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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: ..aastha..


Ovi and patni of arjun? Lol.



No she isn't , that's why bechara Arjun is running after her even when she admitted that she was the one who came between Arjun and Purvi
And left
He goes to Canada to persuade her to come back home
I wonder what she is then 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: prityy89


s u r rite ovi is not bechari😃😆

though ovi knows clearly arjun doesnt love her .,went 2 arjun house and shared a special moments wid him😉😆 ovi is not bechari

she put deal 2 accept her own mother .,ovi is not bechari

arjun declared publicly dat he loves only purvi .,ovi gave him another chance .,coz??? she is not bechari

ovi went 2 purvi and gave her blank cheque 2 give purvi's arjun., ovi is not bechari😆

ovi was alcohol addict.,wanted 2 kill her baby., ovi is not bechari

all of d sudden ovi realized.,mamta😆 .,ovi is not bechari




She shared a special moment with Arjun coz she loves him! Arjun could have said no!But no! He inititated it. Where was his love for Purvi at that time? Ovi is his lawfully wedded wife and HE came to her saying that they should give their relationship a fresh start. Ever heard of the term
Goodbye sex? If Purvi can have premarital sex, why can't Ovi have sex with her husband for 1 last time if she wants to and the husband is initiating it? Why is she the one who always gets judged whereas Arjun, Purvi glide away scot free?

The mother you are so rightfully talking of, abandoned her, remember? Which kind of mother doesn't call even once to check up on her kids even if there is some problem b/w her and her husband? With what right she wanted to be accepted by Ovi? Ovi put forward a condition coz she had no other option! Her own mother had turned her down yet again. Why she should accept her mother, I fail to understand. But that's another point. Back to the topic, she was in love with Arjun and was trying everything to get him. Couldn't Purvi say no to it and tell her about her
premarital consummation? Why did she act like a 'bechari' when she could have opened up her mouth and refused Ovi's deal?

Ovi gave him another chance for the same reason i gave above.. she loves him! And he came back to her asking for it as per the orders given by his ex.

And people are pushed towards alcoholism only when they are 'becharas' 😆



I am not at all implying that Ovi is a bechaari. She is a practical girl who is just trapped in a tasteless marriage with a pathetic loser because of her own mistake. If Purvi can be forgiven for her kaands then so can Ovi. She too deserves sympathy.

Ovi has her own share of mistakes but so does Purvi! If Ovi is bad then Purvi is no saint either.

And btw, this topic is about Purvi, not Ovi!
My point is that Purvi is not sanskaari. You donot have to put Ovi down to defend Purvi. But again, Purvi can never be glorified without bashing Ovi, such are her kaands. She just cannot be defended.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: ..aastha..


Ovi and patni of arjun? Lol.



Achha..then Purvi is the patni of Arjun? 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Veronica.

ovi accepted arjun inspite of knowing dat he vil never love her and had sex vid him though arjun initiated it,purvi very well knows how much arjun loves her.,den y would she say no 2 arjun???

ovi had a option of saying no 2 arjun.,a girl ready 2 give herself 2 a man wen she knew's d man loves her 😛 but in ovi's case 😕

why ovi should accept archu??😆., yup wat can v expect 4m ovi??a bribe 2 accept her own mom??its pratical😕😆


where as purvi she lost everything 4 d sake of her mother happiness.,which is quite impractical .,but true😊

v both ve different opinion😊 .,so lets 2 try 2 respect each other's opinion


Edited by prityy89 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

If Purvi is sanskaari , I wonder what stands for sanskaari anymore
Sanskaari means RIGHT UPBRINGING 😆
Where as intentions are just a part of a person's nature
They are two completely different things
Soham is a good guy but he is not sanskaari but that doesn't mean he doesn't have good intentions
And the TM , please be prepared from arguments about how amazing Purvi is and how bad Ovi is 😆
I have nothing against Purvi IF she admitted her mistakes and wanted to move on
But she time and again repeats her mistakes and never feels bad about it LOL



Exactly my point!
Why are they showing Purvi to be so righteous?
Everybody commit mistakes but 'sanskaari' are the people who own upto their mistakes. All Purvi needs to do is to go and apologise to Ovi and everybody she has hurt and go to Kolkata with Onir. Or she can say that she loves only Arjun and Arjun needs to do the same. They can get back together this way and everybody will be happy with it. But NO! She'll never admit her mistakes and pretend to be a 'dukhiyari naari'

