Why suddenly elders should 'control ' the 'children '?
The 'children' were not children but adults over 18 who took these decisions without discussing with them as they knew EXACTLY how they would react , so they kept the elders out and quickly did what they wanted to and then only TOLD the elders . This oversmart decision was taken by all 3 .
Non plussed and zapped , the elders bowed before this man maani and kept uneasily quiet , knowing their advices were neither appreciated nor wanted , the youngsters did NOT want them .
They have spoken NOW ...Sulochana and Savita told Purvi not to continue meeting Arjun but stick to her own marraige ...they spoke bcoz a child came in the picture and a marraige broke , too much happened for a so called past fling .
It was NOT appreciated by those very who r saying today that elders should have spoken and done this and that . They don't like when elders speak and yet when its convenient for this faltu love story say that they should have spoken , done this and that .
Archana did EVERYTHING for Purvi . Right from raising her till fighting with her sasural by supporting her love , she stood by her till the end . If she should be accused , she should be accused of partiality to this daughter , not for being insensitive towards Purvi's so called tyaags .
Manav has been harsh towards his own son but soft with Purvi inspite of his own bio daughter's life being wrecked . Any man would have gone after Purvi with a hatchet but Manav has constantly pampered her simply for being Archana's daughter , such is his love for Archana . Fact shown in serial . Everytime he has hurt his biological daughter for her ...right from paying ransom for her , going to do kanyadaan for her , recently taking her advice about the experiment , Manav has only given Purvi importance .
DK has always always been decent to Purvi . He didn't even hold it against her that she dumped his son for her mother .
Sulochana was the most loving granny and even Savita accepted her graciously . Recently they spoke when water went over their head .
No , the elders were not at all wrong at least in this . Whatever they speak or say , the shamelessness will just not stop as this shamelessness is called eternal love . Did their chiding put any stop to it ? Did Onir's direct taunts make them feel ashamed and put any stop to their conversation ? No , coz shamelessness can never be controlled . Archana Manav , the Aajis , DK no one is to blame for this shamelessness , no slaps can control it nor will any divorce or no divorce . It is called Moti Chamdi in hindi .