Begging to Arjun!! - Page 3

Well i think this time Archu is giving him a good advice that he should sign the papers n free Ovi,Archu wants her daughters not to be punished like this as We are seeing but everytime i have seen people comes n beg in front of Arjun for what they want n he has done that.
"Arjun's character is been vanished completely"

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

I wouldnt go that far, but her sense of sacrifice should be limited to her life and not when it affects someone else's. but, i guess that is history now. Her sense of obligation to her mother, however meaningless, drives her life to be centered around her mother Nd her mother's family and an mistakable impression that they are hers, when they dont care a squat for her. It ruins her and the ones who love her, be it Arjun or in some ways Onir. I guess, they understand her much better than any of us 😊

I agree. Both arjun and Onir understand purvi more than anyone else. Arjun can read her inner most feelings and does not even have to hear a word from her mouth. I guess that is why he feels so much for her. But the sooner she starts thinking about her and pari's life and give some priority to their future. All will be sorted out. Her reuniting with arjun will come as a plus

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Because hes the "whipping boy" who is punished for other people's misdeeds or mistakes everytime.

If Ashnaa was alive, she would protect her son from all these scatterbrained women!

I feel sorry for him, he needs a special advisor who would advise him abt these personal matters because DK is not any help at all.

But this time, DK did advise him not to adjust in the compromise marriage.

Ovi is firm in her decision to divorce Arjun and Archana also wants him to divorce Ovi...so Deshmukhs have to agree as well...

Whipping boy: A whipping boy was a young boy who was assigned to a young prince and was punished when the prince misbehaved or fell behind in his schooling. Whipping boys were established in the English court during the monarchies of the 15th century and 16th centuries. They were created because of the idea of the divine right of kings, which stated that kings were appointed by God, and implied that no one but the king was worthy of punishing the king's son.

What I do not like is that it is being shown recently that arjun did DHOKA to Ovi, and it is all his fault for this failed marriage. No mention by any character on how this marriage came about, Ovi's role in it, her insecurities, Purvi's role in pushing him into it and later and so many other issues. When in this marriage, both are at fault equally, why is he blamed singularly when everyone knows of all the circumstances, except soham? Just because Ovi has a loving family to back her up and Arjun, all he has is an ieffective father at the best !

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

What I do not like is that it is being shown recently that arjun did DHOKA to Ovi, and it is all his fault for this failed marriage. No mention by any character on how this marriage came about, Ovi's role in it, her insecurities, Purvi's role in pushing him into it and later and so many other issues. When in this marriage, both are at fault equally, why is he blamed singularly when everyone knows of all the circumstances, except soham? Just because Ovi has a loving family to back her up and Arjun, all he has is an ieffective father at the best !

Originally posted by: LillyBlanc

Great posts by everyone: introspective and insightful without vitriol and bashing.

Finally some peace and harmony on this forum.😃

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Can I volunteer to be Aashna?? It will be Purvi who has to watch out for me first then !! LOL !!

Jyo Di,u need to ask Arch Di...😆

M waiting for the day when arjun will burst out his feelings.. poor he dnt have anyone on his side.. n shayad ab DK bhi chod kar chale jayega n uski aakhri wish hogi ki Arjun ovi ko divorce de dein!! 😛

Originally posted by: sk11

I really agree with this post. Arjun is thrown around like a doll.

Purvi needs to apologize to Arjun for what she did. He loved her truly. She choose her family over him and ruined his life by taking advantage of Arjun's love for her by demanding she marry ovi, bed her and stay with her.

I take my earlier post back about arvi needs to be asked what they want. Arjun needs to be sat down and asked what he wants!

I think arjun knows exactly what he wants but is not certain if it is the right thing to do. I am happy that at least DK came to his rescue and help him make that decision. Purvi also is in the same dilemma. They both love each other and cannot get over each other, yet they are not brave enough to tell themselves that and their respective families.

I also think that both Ovi and purvi owe arjun an apology for bartering him the day before his marriage. They are equally responsible for him being in this situation - one is his best friend and the other is his love. The two people he cared the most for did this to him.