Kool's Commentary 5 ; May 13 PR - Page 26

I always disliked Zoya from the beginning. She was always intentionally riding on Asad's nerves but I still felt bad for her when she got slapped.

Zoya got on my nerves too.😆 Very irritating characters, she sounds and behaves irritating.

The second episode was the last one for me.

And I think I have found more reasons to dislike Zoya. She will be encouraging the amar premis to reunite. That's characteristic of her. She likes butting into other people's business as well 🥱.

Gauri has to be the most unprofessional intern I've ever seen, thinking she knows more than the doctors and eavesdropping on personal conversations that is the limit

Manav needs to stop shouting at people! He's become so rude!

Sulochana and Savita already talking about Archana and how divided she'll be between her husband and kids, I'm hoping this time she chooses her kids they need her and if Manav can't accept that its his problem not hers.

Seriously? What a dumb episode today I don't get it, what was the point of all of that? If they want Arjun and Purvi to have moments why do they need to go all around the mulberry bush, by coming up with some stupid storyline? What was the point of Shalini and Kinshuk? So, a knife fell on Shalini's foot and?

See how easy it is for Purvi to lie again? Then she is saying sorry for lying to Onir in her head?

Why does Purvi have to lie about everything???? I give up!!!

Cvs here is my idea, since you have obviously been stuck for 2 yrs now, you have already broken up ArOvi, Arjun is now free. Get them a divorce in two days, since you know nothing about law and you make up your own any ways, All you have to do, is let Purvi explain to Onir that she does not love him, and still loves her Baby Daddy, and she feels it would be best if both Bio parents brought up Pari, since she did not have the luxury of her bio parents raising her. Plain and simple.

Onir will give her up, because if he can lose his Med licence for her he can do anything.

Let Purvi be a mature woman for once, and stop making her act the idiot, and tell stupid lies.

Let her come out and be honest, since it is deemed that she loves Arjun so much.

End of Story line,

Then we can go on to the other actors and actresses in the show.

I want see Manav and Archana be grandparents from "all" their children.

hope you all had a wonderful weekend! I had a ton of family visiting for their respective children's graduations so was very busy meeting and greeting!

Just caught up on all the posts :) Excellent discussions on innate nature of women and how women can play it or be like Ovi !

Kalapi to answer your question - My day went very upbeat like varsha di said...stimulating conversation being the reason ;)

Also, in a way you are right that even Arjun shows some kind of very weird bro-code with Onir about Purvi, but we are shown glimpses of him looking sad while eavesdropping on the husband-wife moments (ugh) and he seems to like Onir only because onir is good to Purvi - so that kind of shows his love..he doesn't seem confortable at all with the idea of onir-purvi having babies together or them sharing normal marital relationship...typical male if you ask me...he wants to have sex with both, but cannot handle when the woman he loves does it too...egoistic and chauvinistic...yet, he seems to love purvi and she SIMPLY does not. She has done nothing for him, whereas his world revolves around her.

Kools, Varsha Di, Kalapi and hilly- agree absolutely on the innate nature in women to be coy and demure and even play games to their advantage..I think this is more the consequence of the distinct behavior expectations between men and women from eons ago...In society, women are taught to be shy, coy and be the follower and men are taught to be leaders, hunters, assertive and aggressive...Men in that sense, are way more straightforward..it is how they are wired biologically and environmentally too. They are aggressors and they play mind games in wars/fights not in relationships...They come straightforward in a relationship--either they like you or they don't...there is no grey space..there is no making the girl like you back...no games nothing...

Men, being so straightforward and so non-expressive about their thoughts and feelings, requires a certain tact to be dealth with for women...Women have to resort to some game to get men to convey things, to find out what's going on in their heads and to give themselves some mental relief from all the assuming and wondering...😉 That is why women play games. It is what I believe and I think we all obviously have the shy/demure code in us from the generations passed on norms about women's expected behavior, but playing games is an innate quality that we can use/not use depending on our own mindsets.

I am very straightforward like Ovi too...I say it like it is and I don't mince words or feelings...It is a drawback for me too at times because others see me as blunt...especially my grandmom who kept telling me no man would marry a woman like me who cannot act coy and sugar coat my words/criticism.

But I also, can play games when I need to... my husband for the longest time did not have the nerve to ask me out..I knew he wanted to, but he just could not..I would have saamne se put the idea up to him and not bothered about the appropriateness of a woman asking a man...but I wanted to play the girl...So I simply played stupid game like I want to go for a movie and I don't know who to ask...Maybe I should ask my guy friend Mr. X...and that made hubby pop the question of date as he did not liek the idea of me with another man...ahah I saw nothing wrong in what I did...It wasn't to make him jealous I just wanted him to get over his fear and ask me out...Now it is a different case obv that we are married...I am straightforward about what I want versus what I don;t...but my point is that we can play it when we want to...Innate indeed...:)

As for today's episode, nothing to say...Arjun-Purvi are 🤬 and in reality they would be called much worse in society...Zoya is just another chapli like Gauri and Purvi...all butting their heads into other's business and giving unsolicited advice where none is needed...Absolute idiotic leads of shows...Arjun is the worse kind of man there ever could be...

Question is where is Pari? When bio parents are busy bumping into each other adn romancing and dance...and adoptive father is busy hiding kartoots of the past...Poor Pari, parents like hers are worse than being brought up in an orphanage.