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Posted: 12 years ago
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Arjun was concerned abt Ovi because he does care for her. He doesnt love her the same way as he does Purvi but he loves her as a childhood friend and she WAS his wife for one year. Concern is natural given her recent history of alcoholism and bad behavior in nashey ki haalat. Shes alone in Canada, who knows what will happen if she gets drunk again and starts behaving the same way. Who will control her, take care of her when that happens? Nobody from her family is there with her!
Like lots of people said, social drinking is fine but getting drunk is really bad for the safety and health of person concerned.
Kripa married 2 times, once to Angad, once to Prithvi, she never married Nishant for real, that was a pretence only. She had babies by both guys she married. Angad-Kripa were both grey characters who went to any lengths to take revenge from each other and also to make each other famous, depending on whether love or hate track was going on! 😆
Ekta does make her heros monogamous, her heroines are mostly polyandrous. Thats her way of dealing with the opposite scenario which happens in real world, where many men marry more than once even without divorcing first wife or have extramarital affairs and women are the unsuspecting victims of such men.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Arjun was concerned abt Ovi because he does care for her. He doesnt love her the same way as he does Purvi but he loves her as a childhood friend and she WAS his wife for one year. Concern is natural given her recent history of alcoholism and bad behavior in nashey ki haalat. Shes alone in Canada, who knows what will happen if she gets drunk again and starts behaving the same way. Who will control her, take care of her when that happens? Nobody from her family is there with her!

Like lots of people said, social drinking is fine but getting drunk is really bad for the safety and health of person concerned.
Kripa married 2 times, once to Angad, once to Prithvi, she never married Nishant for real, that was a pretence only. She had babies by both guys she married. Angad-Kripa were both grey characters who went to any lengths to take revenge from each other and also to make each other famous, depending on whether love or hate track was going on! 😆
Ekta does make her heros monogamous, her heroines are mostly polyandrous. Thats her way of dealing with the opposite scenario which happens in real world, where many men marry more than once even without divorcing first wife or have extramarital affairs and women are the unsuspecting victims of such men.


pallavi looks like you have a soft spot for angad and kripa too. defo my fave ekta couple for sure. relentless and unapologetic in love and hate. if arjun had even a third of angad's backbone- the show would do well. he loved kripa like crazy but he never took any, for the lack of a better term, shit from her. he stood up for what he thought was right and so did she. they didnt play any of these silly tyaag and emotional attyachar games.
ya maybe its her way of dealing with reality but media does influence social and popular culture. and really making men seem like jelly fishes and women polyandrous is not really a responsible judgement on her part. a media figure in her position with such power should show whats really progressive and a step forward in the real world context. not propagate some amazonian skewed sense of justice. a woman who is divorced should marry if she pleases but come on, someone whose been divorced is not going to just carelessly get into another marriage without doing very thorough background checks- unless they are gold diggers or a floozy. thats y i seem to lose any respect for the lead women in these lead jodis so quickly- as they say hit me once shame on you, hit me twice shame on me. these are 'moral' women who get divorced or separated from their loved ones by twists of fate but then go and marry some guy who then turns out to be a serial killer. what?!? thats not showing women in a good light. once a woman is hurt by a man, she evaluates the next man who comes into the picture very very carefully. she doesnt just go and marry someone without any consideration. that makes us seem like dim-witted damsels in distress who just needed a man to cling onto and sat on the first lap that offered some space to sit.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham


pallavi looks like you have a soft spot for angad and kripa too. defo my fave ekta couple for sure. relentless and unapologetic in love and hate. if arjun had even a third of angad's backbone- the show would do well. he loved kripa like crazy but he never took any, for the lack of a better term, shit from her. he stood up for what he thought was right and so did she. they didnt play any of these silly tyaag and emotional attyachar games.
ya maybe its her way of dealing with reality but media does influence social and popular culture. and really making men seem like jelly fishes and women polyandrous is not really a responsible judgement on her part. a media figure in her position with such power should show whats really progressive and a step forward in the real world context. not propagate some amazonian skewed sense of justice. a woman who is divorced should marry if she pleases but come on, someone whose been divorced is not going to just carelessly get into another marriage without doing very thorough background checks- unless they are gold diggers or a floozy. thats y i seem to lose any respect for the lead women in these lead jodis so quickly- as they say hit me once shame on you, hit me twice shame on me. these are 'moral' women who get divorced or separated from their loved ones by twists of fate but then go and marry some guy who then turns out to be a serial killer. what?!? thats not showing women in a good light. once a woman is hurt by a man, she evaluates the next man who comes into the picture very very carefully. she doesnt just go and marry someone without any consideration. that makes us seem like dim-witted damsels in distress who just needed a man to cling onto and sat on the first lap that offered some space to sit.


Oh yes, Tejaswini, Angad-Kripa are my most favorite TV couple of all time! I cannot find that magic in any other couple, havent found it yet but still looking! They kind of spoiled me for romance and passion! 😆
Youre right, they were unapologetic in love or hate, they gave each other heaven and hell and all others who came in between just didnt matter in the long run! Angad didnt take any crap from her, she didnt sit and cry and suffer...she fought back, thats what I love in that couple, their spirit and passion. Kripa even married Prithvi in order to help Angad's family. so even there Angad was involved.
Its like that song: Whatever I do, I do it for you...😳 or against you...😆

Ekta is messed up, plain and simple. For whatever personal reasons, which I dont want to go into...she has a skewed sense of man-woman relationships which spills into her serials. PR is one of the worst it seems.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi is not wrong to drink... She has gone through soo much and Arjun did so much to her, that drinking is nothing is nothing in comparison to that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi's excessive drinking is annoying. She is simply an alcoholic. She is a person who requires alcohol since she feels its the only way to survive. If you ask me she needs to go into rehab for her drinking problem.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's her way of coping , as purvi's is of crying
:S
She is not drinking when she is happy :S
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Purvi is not crying now, in fact I havent seen her crying in last few episodes. But Ovi is still drinking...😆 And that too hard drinks, alcohol, not just wine or beer which are less intoxicating.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

It's her way of coping , as purvi's is of crying
:S
She is not drinking when she is happy :S

We know the reality and understand the truth about Ovi's situation and that is all that matters. The episodes are evidences, and we have interpreted them correctly without bias.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

It's her way of coping , as purvi's is of crying
:S
She is not drinking when she is happy :S


ok if u have to drink when u are not happy, that clearly means that u have an problem. bc alcoholics dont drink when they are happy and if they do that means they are not happy. if every time u have a problem and u feel the need to drink rather than coping liek a normal person and allowing urself to feel the emotions, then u have a problem
their are healthy ways of coping. crying is one of them although too much is not. drinking is not a healthy way of coping and it is an addiction
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Purvi is not crying now, in fact I havent seen her crying in last few episodes. But Ovi is still drinking...😆And that too hard drinks, alcohol, not just wine or beer which are less intoxicating.



No but she cried all those times when Ovi wasn't drinking as she was happy with her assumed daughter and Purvi was crying for putting herself in the mess
:s
Purvi has healed , she has her baby
But Ovi doesn't have anything she is trying to move on
Now can we cut her some slack ?

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