's own pain) to go to Naren. The girl wanted to leave the hospital before Naren woke up, for god's sake.

Also, when Ovi knew that Arjun was in love with Purvi and was getting married to him, it did not matter 'cos she, Ovi, had a prior stake on Arjun. Wonder why that does not hold good in this instance? Doesn't Pari have a prior stake on Naren?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jhanvi, both love Naren and they are both hurting ..
They are both good girls who would try and save a human life ( not just Naren but anyone but more so naren as they both love him ) .Thinking about nly your own pain is not right and the better thing to do is to try and save someone's life ..
This will hurt Pari but ill also hurt Ankita ...they are both in a horrible situation ...and as for the future ...
Let two people who are in love be with each other ...but for that let Naren become sane and normal .Someone who does not remembers 6 months of his life is not normal .Let him become sane and calm and he should know what happened in his life ...then he should decide whome he wants to be for the rest of his life and this decision should be respected by everyone ...
and if he decides to go to Pari then he should but first make sure that his child should get his name .He has a right to know about the baby .
and yes, Purvi was a lovely selfless person and her daughter Pari too is a selfless lovely girl and Ankita too is like her aunt Purvi ...She not only looks like granny Archana but even has a beautiful selfless heart like hers
Edited by Tanyaz - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1


Why bring her mother into it? But since she is in, really? From her mother? yes, she did get some things from her mother, that is why she did not confront Naren when she discovered he was her Aman married to Ankita but quietly prepared to move on with her life with Shekar just as her mother sacrificed her love and life so that Archana could have her family back and even left town when her skittish and insecure sister wanted her away from the scene.

Ankita is the one if you listen to her conversation with Shekar that wants to save Naren at all costs and wants to keep him so asks Pari (without regard to Pari's own pain) to go to Naren. The girl wanted to leave the hospital before Naren woke up, for god's sake.

Also, when Ovi knew that Arjun was in love with Purvi and was getting married to him, it did not matter 'cos she, Ovi, had a prior stake on Arjun. Wonder why that does not hold good in this instance? Doesn't Pari have a prior stake on Naren?


What she leared from her mother was staying around a married guy , holding his hand in front of HIS Wedded Wife and Talk to him like he is her lover :( Just RUDE!!

I just hope to too see another purvi taking away her sisters happiness that also when hwe sister is pregnant!

I hope you got it ! Im out of here !

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Pari-Naren-Ankita need to sit down together and make a mature decision. Naren needs to know all the facts of the story- right from the time the accident happened to Pari-Shekhar's wedding. He needs to know there is a baby in the picture. He needs to know how and under what circumstances Ankita and he got married.

AFTER THAT, a decision should be made and that decision would be acceptable to me. He should have the freedom to choose whom he wants to be with- I just want Naren to know everything first and THEN take a decision. Much as we would like him to be grateful to Ankita, this marriage did not take place with his consent and he loved someone else,so he might feel strangled in the marriage later if he sticks to it for the wrong reason, and that won't be good for anybody. And much as we would like to believe that love is the only thing which matters in life, sadly it doesn't. Naren might choose Pari now but get guilt pangs later thinking of Ankita or his baby who got nothing from this alliance, or when his memory slowly returns later. He will then start thawing and it won't be fair to Pari.

I just want Naren to look at all aspects of the situation and then decide what he wants in his life. And my only genuine expectation from him, is that he lets the other unfortunate girl to walk away from his life with dignity.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Jhanvi, both love Naren and they are both hurting ..

They are both good girls who would try and save a human life ( not just Naren but anyone but more so naren as they both love him ) .Thinking about nly your own pain is not right and the better thing to do is to try and save someone's life ..
This will hurt Pari but ill also hurt Ankita ...they are both in a horrible situation ...and as for the future ...
Let two people who are in love be with each other ...but for that let Naren become sane and normal .Someone who does not remembers 6 months of his life is not normal .Let him become sane and calm and he should know what happened in his life ...then he should decide whome he wants to be for the rest of his life and this decision should be respected by everyone ...
and if he decides to go to Pari then he should but first make sure that his child should get his name .He has a right to know about the baby .
and yes, Purvi was a lovely selfless person and her daughter Pari too is a selfless lovely girl and Ankita too is like her aunt Purvi ...She not only looks like granny Archana but even has a beautiful selfless heart like hers


Tanya, I totally agree with you, felt really bad for both girls. But it irks me when Pari is tarnished as a bad girl and her mother who only sacrificed her love is brought into the picture.

In an ideal world, Pari should move on with her life - yes, if she wants to save Naren for old times sake or for Ankita's sake, her actions should be applauded, not criticized. And if while doing so past emotions flare up temporarily they should be looked upon as human frailty so long as she doesn't act upon said emotions and I am sure she won't, she is just as strong and as principled as her mother.

As for Ankita, she is in a sorry place, being married to a mentally unstable person is one thing, to live the life of his ex-love is horrible and now to witness his obsession first hand must be doubly painful. She is doing what any wife would do, trying to save the marriage at all costs if she can, especially in light of her pregnancy. If she forgets Pari's pain when she has to act as Ahana with Aman, that is forgivable too in my eyes, any person who loves another being would not think of a third person's pain if the person they loved hovered between life and death, time for remorse on hurting someone, as well as gratitude, later.

As for Naren, it is not his fault either that a traumatic incident turned his life topsy turvy, yes, let him come back to normalcy and let him decide on what he wants to do. Fingers should be pointed at him for whatever decision he takes sanely not at the two girls who are both victims, one out of chance, the other coerced into it cos of circumstances.
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Guys, can we please not bring the parents of the characters into the discussion and instead discuss the characters for what THEY are? The thread always gets derailed and discussion goes out of track. They are anyways not connected to the point in discussion. Let's stick to the point of discussion.

And honestly there is no fun in discussing the show if every thread is again going to become a battleground.
Edited by nikitagmc - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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OMG ...again this discussion is going some where else :(

Many of us over here want Naren and Ankita to be together becaz they are man-wife and love each other .Pari can move on in her life with a good guy Shekhar.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aholic


What she leared from her mother was staying around a married guy , holding his hand in front of HIS Wedded Wife and Talk to him like he is her lover :( Just RUDE!!

I just hope to too see another purvi taking away her sisters happiness that also when hwe sister is pregnant!

I hope you got it ! Im out of here !


In case you do come back (referring to your "I'm out of here" 😉) , Pari is led to Naren by Ankita SBS from yesterday) so Pari can save Naren for Ankita. Hope you got it! 😆
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 11 years ago

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