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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

I agree

There has been ample evidence by now to show that Pari shouldn't be with Purvi .

She is the worst person for a baby to grow up with ...a careless parent who pays only half hearted attention to her and constantly deprioritises her .

Ever since she has been born Purvi has treated her like some faltu cheez . I wanted to laugh when Arjun asked her how she will live without Pari . As if she has never been without Pari . She gave her up within few minutes of being born and was fine that she was being brought up elsewhere and flirting with Onir , herself free from all responsibility .

I always said that Pari should grow with Arjun . Arjun is clumsy and inexperienced as a father but loves Pari more than hard hearted Purvi . Besides he is stronger financially . In his house Pari will grow like a princess , she will stifle in that chawl with Purvi's constant problems . A professional nanny can bring her up better than this mother who has no hesitation in giving her up , leaving her carelessly with strangers , lives in awful circumtances and is constantly fleeing or lying to save her butt .

Most unhealthy atmosphere for a child to grow . Pari needs stability , routine , love and good surroundings , not that jholi and jhopdi like room , she is NOT a kaamwaali's child but a tycoon's heiress . She will be better off with Arjun and a nanny .

Purvi will only use her or neglect and deprioritise her like she did with Arjun . She will never give the child happiness , only unfair treatment . Whether she marries Arjun , or stays on with Onir , or stays as single mom , she will NEVER treat the child right , the child's fate is doomed as she has this woman for a mother .

The father is silly and inept but he loves her and can provide well for her. Besides having many questionable traits , the mother doesn't even have the finances to give her the basics .

So Pari should grow up with Arjun . She is safer and stable there . The baby has done nothing wrong . Whether Purvi chooses to go back to Arjun , or stay with Onir or flee to some other city yet again , Pari must NOT be a part of her decision making .

I wish to point out that Pari has been given to Arjun coz Purvi wants to fake all in front of Archana . Purvi had given Arjun up to protect Archana . Pari faces the same risk as Arjun ...constant deprioritisation . It will never end . She should NEVER be given to Purvi after this final exchange .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
I agree

There has been ample evidence by now to show that Pari shouldn't be with Purvi .

She is the worst person for a baby to grow up with ...a careless parent who pays only half hearted attention to her and constantly deprioritises her .

Ever since she has been born Purvi has treated her like some faltu cheez . I wanted to laugh when Arjun asked her how she will live without Pari . As if she has never been without Pari . She gave her up within few minutes of being born and was fine that she was being brought up elsewhere and flirting with Onir , herself free from all responsibility .

I always said that Pari should grow with Arjun . Arjun is clumsy and inexperienced as a father but loves Pari more than hard hearted Purvi . Besides he is stronger financially . In his house Pari will grow like a princess , she will stifle in that chawl with Purvi's constant problems . A professional nanny can bring her up better than this mother who has no hesitation in giving her up , leaving her carelessly with strangers , lives in awful circumtances and is constantly fleeing or lying to save her butt .

Most unhealthy atmosphere for a child to grow . Pari needs stability , routine , love and good surroundings , not that jholi and jhopdi like room , she is NOT a kaamwaali's child but a tycoon's heiress . She will be better off with Arjun and a nanny .

Purvi will only use her or neglect and deprioritise her like she did with Arjun . She will never give the child happiness , only unfair treatment . Whether she marries Arjun , or stays on with Onir , or stays as single mom , she will NEVER treat the child right , the child's fate is doomed as she has this woman for a mother .

The father is silly and inept but he loves her and can provide well for her ,besides having many questionable traits , the mother doesn't even have the finances to give her the basics .

So Pari should grow up with Arjun . She is safer and stable there . The baby has done nothing wrong . Whether Purvi chooses to go back to Arjun , or stay with Onir or flee to some other city yet again , Pari must NOT be a part of her decision making .

I wish to point out that Pari has been given to Arjun coz Purvi wants to fake all in front of Archana . Purvi had given Arjun up to protect Archana . Pari faces the same risk as Arjun ...constant deprioritisation . It will never end . She should NEVER be given to Purvi after this final exchange .

Purvi lacks responsible mother traits. She is simply lackadisical. Have you ever seen her hugging the baby with a mother's passion? I wish Arjun will buy a proper pram for the baby instead of risking carrying. I saw Purvi holding the baby in one hand and using a mobile on the otherhand.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 12 years ago

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-purvideshmukh-

@-purvideshmukh-

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#13

arvi should reunite 4 the sake of pari

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MissMona

@MissMona

Navigator

Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
How easily purvi has given pari back to arjun? Wont the child miss the mother's touch? What mistake did the infant do to deserve this?

So for archana's sake, everyone will fake. Again so many misunderstandings and suddenly archana will be exposed to all those bitter truths.

It would have been better if archana had slept for some more time. She would have been more happy

it's not surprising.
she gave up pari after 10 seconds when she gave birth to her.
and now..what's the big deal.
that's purvi.

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anwesha rath

@Anurulz

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#15

what else is new??pari has always been treated like a toy esp by her mother..she gave the infant up seconds after giving birth to her, then got her back when her father was struggling to find a nanny (one of the most UNREALISTIC things to say, btw) and even then, she has been leaving pari at the hands of strangers ever since.. "how will she live without pari", was the latest joke arjun had cracked..well mister, she has ample experience..even when pari WAS with her, she was busy with random strangers in the house.. i doubt she will lose any sleep over pari not being with her..

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Rosheena

@Rosheena

Beginner

Posted: 12 years ago

#16

It is unfortunate that pari has been tossed out as garbage by the d clan including sulochna nor is arjun allowed to visit and as usual purvi has to meet up to there demands,at the expense of her daughter at least for now she is purvi's daughter until it is decided by the writers to change her mother or maybe her dad as well.ovi has returned and archana will have to heal rather quickly as she will have to babysit ovi,until she convinces her to go back to her deal marriage as that would benefit her to continue enjoying her marital bliss.

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.Harshita.

@.Harshita.

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#17

CVs first made Arjun a toy and noww Pari...😡😡

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

but thats the thing though. the cvs have established that archana had been in coma for 2 months before she was treated. say the treatment took a month so pari would be about 2.5-3 months now. she's changed hands three times and this is going to be forth. this purvi arjun arrangement has been going on for like 15 days to a 21 days tops. dats not enough stability for an infant of her age.
but then again they showed ovi giving birth in her 7th month and then celebrate her anniversary by then pari shud have been 4 months old and archana shud have been in coma for like the same time. non of this time sequence makes any sense at all.

I wont stress over the time in terms of months and years in PR as it does not seem logical to me either. But the point I am making is that babies do understand certain routine, be it from one home to another or from home to baby sitter or from home to daycare and back home again. So its not something to make a big fuss about. If purvi was working, then someone would have had to look after pari- arjun, nanny, daycare etc. So its not that bad as it seems. There is bottle for feeding with baby formula. If baby gets equal love from father and mother, its good enough. A mother;s love is not more worth than a father. Sometimes father's love is even better than mothers especially with girls. I can tell you this from experience.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#19

I agree with you that babies do understand change in place , routine etc . I am saying she should not be raised with Purvi coz her problems will never end and honestly its better for the child to grow in more comfortable surroundings than that kholi , jholi and where its basic milk will NOT be a problem . Her odd decisions and problems will NEVER end , so she herself should be objective and think from the child's benefit .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago