Alone, bereft, like mother, like daughter - Page 2

Originally posted by: rajvta

you have summed up the whole fiasco beautifully. Loved it 👏.

Also, wanted to add another thing, some posters were harping on the fact that Pari is illegitimate and hence Ovi was practical enough to ask why she was not aborted ( as if that makes the question right). A child is not illegitimate or legitimate, relationships are. And as Pari was conceived just a day before her parents marriage was to take place, the relationship being illegitimate is also a moot point IMHO.

As for Archana, I still feel she will come around. She may also be more angry for the fact that Purvi again sacrificed for the selfish d family(read Ovi) when she expressly asked her not to do so anymore.

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Jhanvi Di,

As always an amazing post 👏

Now coming to Archu's POV, I think she is right where she is. For her, it wouldn't be much of a shocker if Ovi was the one who got pregnant out of wedlock but it's Purvi the one she showers her trust, love, everything to.

The circumstances which led to current fiasco?

For Archana, even to us as viewers the situation Arjun and Purvi had sex under is quite unbelievable. So they had a near death experience, it was raining they got turned on? 😕

Had they married at that point, I don't think Archana would be upset they were only engaged.

I know Purvi sacrificed a lot for her mother, but to her mother Purvi is happy with Onir while Arjun and Ovi sort out their differences.

Her mother, just like any of us would have that one question WHY SHE GAVE PARI

had she not given Pari to Arovi nothing of this sort would happen

Saying "I AM DEAD TO YOU" is quite a natural reaction and not an extra ordinary one

For someone like Archana who gives utmost importance to marriage, this is a shame. Purvi even admitted she left town so Arovi would be happy.

That means she knew of her pregnancy when she left town

If she spoke up then, so many lives wouldn't be destroyed.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Thank you!😉 How are you?

By circumstances that led to this sorry situation, I meant the deal, Purvi giving up on Arjun the day of their wedding, and the resultant mess and the reason behind Purvi giving up Arjun - bartering her mother's happiness with her sister.

You know I pondered on what you wrote that "I am dead to you" bit and I must say I agree with you, 😆 I do say to my kids, "don't ever talk to me again" or "I will never talk to you again" so I guess it can be interpreted to mean the same. Hope Archana forgives Purvi, mothers tend to do that too, forgive their children easily i.e.

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I don't think any of us said it because Pari was legitimate or illegitimate

It's practical because PURVI CLAIMED she left town so AROVI could be happy

When you keep someone's baby, you are keeping a part of them

had Purvi not claimed to want Arovi's happiness Ovi wouldn't ask this question

Purvi was always hovering around, interfering in Ovi's life

If Purvi could snatch the right from Ovi to not let her see her stillborn

Then Ovi also had the right to ask this simple question

Why is it that everything Ovi does/ says is a sin

but Purvi's bigger mistakes are overlooked

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I am good Di, how are you?

Everyone seems to have memory problems in this family

Remember when Ovi asked Arjun why he didn't tell her they have per marital sex 😆

Ever since Arjun and ovi got married

The emphasis has always been on purvi sacrificing FOR ovi

The writers themselves forgot why the deal took place

😉

Yes, the CVs suffer from amnesia :) But I guess when they spin so many threads, they lose track easily

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Just because Purvi wants AROVI to be happy does not mean she should kill her baby. The baby is as much hers as Arjun's. She may have given up Arjun but the baby has its own identity and a mother bonds with her baby as soon as she knows (most at least) that she is expecting. And, most mothers do not always think that their babies belong to the dads (even if they know this subconsciously) but the overriding emotion is that of love. I think of my children as "mine" (Ovi syndrome here😆) it is only when they do something I don't approve that they suddenly become their dad's. 😉 So Purvi wanting AROVI to be happy is independent of her keeping her child. However much she wants AROVI to be happy, if Purvi thinks of abortion as a sin and as murder, no one should expect her to kill her baby for anyone else's sake. I do not think Archana herself would have approved of Purvi aborting her baby.