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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: naava


Exactly Shailee, not only is Ekta portraying something very ugly but she completely changed his personality. Soham was kind to every woman he had contact with...with Varsha, with Purvi,,,,in fact stopped one of the goons from hurting her, and helped her, with Ovi, with Archu...he was a tough guy as one of the boys or men but was shown as a person with a soft caring compassionate heart.

This is all really very sick. There is no way this violence should be rewarded and have Soham win the girl. As a matter of fact, there is nothing Ekta can do now to redeem him. Violence against women never changes.. it can't be undone. To do this to a beloved semi-lead character, and in a society where violence against women gets daily international attention, is the height of irresponsibility and callousness...really criminal imo. It should be pulled from TV.

The only place i do disagree with the other posters here is that in my opinion all this slapping is also violence...and i have mentioned it a lot. I never ever saw this kind of stuff in reality and i am rather shocked that slapping seems to be the preferred way to show disapproval. In my opinon, it just simply escalates to the kind of thing we are appalled and shocked at today.

I am not interested in this character Soham any longer, or for that matter in PR. Is this what Anki came back for???? Thank God the rest of them have put down their papers. The best thing that could happen is for all the actors to walk off the set, refusing to portray such convoluted values.

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@Bold: Absolutely Naava. They make it seem like such acts against woman are acceptable. Archana was pleading to Soham to leave Gauri's hand instead of being firm.
Are woman always suppose to be weak when it comes to their own child? They are either shown to be begging or are shown slapping their children in front of the whole society. Ekta/PR CV's love drama, either slap them or start crying helplessly. Character assassination is Ekta's favorite hobby in all of her serials.Their characters could sit down, talk and try to bring out a solution but I guess that doesn't bring in the "FUN"🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma

i feel slapping is a must fr soham to stop him,every1 purvi archu r ignring and hiding his mistkes,i totally supprt arjun today.his words made sense unlike archu-purv


I think you misunderstood my point. Something drastic needs to be done to stop him. Call the police, arrest him, put him in jail. But what i am saying is that IF the normal action to correct someone is to slap them in the face no wonder there is violence of all kinds in that society. I have lived in 3 different cultures and never ever in my life have i seen the answer to problems being to slap the other person in the face. Is this a common practice in India or is it only in the soaps?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: naava


I think you misunderstood my point. Something drastic needs to be done to stop him. Call the police, arrest him, put him in jail. But what i am saying is that IF the normal action to correct someone is to slap them in the face no wonder there is violence of all kinds in that society. I have lived in 3 different cultures and never ever in my life have i seen the answer to problems being to slap the other person in the face. Is this a common practice in India or is it only in the soaps?

i understud wat u meant,but my questn is wat shld a mthr do whn she sees her son abusing a girl?
soham-sachin was slapped by archu cause they were fighting during dahi handi,wich i thing was uncalled fr.here wat soham is doing is nt a small thing.
and surely needs to b stopped.
he dint evn stop wen archu tld him to leave her,after begging soham he left gauri.putting him bars i dont tink archu will ever do that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Today I saw in the news that 4 guys who did terrible violent acts on a young girl in Delhi ( the poor girl died ) were sentenced to death ...
But so sad that the very day I saw this scene where a so called good guy hurts a girl , holds her against her will and behaves like a monster ...all in the name of Love .
And his mother who is supposed to be so fair and dignified just tells him off lightly ..
Very sad indeed .
More control is needed on TV on showing violence against women ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Archana should not have yelled "Soham Soham" from far for him to let go Gauri...I feel this shot was taken when Archana was not there and added later...As a matter of fact instead of Yelling to soham Archana should have grabbed his hands and let Gauri go..If Soham did not stop than give him one slap to get him out of his trance which he was in. Today Soham has stooped a very low place...If he claims he loves gauri than how can he hurt her and abuse her like this? She is trying to talk to him to make it clear and put some sense into him and he keeps reading it all wrong..
If I were gauri I would not want to be part of this family as I would be so uncomfortable being around Soham who has physically forced himself on me...He might stoop down to raping her just to make sure she is his..
Gauri's Parents and Sachin has right to know abt Soham..Archana & Purvi cant handle it themselves. Even Savita only knows abt Soham's drinking and not abt Soham loving Gauri who is supposed to be Sachin's future wife and current Fiance..
The kind of promise he took from PUrvi tells me once balan does something to Sachu, brings Gauri to Soham and than Soham may force himself on her...
Soham will not care if Balan removes Sachu from this equation as he wants Gauri..
Gauri does not deserve this...Where was Varsha at the haldi ceremony? she would have known something was up with Soham..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Today I saw in the news that 4 guys who did terrible violent acts on a young girl in Delhi ( the poor girl died ) were sentenced to death ...

