Shashank Mom Worse than Kinnarii

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sugar_21
They seriously need to stop showing women like this on TV. Though such women exist in real life, but may be giving more & more screen space to real women who stand up for their own kind and have zero tolerance towards woman haters such as the above mentioned, there will be a shift in public opinion...may be. But it certainly doesn't help at all when such regressive, abominable women are shown day and night on TV. I hate this trend honestly.

They wouldn't. They only care about drama not social message.

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#12

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
How is Shashank's mom worse than Kinnary ?

She is not the one shielding a rapist . Kinnary is .

She may be called a woman who is petty , but nowhere is she on the same level as Kinnary . She may not have broad minded thoughts and extremely narrow minded ones , but she is doing no crime .

While hiding a rape , lying for a rapist is a crime .

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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
How is Shashank's mom worse than Kinnary ?

She is not the one shielding a rapist . Kinnary is .

She may be called a woman who is petty , but nowhere is she on the same level as Kinnary . She may not have broad minded thoughts and extremely narrow minded ones , but she is doing no crime .

While hiding a rape , lying for a rapist is a crime .

the definition of a crime depends on the laws of the society we live in. in some countries rape is not a crime. does that make the rapist better than a person who has committed a different crime simply because he is not labeled a criminal by the legal system? a woman who degrades a rape victim to a wh**e status while pretending to be moral is worse than a woman who knows that she has no morals. but is criminal acts were to come into play, many rape victims commit suicide as a result of the shame society puts upon( that is if they havent already committed suicide as an result of the rape) Indian Penal Code punishes those who abbet suicide and if the breakage of the maariage and the shame put upon her by Shashank mother pushes her to the brink of suicide, then Shashank mom has abbetted in the commision of a sucide and is therefore no different than Kinnari.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sugar_21
@nikki1591...at your second post: very, very well written and backed! You'd make a highly convincing social rights activist. no kidding. 😊
@koolsandhu1000: Kinnari and Shashank's mom are no different, really. At least Kinnari doesn't pretend to be sanctimonious. She is what she is and she hardly seems to have any qualms with that, but anyways I'm not supporting her deeds. Shashank's mom...better if you read the post made by nikki1591...she's done an excellent job reflecting on this issue.

@Sugar_21 thank you for your kind words.😳

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Posted: 11 years ago

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shashank mom and kanari both r doing bad...if u compare both then kinari is most worse and shame on the name of girl and in other side u can said shashank mum is selfish and narrow minded , she is not broad minded and good like her son shashank...

she accepted mansi after she knew about her drunk father but when rauank did phone to her she misinterprets to mansi ...and broke relationship bcz she is a victim but at least she did not covered the crime and i hv hope if she will be get evidence about rauank then definately she will be give that to mansi or ankita ...not like kinari who used the evidence for own selfish reason and money ...she forget she herself is a girl😡

i do not know in which country rape is crime or not ...if law does not punished the repiest that not means girl hv not any bad feelings...may in there country girls has not any value so they hv not any law for girls wish and reputation...

law may be changed by country to country but not humanity

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Posted: 11 years ago

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That definition of a crime is extremely far fetched nikki . She is not breaking a rishta for dowry or anything . She is breaking a rishta bcoz she wants to exercise a choice , its the question of her son's life . She does not want her son , his children to suffer snickering , gossip everyday for the rest of of their life . And if so , hundreds of women in indian society will be arrested coz same mentality is there . I am not saying this choice is correct or incorrect . Manasi was exercising her choice too . She wanted to cancel the marraige . Why is she being forced to pretend nothing has happened and go on with the marraige by her sister ? Sister does not realise but it can be tremendously pressurizing for her ? If Manasi commits suicide THIS fact can be considered by the police too , that she was being forced to marry when she did not feel like it ? The sister went and made her rape public at her sasural without her assent ? She had clearly told NOT to make it public ? Assent is very much required by law ? Here even suicide attempt actually took place , the girl tried to throw herself in front of a truck ? So will her sister be held responsible for abetting ?

Sure Shashank's mom can be pulled to police station but police in India will study the case and send her back coz they will have to arrest thousands of such women . Whereas Ankita will be in for serious questioning coz assent is required by law .

Kinnary is sitting on direct proof , suppressing proof . She is clearly saying he was with me all night . She lied to family , now to the law . She will definetely be arrested if law finds out . Whereas Shashank's mom will be left with sarcastic talks by police , she will have seperate case on her .

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Very well said Adishri...Nothing more to add

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Originally posted by: adishri

if a mother wants a perfect bride for her son then is she wrong in it ? she is not torturing mansi for dowry or anything of that sort. she is not abusing her AFTER THE MARRIAGE. if she wants to break the marriage beforehand only then what is totally wrong in it.

archana had conveniently kept silent when ajit was beating and torturing vandita. she hided those things from manav and moreover explicitly told him not to give any financial assistance to vandita.
then archana totally supported a bigamist dharmesh and infact strived to prove him innocent by manipulating his poor vulnerable first wife from backing off from her legal marriage.

purvi actively shielded soham and gave him shelter in her house and completely forgot gauri's ehsaans of giving her shelter along with her illegitimate child.

if shashank's mom's husband needs to shut her up , then infact archana's husband should had beaten her up for hiding his sister's condition from him. purvi's husband arjun should had infact handed criminal purvi to the cops instead of he himself going with them and got her jailed for giving shelter to a criminal. purvi's husband onir should had seen to it that his beloved mishti also gets some punishment for the masterplan of baby swapping.

if people cant understand that breaking a marriage because of a sexual assault occurred upon the bride as rape shaming, then I have nothing more to say. and expectations of a perfect bride is a way of exploiting women because the same standards are not held to the man. A man can have multiple sexual relations pre-marriage and nobody will bat an eye but a woman is raped and the result is the breakage of her engagement. breaking the marriage bc she is no longer perfect because she is no longer "pure" is the same as saying that she is tainted because of the rape. it denies rape victims dignity that all humans deserve and treats them as objects. someone does not become less than because they have been raped.

and why does it matter if purvi has an illegitimate child. that itself is a derogatory term and everybody knows it. its not used to describe the child because the history of the word is that it has been used to deprive said child of dignity, social standing, and rights of inheritance. would it have made a difference if the child occurred after marriage. is the child somehow less than bc she is illegitimate. wasn't Gauri just giving shelter as a friend (because thats what friends do) rather than thinking Im giving shelter to an illegitimate child. In any case, this topic wasn't about Purvi, archana. It was about Shashank mom. Just because Purvi Archana may have been wrong doesn't make Shashank mom any better. people need to be judged on their own merits, not in comparison to others

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: adishri

shashank was ready to take care of ankita's family. yet she went ahead and married naren because he was more rich. thats the bottomline and nobody can deny it.
if girls can dump poor boys for rich ones , then why cant boys dump girls ?

coming to purvi.
even if gauri was not purvi's friend still it was purvi's duty to help another female in need. the fact that gauri was her friend and moreover she gave shelter to purvi , increases purvi's duties even more.
if there are narrow minded women like shahshank mom then there are criminals like purvi also who need to be jailed in the darkest cell !!

if u watched the episode she was ready to marry him despite naren but she didnt bc she knew w/o the mother acceptance they would never be happy. and then she married naren bc she thought that his richness would get her family out of poverty. very different then dumping someone because they got raped as opposed to seeing that the marriage was not going to be a happy one.

and rape shaming and sexual assaults are one of the worst crimes ever. people prefer to die than be raped. soham, w/e he is was never a rapist. a stalker, obsessive, a murderer, yes but not a rapist. purvi shielding him was wrong to gauri but how in the world is that dispicable as rape shaming. its wrong enough on its own but you have got to be kidding me if you think that its on the same level as RAPE SHAMING. someone can move on from betrayel but being blamed for ther rape is just beyond disgusting. but once again this topic is not about purvi arachana blah blah, so why do u keep bringing irrelevant points into the topic.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: adishri

if a mother wants a perfect bride for her son then is she wrong in it? she is not torturing mansi for dowry or anything of that sort. she is not abusing her AFTER THE MARRIAGE. if she wants to break the marriage beforehand only then what is totally wrong in it.

archana had conveniently kept silent when ajit was beating and torturing vandita. she hided those things from manav and moreover explicitly told him not to give any financial assistance to vandita.
then archana totally supported a bigamist dharmesh and infact strived to prove him innocent by manipulating his poor vulnerable first wife from backing off from her legal marriage.

purvi actively shielded soham and gave him shelter in her house and completely forgot gauri's ehsaans of giving her shelter along with her illegitimate child.

if shashank's mom's husband needs to shut her up , then infact archana's husband should had beaten her up for hiding his sister's condition from him. purvi's husband arjun should had infact handed criminal purvi to the cops instead of he himself going with them and got her jailed for giving shelter to a criminal. purvi's husband onir should had seen to it that his beloved mishti also gets some punishment for the masterplan of baby swapping.

@ bold: I really wish you hadn't said that, this despite the fact that you are entitled to your own opinion. Saying what's wrong if Shashank's mother wants a "perfect" bride implies that you think women who are victims (yes, they are victims, they are not culprits themselves) of rape become imperfect or impure to say it outright. This view is regressive and shameful to say the least.

Also, I agree with you, Archana, Purvi, Soham...and actually almost all characters of PR have indulged in something wrong or the other and continue to do so, but that wasn't the point of this post, was it? Proving that these people have done wrong doesn't belittle what Shashank's mom is doing. It would be rather lame to say that "oh I know stealing is bad, but look at that person, he's committed a murder. so my crime isn't that bad".

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