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Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam
Well, in the PR that I watched, Purvi was clearly disowned by Manav and all Deshmukhs and later by Archana too when she came out of coma and found out abt Pari.When Manav and the rest of the family heard pari's truth from Ovi, they told her she was mistaken and didn't believe her until they saw the hospital video when the exchange happened. After that, they gave her the chance to explain instead of walking out in disgust. When Archana found out, she didn't disown purvi immediately. She called both Ovi and purvi and gave her the chance to explain, privately. And then she disowned her. And then when she was alone with manav, she told him clearly that still cared for purvi. She then called onir and purvi to the party immediately after, her disowning purvi was to not talk to her directly--for 2 days. Of course, we all know what happened at the party and after.Please compare that to their reaction to Ovi. Did they give her or arjun a chance--one chance-- to explain? Arjun tried telling purvi but she didn't listen. Did anyone even bother asking Ovi for an explanation? They didn't even bother about the premature child who was not out of the woods completely. Ovi wasn't even in India most of the time, she was in Canada while arjun was in India--how could they think she was having an affair with him? She divorced arjun and insisted on illegal means to get it right away, and had no direct contact with him thereafter. Heck, she wasn't even in the same country. For 20 years, they thought the same and not just disowned her and Pia, but cursed them. Archana encouraged purvi to get back with arjun even before she knew that arjun had been alone for the last 20 years. Honestly, is any of this fair in any way whatsoever?At that time, Purvi was in dire straits, living in a kholi with Onir and Pari, struggling to make ends meet. She still went to the hospital to see Archu inspite of being ignored and insulted by Savita, even Sulo, constantly. She still went because she loved her mother, she loved her family.Thats what children do...even if family misunderstands them, rejects them, they go and seek their parents again, because without parents they are incomplete.But Ovi never loved or cared for her parents. Shes only obsessed with Arjun so when he beckons her, she goes running to help him get rid of Purvi.But for 20 yrs she couldnt go running to her parents to explain to them what happened. She just let them believe what they did because she didnt care for what they thought!Do you know this or are you making assumptions? Nothing has been shown or said about Ovi until yesterdays episode. What has been shown is that arjun tried several times to talk to purvi and others but nobody gave him a chance. Do you know that Ovi tried and failed or didn't try at all? If you have the proof, I'd like to see.Archana loves Purvi more than Ovi...but Manav always loved Ovi, same with Savita, who always favored Ovi ...she could have contacted Manav or Savita and cleared the air but obviously she didnt care!Manav and Savita used to love Ovi. Nobody has loved her since before the leap however. Disgustingly, none of the family has uttered one word about finding Ovi and Pia and righting the wrongs done to them, even after they all learnt the truth. They all came as a package to reunite arjun and purvi, no mention of the daughter and grand-daughter who could be dead for all they knew or cared. Lol, Manav actually congratulated archana on their reunion plan success and only remembered Ovi when she spoke about her. If this is love and caring, I shudder to think how children who are neglected by their families feel.She also deprived Pia of her grandparents and aunt-uncles love and affection by staying away from her family for so many years.So Pia not getting love from Deshmukhs was entirely Ovi's fault as she kept Pia away from them!There is something called self-respect. If my family believed the worst of me without giving me the BOD, I wouldn't be in a hurry to beg at their feet for something that should be given freely. Trust and respect, and yeah a friggin' chance to clarify accusations! Btw, pari grew up hating her dad and clearly has issues just like Ovi had once upon a time. Purvi and only purvi is responsible for pari growing up without her dad and hating him so much that learning the truth about him hasn't changed a thing for her.Deshmukhs thought Pia was with Arjun so they didnt worry abt Pia's well being. Soham's kids are a different matter, they are in dire straits as compared to Pari and Pia so they NEED the care and concern of the Deshmukhs.Arjun did acknowledge Pia as his daughter...😆 when did he say Pia is not my daughter? Ovi maintained contact with Arjun all these years (not with her parents) and gave him info abt Pia, didnt she?Nope! He was living as if he had no one having to call his maidservant's granddaughter as his daughter. His servants thought he only had one daughter (notice singular, not plural) who was in Canada. Pari was out of reach for him. But Pia wasn't. But he still doesn't seem to have any relationship with Pia. Why ask Tina to call him dad when he has his own daughter Pia? Ovi clearly is on friendly terms with him so presumably, she didn't restrict arjun from having a relationship with Pia. Why doesn't he then?Anyone who watches Indian shows and Ekta shows regularly will know the fact that the female lead is always supposed to be simple, selfless and sacrificing...like Archu, Purvi and Ankita.And everyone knows that ArMaan were the original leads of PR, ArVi were 2nd generation leads, and now probably Ankita Naren will be the leads in 3rd generation.Did Ovi try to clear misunderstandings? When did they say that? I dont remember ArMaan mentioning anything abt it? 😕Did they show anything to the contrary? How do we know if she tried to or not? Nothing has been said or shown regarding this so it is possible she tried contacting them, but was brushed off just like arjun was brushed off. She anyways had to have more important things to do --- like taking care of a premature baby as a single mom with no support.If Ovi had returned to the show via ArMaan...that is ArMaan going out to search for her, they find her and Pia and they bring her back to the family...that would have been a much better scenario... than Ovi running to Arjun to help him trick Purvi! This just made her look worse!Only thing I agree with, she shouldn't bother helping arjun. He doesnt deserve anything from her and she has no responsibility to him. In fact, she should stay away from all of them even when they go knocking on her door.
Since all kinds of assumptions have been made abt Purvi so far then based on the lack of communication between ArMaan and Ovi, we can safely say Ovi made no attempts to contact her parents and clear her name!
When Archu Manav are discussing Ovi they never said Ovi called them and they refused to take her call. So we can safely assume Ovi never called any of the Deshmukhs as Teju also blames her.
Purvi always went after her parents to explain things to them when she was rejected. Ovi didnt bother to do that...but as usual she runs after Arjun, calls him, messages him, runs to help him trick Purvi. That shows her mentality!
But still Ovi is a the most awesome person...yada yada yada...
BTW before the leap werent there dozens of posts declaring Ovi shd not allow Arjun to be part of Pia's life? 😉
So now why the questions that why didnt Arjun bring up Pia? Obviously because Ovi didnt allow him to...she didnt want Pia to live with Arjun...so he spent 20 yrs calling Tina his daughter!
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