Arguments? haha..people will just bash Ovi. Nobody will defend Purvi coz they just can't. They don't have facts to support their arguments! 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes i agree some people only bash on ovi bt never defend purvi bcs purvi ne defend karneke liye kuchh chhoda hi nahi unke passs 😆😆😆😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Huma-


joke of this janam 🤣

yes cvs ne arvi ko iss janam ka joke bana diya 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: prityy89

@Veronica.

ovi accepted arjun inspite of knowing dat he vil never love her and had sex vid him though arjun initiated it,purvi very well knows how much arjun loves her.,den y would she say no 2 arjun???

ovi had a option of saying no 2 arjun.,a girl ready 2 give herself 2 a man wen she knew's d man loves her 😛 but in ovi's case 😕

why ovi should accept archu??😆., yup wat can v expect 4m ovi??a bribe 2 accept her own mom??its pratical😕😆


where as purvi she lost everything 4 d sake of her mother happiness.,which is quite impractical .,but true😊

v both ve different opinion😊 .,so lets 2 try 2 respect each other's opinion





OMG! Arjun said he'll always be with her! He said he wanted the marriage to work!! So if he initiated it and Ovi wanted it, what's wrong in this?
Even Purvi suggested consummation to Onir despite loving Arjun. So she is bad too, right?


M not at all saying ArVi consummation was wrong! They had every right to do so! But Purvi should have told this to Ovi when she put the deal, that's my point. If even then Ovi had accepted Arjun, then I would have said Ovi is dumb and her misery is the result of her own deal.


And yes.. Archu! Just because she is a mother, Ovi should accept her, that's what you want to say, right?
What had Archana ever done for Ovi? They never showed Archana even missing her kids, forget doing anything for them! Ovi hated her mother and her life was going very well without a mother. She loved Arjun more than Archu. That's why she put such a condition. She could have survived without Archu but not without Arjun. Arjun was her priority not Archu. She was not wrong in her thought process. And she is suffering bcoz of that deal till today!

Coming to Purvi, yes she sacrificed her love for Archu's happiness. And yes, it is practical! I never raised this point at all. My point is she should have atleast told Ovi about the extent of her and Arjun's relationship. That's all I'm saying.


Both girls were practical from their POVs. I just don't understand why Ovi is the only 1 getting criticised.

And I do respect your opinion!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: Veronica.



OMG! Arjun said he'll always be with her! He said he wanted the marriage to work!! So if he initiated it and Ovi wanted it, what's wrong in this?
Even Purvi suggested consummation to Onir despite loving Arjun. So she is bad too, right?


M not at all saying ArVi consummation was wrong! They had every right to do so! But Purvi should have told this to Ovi when she put the deal, that's my point. If even then Ovi had accepted Arjun, then I would have said Ovi is dumb and her misery is the result of her own deal.


And yes.. Archu! Just because she is a mother, Ovi should accept her, that's what you want to say, right?
What had Archana ever done for Ovi? They never showed Archana even missing her kids, forget doing anything for them! Ovi hated her mother and her life was going very well without a mother. She loved Arjun more than Archu. That's why she put such a condition. She could have survived without Archu but not without Arjun. Arjun was her priority not Archu. She was not wrong in her thought process. And she is suffering bcoz of that deal till today!

Coming to Purvi, yes she sacrificed her love for Archu's happiness. And yes, it is practical! I never raised this point at all. My point is she should have atleast told Ovi about the extent of her and Arjun's relationship. That's all I'm saying.


Both girls were practical from their POVs. I just don't understand why Ovi is the only 1 getting criticised.

And I do respect your opinion!

i agree with u...😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i think your equeating Sanskaari with Sanyasi.
purvi makes the wrong decisions but her decisions are not selfish, though in the longrun they are boud to cause pain. she does not think of the consiquences of her deed. but simply does thinks that she believes would bring others happiness.
like giving up arjun would have made Ovi happy, and Archana would have got her family back thus making her happy. what she didnt take into account that unhappiness it caused Arjun. and ovi in the long run.
Purvi is like Archana she thinks of others more than she needs to. and this is her worst drawback a fault in her character. its not about Sanskars its about intentions.
Sanskars only find voice in intentions. but even good intentions can have bad effects and have nothing to do with sanskars.
and besides i feel that Sanskars are subjactive. like younger people should respect their elders no matter what the elders do even if it is bad. if a person were to voice objection against the elder then society would lable that person as having no sanskars. just an example.

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