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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

So basically ovi raised a daughter full of life who has no negativity for anyone

Whole pari despite having everyone hates her father and has a sad life
Well at least ovi succeeds in her life and raised a daughter who is so sweet and amazing


thats a major difference in between purvi and ovi...

ovi told pia her fault also she did not told anything bad which was happened to her bcz she does not want her daughter will be feel sad like her...

i am super happy to listen pia's word thats mom u r a single mother but u gave me all happiness what may be a normal parents together can not but u did , u did sacrifies ur whole life for ur sister happiness , u went austrial and live alone for others happiness, its time u should get ur family back...😭 ( thats time i want to cry for ovi and pia)

and in otherway purvi again gave a reason to hate her, she filled pari's ear with her imagination story and hide about her own fault and own kannds so that infront of pari she will be proved herself a flawless a woman ,a victim😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
today i rest my case i think. i had said this time and again, people who make sacrifices, just make them. jata ke ya bata ke tyaag nahi hota dhindora pitna hota hai. ovi gave up every single thing in her life for arjun but not once has she ever said a word about it. never asked for anything, not even realization. arjun is attempting to make one half ass sacrifice for purvi, hasn't even accomplished it yet and moans about it all the bleeding time. he milks it for every ounce of sympathy from ovi and then runs to stop purvi from moving on. the most despicably selfish behavior I've ever seen. I'm glad pia is understanding of her mothers situation and recognizes that her parents can never be together but that her dads happiness is with purvi but I'm not ok with them trivializing how a child feels when her father wants nothing to do with her. pia may not have any bitterness towards him because her mother was SO wonderful...literally the only successful parent in the HISTORY of PR, but she should b at most indifferent about arjun, not actively trying to fix things for him, make him proud, find him charming (which btw he wasn't, he was borderline rude), its not her responsibility. i feel that ovi did one thing terribly wrong, she actively told pia her story from the POV of someone who is guilty and i feel like she passed on that guilt to pia. ovi may have proposed the deal but every single thing that happened post those words leaving her mouth were arjun and purvi's decision, without any coercing from ovi. she should have told her everything from how it happened without making herself seem responsible for everything because now, somewhere pia blames herself for everyones problems (she even mentioned it today). its arjun who should spend every single second left of his pathetic life apologizing and making up to his children. he should go to teerth yatra for having such sweet loyal and strong personality wali daughters. pari maybe angry young woman but she's a good girl who respects her family and knows her loyalties and priorities and pia is a sweetheart who loves him unconditionally (strange that the child loves the parent so unconditionally but the parent does not even think about her, arjun reminds me of King Lear and Pia Cordelia). even if arjun is born 100 times he'll still never deserve a wife or a mother of his children like ovi. I remember the incident right after pari's truth came out, arjun said to ovi we'll leave everything behind- just you me and pari will start our happy home. a part of me wishes ovi had accepted only because then maybe pari wouldve grown up in a loving home with a mother and a sister who'd more than make up for her latoo on ex father and pia and pari wouldve at least been able to point to who their father was. arjun wouldve had to play somewhat of an active role in their lives even if it was forced. pari wouldn't have grown up as an angry young woman. she'd believe in love. but a part of me is also really glad she had said no for two reasons- arjun's obvious bias towards purvis womb wouldve ruined pia and because more than anything people like arjun don't deserve a wife who puts him above everything, he doesn't deserve a happy home, he doesn't deserve his children, he doesn't deserve purvi- he only deserves to chase the shadow of purvi and then die alone. i feel sad for rithvik but it is really a testament to his onscreen charisma, i don't think many actor's careers could've sustained after such character assassination but he is thriving and i hope his very admirably professional decision to not abandon arjun in the gutter is noticed and he goes far.
i want raunaq to be lynched by an angry mob. but people like kinnari make me want to literally puke. this was the cheapest example of not just woman but human behavior. any other supposedly majboor woman would not b able to face the girl her husband raped but kinnari is SO utterly shameless and sick that i have no words for it. these are the kind of characters that make our society sick. this is a daily soap not a sensitive material documentary, teenagers watch it. they may not agree but having been one only few years back i can attest that they are very impressionable. maybe these people exist but media portraying them in a daily soap can only propagate such sickness. I'm literally ashamed of the indian media today.
Edited by tejaswiniwenham - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
she actively told pia her story from the POV of someone who is guilty and i feel like she passed on that guilt to pia

So true .

teju , kinnari is the reality that is sometimes shown in Ekta serials . If we sit and seperate the wheat from the chaff , we find she actually dares to show reality . The Ajit Vandu marraige was one and so was Savita's behaviour to Vandu after Ajit attempted to rape her .
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

she actively told pia her story from the POV of someone who is guilty and i feel like she passed on that guilt to pia


So true .

teju , kinnari is the reality that is sometimes shown in Ekta serials . If we sit and seperate the wheat from the chaff , we find she actually dares to show reality . The Ajit Vandu marraige was one and so was Savita's behaviour to Vandu after Ajit attempted to rape her .



