Yes...I am questioning Indian culture:Mod note pg4 - Page 2

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Why don't you try to make a change by talking about it to Gandhi ?
Rather than trying to tell us how wrong we are 😆
I am sure he can can pass a law or two L

Originally posted by: peachesnplums

res, will definitely post tomorrow, short on time today, and you make a lot of valid points, ask pertinent questions Mannisha.

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I don't have to troll your threads

I don't know what you are trying to achieve by this post

If it is to tell people who are against Arvi reunion that they are hypocrites, etc then I hope you realize this is a work of fiction 😆

Our behaviour, attitude, etc won't change if you try to speak up against such norms

i don't know about others, I would never want my daughter to be like Purvi, and neither would I ever be in any such situation

I believe in destiny but I do believe everything is Lord's plan

I also know Lord won't take me in any wrong path, neither would he do this to any of my friends

I am not trying to sound prejudice here, because I am hardly 19, my friends have been pregnant since they are 17. In fact I have a niece now, but back then I was living with my aunt in the states.

Is it ONLY Indian society that is against illegitimate children? the ones who taunt their family?

No, there are many other societies

I don't see how you making this thread will bring a change into society

I don't think anyone will even care about what you call them

MODS , how can you even allow such topic

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I don't have to troll your threads

I don't know what you are trying to achieve by this post

If it is to tell people who are against Arvi reunion that they are hypocrites, etc then I hope you realize this is a work of fiction 😆

Our behaviour, attitude, etc won't change if you try to speak up against such norms

i don't know about others, I would never want my daughter to be like Purvi, and neither would I ever be in any such situation

I believe in destiny but I do believe everything is Lord's plan

I also know Lord won't take me in any wrong path, neither would he do this to any of my friends

I am not trying to sound prejudice here, because I am hardly 19, my friends have been pregnant since they are 17. In fact I have a niece now, but back then I was living with my aunt in the states.

Is it ONLY Indian society that is against illegitimate children? the ones who taunt their family?

No, there are many other societies

I don't see how you making this thread will bring a change into society

I don't think anyone will even care about what you call them

MODS , how can you even allow such topic

Originally posted by: pesi11

waneeka ...wat r u saying dear ..this post is gonna change this world 😉 ...in few months in india , u can see , unmarried woman with big baby bumps roaming proudly 😆😆 ...n the society welcomes them with their 10 hands 😆😆 ..they vl built a temple for those women who achieved this and make a history on indian culture books 😊 😉

Originally posted by: mannisha

I am proud of my Indian heritage and culture. However, I have and always will continue to point to those parts of Indian culture that are wrong IN MY VIEW, such as infanticide, sex-selection abortions, child marriages, marital rapes, beatings, dowries and other patriarchal practices and double standards imposed upon women. Only by debating and challenging tradition can we change it, otherwise widows would still be thrown on the funeral pyres of their husband's today. This does not mean bashing one's culture! If you want to engage in a sensible debate, please do, but do not make this a Ovi verses Purvi battleground.