where was Arjun?? - Page 9

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

You see, we have learnt the lesson from last time that unless we are actually shown love-making, we should not make such hasty judgements. Hugs, eye-locks, secret meetings, phone conversations, lying to spouses---are all allowed. None of these mean having an affair or cheating in any way, I mean how can one control their feelings? Their emotions? Probably, the hug happened in a flow of emotions 😳 One can be physically intimate with one person and in love with another after all, here the poor guy is not even getting it from his wife . This was after all only a teeny-weeny hug, that too done behind the wife's back so she won't feel bad, that too lacking the all-important chemistry which only the lucky few have. Surely it's allowed since it's all above-board? At least that's what I learnt from all the discussions here 😕
The hug could even be for someone's bhalaai- purvi's, shalini's, his own, the whole world? As long as there's someone's bhalaai happening, anything and everything is allowed. And no, nobody can question actions when noble intentions are involved.

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

You see, we have learnt the lesson from last time that unless we are actually shown love-making, we should not make such hasty judgements. Hugs, eye-locks, secret meetings, phone conversations, lying to spouses---are all allowed. None of these mean having an affair or cheating in any way, I mean how can one control their feelings? Their emotions? Probably, the hug happened in a flow of emotions 😳 One can be physically intimate with one person and in love with another after all, here the poor guy is not even getting it from his wife . This was after all only a teeny-weeny hug, that too done behind the wife's back so she won't feel bad, that too lacking the all-important chemistry which only the lucky few have. Surely it's allowed since it's all above-board? At least that's what I learnt from all the discussions here 😕
The hug could even be for someone's bhalaai- purvi's, shalini's, his own, the whole world? As long as there's someone's bhalaai happening, anything and everything is allowed. And no, nobody can question actions when noble intentions are involved.

Originally posted by: sk11

Yes, you hit the nail on head. Nobody can or should even try to question noble intentions when selfish intentions are justified and excused to no end.

Yes, feelings and emotions are not controllable. For example when a guy breaks up with you, it's perfectly okay to get that guy back by hook or crook because you had him first. 😳Emotions and feelings are definitely not controllable. And even if you get the guy back by hook or crook, it's not your fault because the guy fell for the hook or crook. Yes, emotions and feelings are def not controllable. It's perfectly understandable. Oh, and it's okay to drink while pregnant because your hubby is neglecting you. Gulping down liquor while pregnant just happens in with the outflow of emotions and feelings. One should definitely punish their unborn for the adults' decisions!

Poor guy, should have gotten it when the wifey was ready to give it! Poor guy!

Yes, bhalayi is always be good. So damn good, some want to build mandirs to honor the bhalayi doers. Well at least from what I've read in the discussions here. 😕

So, what lesson were you talking about again?

Originally posted by: MayurSidma

Yes, emotions in question can make a person do many other things as well. For example, continue your marriage preparations without sparing a thought that ur sister is suicidal because of the betrayal she has received. In a flow of emotions a person can also donate their baby to their sister and take away the sister's stillborn without her knowledge. These same emotions also make it possible for a woman to secretly meet her ex in restaurants and other places and keep these meetings from their spouses and the rest of the family. In a flow of emotions a woman may forget to testify in court in support of her husband so he doesnt loose his license and hugs her jeeju outside the court instead. Emotions also allow exs to become detectives. And these emotions fuel motives of bhalaayi that causes a woman to give up her own child to others(even unknown people), interfere and cause havoc in others' lives.

ps- In reference to my post yesterday, never did I mention that Ovi had no mistakes, infact I stated she made her share of mistakes. I even pointed out that her drinking during her pregnancy was wrong on her part. And as for punishing unborn's, there are characters who are being negligent to the baby that has been born by leaving her unattended for hours and sometimes in the company of suspicious people. The baby is used as a tool to fix someone else's marriage without sparing a thought. The baby is being passed back and forth as per convenience for noble bhalaayi motives I am sure.

Originally posted by: sk11

Uhm I believe this conversation was between sowmya & I. But you're definitely welcome to join as its an open forum. More the merrier!!

Do carry on though, this was the exact uproar I was so disappointed about that! And here it is!!! 😆

I'm can't remember what you're talking about in the last paragraph. I'm sorry :( I have to go back and look.

Originally posted by: sk11

Yes, you hit the nail on head. Nobody can or should even try to question noble intentions when selfish intentions are justified and excused to no end.

Yes, feelings and emotions are not controllable. For example when a guy breaks up with you, it's perfectly okay to get that guy back by hook or crook because you had him first. 😳Emotions and feelings are definitely not controllable. And even if you get the guy back by hook or crook, it's not your fault because the guy fell for the hook or crook. Yes, emotions and feelings are def not controllable. It's perfectly understandable. Oh, and it's okay to drink while pregnant because your hubby is neglecting you. Gulping down liquor while pregnant just happens in with the outflow of emotions and feelings. One should definitely punish their unborn for the adults' decisions!

Poor guy, should have gotten it when the wifey was ready to give it! Poor guy!

Yes, bhalayi is always be good. So damn good, some want to build mandirs to honor the bhalayi doers. Well at least from what I've read in the discussions here. 😕

So, what lesson were you talking about again?