Yeah I agree with that. Balaji Telefilms is actually one of the few PH's who dare to show reality as it is. Viewers say it's disgusting, and constantly bash BT/Ekta for showing things like rape, but I have to actually salute BT for showing the audience that the world isn't as "perfect" and "beautiful" as depicted in most shows. There are harsh realities and we have to accept that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
The way Savita behaved with Vandu post rape attempt is exactly how mothers from the lower middle class behave with their daughters who r not at fault , fearing badnaami and the fact that their daughters won't get rishta . There is no counselling or therapy in India but this treatment at home till the daughters opt for suicide or unsuitable marraiges to silence their parents . BT showed this reality .
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Posted: 11 years ago
I hate Kinri just as much as I hate Raunak now
Yesterday I felt that when Kinri will meet Mansi she will have tears in her eyes and will put her head down because she did not report her husband to the police ..How wrong I was ..
This woman is angry because her husband found Mansi more attractive than her and it hurts her ego so much because Mansi is from a poor background ..
Another scene that made my blood boil was the way Sunanda spoke to Ankita .It was Ankita's sister's wedding and she was going for that ( after making sure that everything was done right for Raunak's wedding ) .The way Sunanda spoke to Ankita was as if she is the house maid or something like that ...Shirish and Naren said that she should let Ankita go but not once I have seen them telling Sunanda to talk to Ankita with a little more respect ..
Ankita is like a maid in this house , she calls everyone ma'am and sir ..even her husband .
Now that Mansi has told her sister , most definitely Ankita will want Raunak in jail and if this family ( I am sure mainly Sunanda ) choses to believe Raunak and not Mansi then I hope Ankita leaves this dreadful house and goes back to the home where her sister needs her badly .
These Karmarkars are not good at all . The only good person is Naren . Unfortunately he is too much in love with another woman and not Ankita .Not once has he has been unfaithful to his Ahana ( in his mind ) .Ankita's marriage with his is as good as nothing . Her marriage with him will only be something if he wants her as his wife but as Ankita and not Ahana .
Better if Ankita calls off that whole deal with Rushali and goes back to her family ..but make sure to do a case on Raunak ..I hope Shashank helps both these sisters and Soham feels utterly ashamed of himself for what has happened to his daughters ...What he did to Gauri , it has come back to him ten folds , both his daughters have terrible lives thanks to their father .
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

she actively told pia her story from the POV of someone who is guilty and i feel like she passed on that guilt to pia


So true .

teju , kinnari is the reality that is sometimes shown in Ekta serials . If we sit and seperate the wheat from the chaff , we find she actually dares to show reality . The Ajit Vandu marraige was one and so was Savita's behaviour to Vandu after Ajit attempted to rape her .

di im fine with them showing harsh realities as long as they put a censor warning on the content of it. my 14 year old cousin sis-in-law was watching this and i think at that age she's a kid. maybe at 16 she needs to know rape is a reality. she doesn't need to know that anyone can even pretend to be proud of a girl's rape by her husband due to her own shortcomings. i think knowing about rape is a hard enough reality check, its ok for her to not see an educated 21st century girl acting like an uneducated savita tai and especially not teasing a girl about being raped. the rape was bad especially after delhi case, savitas behavior was a mother's desperation and reality but they didn't need to show kinnari part. it leaves a much worse taste in my mouth.
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Posted: 11 years ago
This is actually sad, I think the CVs and even Ekta thinks that Ovi was wrong - this is so one dimensional, as if true love only happens if both fall in love together - which is sooo far from reality. All the time, one person is actually in love in a relationship...makes me wonder what kind the 'glass' the Cvs looks at love from...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

di im fine with them showing harsh realities as long as they put a censor warning on the content of it. my 14 year old cousin sis-in-law was watching this and i think at that age she's a kid. maybe at 16 she needs to know rape is a reality. she doesn't need to know that anyone can even pretend to be proud of a girl's rape by her husband due to her own shortcomings. i think knowing about rape is a hard enough reality check, its ok for her to not see an educated 21st century girl acting like an uneducated savita tai and especially not teasing a girl about being raped. the rape was bad especially after delhi case, savitas behavior was a mother's desperation and reality but they didn't need to show kinnari part. it leaves a much worse taste in my mouth.


well look at it this way .

it has nothing to do with education or illiteracy , it has to do with attitude of a human being . I would not even say a woman ...a human being . When a crisis afflicts life , attitude of various human beings comes to the fore . There r counsellors who understand , people who sympathise deeply , those who r indifferent and too wrapped up in their own life , those who fear social gossip , those who actually support their husbands for status though having ugly fights in bedroom .

What Ekta showed was bitchiness of woman , how much a woman can sink to . A woman like Ankita will fight for her , a woman like Kinnari will only taunt her .

Vandu's mom was illiterate but Vandu was not . She was educated . Yet she chose that ordeal due to society pressure .Kinnari is educated . Snobs and cats r among the educated and rich too in abundance , so r timid rabbits , so r people like Naren .

Its best to tell the growing youth the truth , than sheltering them ...this however needn't be anyone's view , it is however mine . Best to tell children that the boogeyman looks very normal , not to to talk to normal looking strangers as most serial killers r handsome . sheltering them can make them naive . They then find out truths in a hard hitting way . Does not mean u show them gory violence or po*n . No way . But letting them know little by little . BT did not show Manasi even running helter skelter , the old films showed much more , trust me . All they showed was a conversation , the idea of rape and him buttoning his sherwani ...it was very very mild compared to movies in the seventies when kids did not even have compulsory sex education and those movies did not have an A certificate .

Now what will be shown is different reactions . Outrage , sympathy[ Shashank Ankita Prashant], hypocrisy [ by the Karmarkars] , plain villainy [ Raunaq kinnari duo] , mixed feelings [ Sohum ] .

All this will simply be showed without any captions . And people will watch it . Nowadays Ankita Naren story is watched indifferently , Raunaq Manasi story is watched , giving him cuss words but with obvious excitement .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
Actual Rape in India is really hard to prove. In fact, most rape victim get no justice and the rapist just walks away. The girl is then left to bear stigmas of the society. Mind you, even standing up against rape isn't easy - both at a personal/emotional level as well as how the society looks at a raped girl. Only a handful of rapists are actually convicted and most of them cause of media pressure - I mean CVs can show what MAnsi faces if she actually goes to the police - it is really a very hard and sad reality of the society we live in...

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