But so sad that the very day I saw this scene where a so called good guy hurts a girl , holds her against her will and behaves like a monster ...all in the name of Love .
And his mother who is supposed to be so fair and dignified just tells him off lightly ..
Very sad indeed .
More control is needed on TV on showing violence against women ..


i totally agree Tanya... This is really awful.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Archana should not have yelled "Soham Soham" from far for him to let go Gauri...I feel this shot was taken when Archana was not there and added later...As a matter of fact instead of Yelling to soham Archana should have grabbed his hands and let Gauri go..If Soham did not stop than give him one slap to get him out of his trance which he was in. Today Soham has stooped a very low place...If he claims he loves gauri than how can he hurt her and abuse her like this? She is trying to talk to him to make it clear and put some sense into him and he keeps reading it all wrong..

If I were gauri I would not want to be part of this family as I would be so uncomfortable being around Soham who has physically forced himself on me...He might stoop down to raping her just to make sure she is his..
Gauri's Parents and Sachin has right to know abt Soham..Archana & Purvi cant handle it themselves. Even Savita only knows abt Soham's drinking and not abt Soham loving Gauri who is supposed to be Sachin's future wife and current Fiance..
The kind of promise he took from PUrvi tells me once balan does something to Sachu, brings Gauri to Soham and than Soham may force himself on her...
Soham will not care if Balan removes Sachu from this equation as he wants Gauri..
Gauri does not deserve this...Where was Varsha at the haldi ceremony? she would have known something was up with Soham..


I agree that is how it should have been handled. A slap to pull someone out of a trance is totally different than just always slapping in anger.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kimaya-

Soham was behaving like some beast today..If even after all these,Ekta shows,Gauri falling for Soham,then I dont think Ekta even knows what ''LOVE'' is..😕


Well said👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma

i understud wat u meant,but my questn is wat shld a mthr do whn she sees her son abusing a girl?
soham-sachin was slapped by archu cause they were fighting during dahi handi,wich i thing was uncalled fr.here wat soham is doing is nt a small thing.
and surely needs to b stopped.
he dint evn stop wen archu tld him to leave her,after begging soham he left gauri.putting him bars i dont tink archu will ever do that.


No you are right that Archana would never put Soham in jail. but the suggestion that Varsha (Dabulls) made was a good one. Archu should have grabbed Sohams' hands and freed Gauri and THEN if needed to stop his trance like state, a slap could be necessary. Like i responded to Varsha, I am not saying a slap is never called for. Soham is in a trance or delusional then it might become necessary to snap him out of it. But always the slapping in PR just as an expression of anger is wrong imo.

You know Ekta has a history in PR of excusing violence against women and that was with Ajit. Vandu married him even though he had violently raped her, and of course he returned later to his violence when things got tough.

This whole thing just very very wrong.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I wrote last week abt SOham no different than the guy who physically forced himself on Gauri...The politician's son..
Politician was supposed to be DK's friend...SO DK also has goon for friends eh...Because of that guy Manav got shot...
Goons bring trouble to good people when they hang around with the wrong kinds...
Naava Fekta is making millions on these type of horrible real life issues...We watch and she makes money...Nothing is done abt it...Nothing is shown how social issues are supposed to be handled and dealt with..
Alzheimer, Alchoholism, Goons, rape, domestic violence, mental sickness (Varsha) etc are shown with non challant manner...😲😡
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago

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