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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: sk11

I opened a thread on this Kalapi..of why Arjun is doing this.

My comments in this thread was simply to show that Arjun was also hurt. And another member stated well he married ovi on his will as to say that it takes away from his loss and grief.

My point is just Arjun was dealing with grief as well and loss just like Ovi is. He needed time and someone to understand d him too.

Why he still chose to stay with ovi and why he's still asking for her is a discussion I've opened up to the forum on another thread...

The problem is, if anyone chooses to do something, than there has to be honor involved too. Arjun has come out like a male chauvinistic pig, telling Ovi continuously that he is doing patie ka farz, in the form of giving her sex, food and shelter...this becomes problematic, for the second time around - there was no deal involved. Truly, it may not be easy to forget your first love, but continuously harping about it, appreciating her openly in meetings and showing love in public to appear happily married leaves a huge emptiness on a spouse. He did it continuously and still want Ovi back..

Now, look at the members comments - Arjun a confused soul, Arjun hanging on to Ovi - until Purvi decides...really?? Is that cool? acceptable??? to wait and play with Ovi's emotions until Madam Purvi decides - and Once Madam Purvi decides to allow Arjun to sit under her Saintly feet - bham, Ovi can be dropped off, as a hot potato - kosher...eh...I guess???😲 It is Ovi after all...everyone can make her their punching bag😲

And if Arjun can be confused, so can Ovi be too - so that deal, for she thought Arjun was worth it - but, who am I to convince anyone...

Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: Kalapi

SK11, it is against forum rules to bash members or actors - this is strictly up held. That member was openly abusing fellow members with a different POV. We have different POVs, does it means I abuse you? No, na...what that member did was simply not acceptable. Members/actors are human being with feelings'

Now for characters - it is acceptable in this forum to abuse characters and call death on them. In fact, this was implemented, you know why? To prevent members from warning members who openly asked for Ovi's death?? Yes, that is right?? If you don't ask me, ask a member who is neutral (tough luck, but still there are some).

Now for calling Purvi, a mistress. How bad is that when Ovi is routinely called a phycho, spoilt brad, slept with Romil and was called a w 🤬,, a b🤬 and so on...is that accept for it is Ovi, who dared to come between the amar premis and show their true love??

Oh man! Am I catching heat or what? I was only stating that such posts are so common. Just report and ignore them. Don't give attention to such trolling. Don't let it ruin the discussion!

Next I know ovi gets called a spoil brat and a psycho that's why I said its so common. I corrected mistress because that's not a name you can call her bc of the definition of the actual word. Purvi gets called mahaan, annoying etc all the time too. Both fan groups do it back and forth...but mistress is wrong until she actually is meaning she's sleeping with a married man. Call purvi a nag or mahaan, or anything. Doesn't matter as this all about POV but mistress is not technically correct.

And Can I be honest here, I don't remember who Romi is!!! I never said that for sure.

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#73

You haven't talked about Romil, but others have😊

Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago

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vasu_2013

@vasu_2013

Navigator

Posted: 12 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: sk11

Oh man! Am I catching heat or what? I was only stating that such posts are so common. Just report and ignore them. Don't give attention to such trolling. Don't let it ruin the discussion!

Next I know ovi gets called a spoil brat and a psycho that's why I said its so common. I corrected mistress because that's not a name you can call her bc of the definition of the actual word. Purvi gets called mahaan, annoying etc all the time too. Both fan groups do it back and forth...but mistress is wrong until she actually is meaning she's sleeping with a married man. Call purvi a nag or mahaan, or anything. Doesn't matter as this all about POV but mistress is not technically correct.

And Can I be honest here, I don't remember who Romi is!!! I never said that for sure.

Friend, Just like lot of english words, 'Bashing' has different meaning for different people in this forum. This is nothing compared to some of the things Purvi is being called in certain threads, including the "b" word. And the worst thing is that certain fan groups even the actors themselves are not spared either. Not much point of arguing as the hatred of a particular character becomes illogical when arguments are even based on imaginary things not shown on the show. I am not really sure if the mods are around now but that's the sad reality of this place right now.

Romil to my knowledge is an agent who gets modelling contracts for aspiring models. He is a friend of Ovi and in one episode tells Ovi that she should have chosen him (instead of Arjun) when he proposed. So far he has been an insignificant character.

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#75

Thanks for the clarification of Romil Vasu!

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#76

Er ...who says its IMPOSSIBLE to forget love etc . Of course moving on is possible , what antiquated myths r sold in serials . A past fling and a love child r 2 totally different things . They cannot even be compared . And how was Arjun gonna soothe Purvi's wounded heart by naming his baby with HER fav name , she was a married woman who HAD a husband to soothe her wounded heart , why was he taking it upon herself . Was it any of his business . If he couldn't divorce Ovi and marry Purvi why these idiotic sneaky gestures . Be a man , divorce Ovi and marry Purvi IF she will have u [ see the lack of self respect there] but stop this third rate immorality and immaturity .

Pandora's Box , lovely meme .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#77

Nobody said forgetting your love was possible either.

Past flings and love child's can't be compared. But amar premi and love child can be. Both significant people in ones life.

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: Kalapi
SK11, if I may..Arjun has been sympathized with a lot...in fact, I was the first to ask, why he didn't apply for a divorce the night after - coming to know that he was ditched into the marriage (even I accept that he was under emotional duress when Purvi blackmailed him into marrying Ovi).

Then why not, divorce after 1 month - he had the perfect opportunity. He declared his love publicly - what was holding him back...

But, most members can't forgive that he choose a second chance and then went into it with eyes open - then Ovi becomes the victim.

Contrary to what you think, members do not support Ovi with eyes closed - but, I guess your perception of this stems from your new membership to this forum...

I Based on your arguments, I am wondering why Ovi has not given arjun the divorce as yet or is she waiting to give arjun a third chance with his eyes wide open so that he can be made the victim?

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: rayadallie
I Based on your arguments, I am wondering why Ovi has not given arjun the divorce as yet or is she waiting to give arjun a third chance with his eyes wide open so that he can be made the victim?

Who says I will forgive Ovi, if she doesn't go for a divorce...it was shown that she did draw one up, may she is waiting for her Mother (who she apprently do not love 😃) to recover.

Now, if Arjun can be given so many cookies points for wanting to hang on Ovi, until Purvi decides if she wants Arjun back in her life or not and keep Ovi hanging in a balance, surely we can give her a BOD, right😃, but, oh wait...this is Ovi...no, BOD is ever allowed😔

Btw, have a look, all in KC has been demanding a hot new guy opp. Ovi - it does say a few things abt those members, na???