Originally posted by: vasu_2013
Funny enough, there are still claims on the forum that Ovi has reformed and not repeating her past mistakes whereas Purvi is not.
And let me tell you,.. following double standards is the least of Ovi's issues. Ovi is much worse than whatever Purvi was labelled so far as a Liar, bad wife , bad mother and a nightmare of a daughter - Ovi doesn't confide on any major decisions of her life with her parents, twin sister or even the grand mother who brought her up.
These are fictional characters and I am least interested in anyone's defence, however, while Purvi is/was taken to task for even the smallest of her mistakes, how many topics have you seen in the forum criticising Ovi of any of the above? Zilch ... Shows how "fairly" are the characters are being judged and justified !!
Sorry for jumping in, but you seem to hold these characters to the same double standards to which you are accusing others. Purvi never confided in anyone when she was taking any decisions either--not when she knew arjun was two-timing in the early days, not when she knew she was pregnant with pari, not when she decided to give away arjun and definitely not when she replaced ovi's baby with pari and most recently, not when she harbored soham at her home. All of them do exactly what they want without confiding in or taking advice of friends/family etc.
Ovi is not being taken to task because she is clear she doesn't want anything to do with arjun or purvi, and has not given them or anyone else any indication of wanting them in her life. She is not hanging around arjun with her baby making arjun and purvi's married life difficult; she's not hanging around them period. Even when she was in India, she didn't have any kind of contact with arjun or purvi --zilch, nada. Now that is called cutting off completely. Not what purvi or arjun were doing when each wanted arjun/ ovi and onir/ purvi to have a happy marriage. Even now, the truth only came out because Ovi blurted it out in her panic for her baby. And she's already told the baby is hers and he can (and should) go back to his life the way it was, that she wasn't expecting or wanting anything from him. If Ovi had told arjun about the baby, what would he have done? When exactly should she have told him and what should she have done to do the right thing? Reveal her pregnancy and leave her baby with arjun and purvi so that they are together and arjun still has his baby (who he doesn't seem to care a whit for btw) and everybody except her is happy? Tell arjun before he married purvi so that she's accused of coming between the great lovers again? Tell him after? She did the last, but seems like it wasn't the right thing to do according to some. So what was the right time and place for her to reveal the big earth shattering( !!!!??!!!) truth?
And everybody's assuming that Pia was conceived out of the night before Ovi left for Canada. There is however no proof for that. Arjun and Ovi were married and before Pari's truth was out, were reasonably happy and presumably having normal marital relations. Pia could have been conceived anytime after pari's birth. Just because the CVs showed the contrived scene to remind the audience arjun and ovi were intimate doesn't mean that was the only time they were.
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