KC Gang I know we are upset with Arjun and the whole crap that Ovi had to go through from Day one.
But I don't think Arjun was using Ovi sexually the night before she left for Canada. His father told him to save his marriage, and that is what he was doing. Even though DK knows Arjun's true feelings.
He was doing what it takes to hold unto Ovi. He had the rain scene with her to please her. She only help to dry him, she was caught of guard when he made the moves on her. He wanted her, that was not using. Look how he woke up smiling. Asking for Chai. He obviously had a great night. Why we never saw Arjun like that with her before?
As I said before, Arjun always had intimacy(friendship) with Ovi, at least there was a time they had that. It can be salvaged. Ovi always showed her possessiveness towards Arjun, as shown on the video at their anniversary. If he never had any feelings towards her , he would have avoided her due to the possessiveness. If a man does not have any feelings at all, he would be repulsed by your possessiveness and he would not marry you or stay married for that matter.
Arjun always like the attention he got from Ovi, and he has encouraged her attention towards him numerous times.
He is committed to the marriage, because regardless of what he feels for Purvi, he is always trying to stay in the marriage with Ovi...why?
he even go as far to tell Ovi this last time before she went to Canada, that he does not want to go back to Purvi, and he gave back Pari to Purvi...Why? Why?
If he has feelings for Purvi, he also has feelings for Ovi, and it is not sisterly/friendship feelings.
That is why he is acting like this now, he actually started feeling passion for Ovi for the first time. However, he obviously still has feelings for Purvi. However, Purvi won't let him move on, she is always in front of his face, and the baby is a constant reminder.
When Manav asked him about Purvi, obviously he could not answer because he still had feelings for Purvi, but he never told Manav he never had feelings for Ovi either.
The cvs don't know what they are writing about, because Arjun is having desires for Ovi now, and they need to stop playing games.
They want to justify Arjun and Purvi relationship by making everyone else bad and using Pari as a pawn, that is stupid when they are showing us possibilities.
the only other thing possible the cvs could be doing, is trying to make Arjun look good by showing he is trying to save his marriage with Ovi, but it is Ovi who will mess it up. So, they can say see, Arjun did try but the marriage could not work due to Ovi. Therefore, the only possible solution is to put the amar premis back together.
I am not saying Ovi must not have self-esteem, I want her to build that for herself only. However, I can't see why with time, forgiveness and work, Arjun and Ovi can't make it. Their relationship has more to build from than Arjun and Purvi whose relationship is based on raw passion, and a questionable bond. There is absolutely no intimacy as Purvi never respected Arjun and his feelings. Also, Arjun's decision to marry Ovi, makes no sense if he could not live without Purvi.
At the end of the day the Cvs will do as they please with Arjun and Purvi, because they do not have a clue about what forms a healthy, loving and committed relationship. Ekta thinks only chemistry, rain and shack scenes lead to a long lasting marriage. Poor lady😆
Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
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