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Posted: 12 years ago
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I will not hesitate to put my two cents in this discussion. I think Arjun is the most selfish person in PR. Not only that he is also a coward, meaning that through out the whole issue he did not stand up for himself. He was such a coward when Purvi told him to get married to Ovi that he did what Purvi told him. At that time he could have said that if I do not marry you I will not marry Ovi and stay a bachalor. That is all he had to say and the whole baby issue would not have come out.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: bravearvians

Wah wah u guys are accusing Arjun nw ?? In my POV he is dng the r8 thing b'coz purvi and ovi doesn't leave a chance to make his life miserable ! Ovi being obessed with him blackmailed purvi and dis Mahaan purvi made him a sacrifical goat and ovi uff.. Lemme 1 thing if she ever does love arjun than why she used to drink when she is pregnant with his child ! Then u guys never said that Ovi is selfish why ????? Arjun is dng the right thing by being Selfish !!



Arjun is welcome to be as selfish as he wants. But he is not allowed to treat his wife as a nanny for his illegitimate child , oh sorry, "pyar ka nishani" child
I would love for arjun to be selfish , but he is not supposed to tell his wife to leave when his daughter from another woman is able to take care of herself
he is so rich, he can't afford a nanny?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

Is that the SBS segment Waneeka? It only shows how selfish is Arjun. He cared for nothing that isn't related to Purvi. He never cared for the dead baby. This character is worst than negative - it is a monster, in my POV.

Actually, the childhood clip that Teju showed didn't put him in any good light either. It actiually backened his character more...can't believe how badly he treated Ovi all thoughout, as soon as Purvi came to his life..He is a shame in the name of a human being...he will never ever redeem himself to me🤢


Kalapi Di,
Arjun is the WORST character. I understand he is not interested in living with Ovi. Apparently Ovi is a monster to have trapped him in this loveless and deal marriage so why is he wanting Ovi to take care of his daughter? He even has the guts to say you can wherever you want after pari is able to care for herself ..oh my god ..I felt like slapping him
Manav is a good father to stand by his daughter. His daughter made a mistake but later everything was okay too. Is he wrong to be concerned for his daughter?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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all character is selfish except pari.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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You know I will not be one bit surprised if Arjun acts like this. It's totally in his selfish and cowardly nature to pull something like this.

I have said it before and I'll say it again. Arjun and Purvi are the truly selfish and manipulating people underneath their disguise of "sacrificing" and "victims". And I am SO GLAD more and more of us are not blinded by the "love" of ArVi and are seeing their true colours.

I'm honestly not surprised if Arjun acts like this with Ovi. I know he does not love Ovi! I totally understand! You can't make someone fall in love forcefully! That's one thing I understand! However, there is this thing called RESPECT. And Arjun has NO respect and NO consideration for Ovi. We have seen it over and over. It's sickening to watching what a liar and cheater Arjun is. Does he not have any respect for Ovi simply based on the fact that she is his WIFE and childhood BESTFRIEND?! I would not wish this type of "bestfriend" on anyone.

To top it off, if he loves Purvi so much, he needs to STAND UP for himself. He is the most spineless person on this show, always shedding crocodile tears.

I think the worst and most disgusting thing Arjun has done so far is his absolute disregard and lack of emotion and grief for the baby that died (his and Ovi's baby). Since he found out Pari is Purvi and his daughter, all of a sudden he loves her so much more and she's his "angel". Where was this love when he thought she was his and OVI's daughter? It's one thing to not love Ovi but HIS OWN CHILD? Tsk tsk. Yeah, what a great leading hero we have.

I mean, he showed more emotion and sadness when he thought Purvi's baby died than his and Ovi's!!! How inconsiderate is that for Ovi and her child?!

I am so glad Arjun and Purvi are being shown in this light right now even though we know it won't last for long. Purvi getting slapped by Sulochana was absolute joy for me! Now I hope Ovi slaps Arjun like he slapped her before! That would be so comforting for me to watch!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Someone, anyone pls slap Arjun pretty please his making man everywhere look BAD. What a disgrace.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hmm. Arjun does seem selfish, but I don't think he is completely wrong. He was forced into this marriage because of Ovi and Purvi. Ovi really wanted a relationship with him even though he made it clear that he doesn't love her and only loved Purvi. Now Ovi is mad because he has a child with Purvi BEFORE marriage. It's not like he deceived Ovi because she knew ArVi were in love! She knew very well what she was signing up for when she married Arjun and now she expects it to be an amazing marriage. So yeah, she is the one that wants to leave. She is the one to cause Arjun and everyone the heartache. She is the one who blackmailed and threw tantrums so she could get her way. So now she should take responsibility of the consequences that also includes the child.

The crazy and selfish ones (the MORE selfish ones) are Ovi and Purvi in my opinion. Purvi is just absolutely crazy and Ovi is incredibly selfish. Purvi should have taken the child and left instead of keeping Pari with Arjun and Ovi. In fact, that may have solved the problem.

But we can't really expect these characters to have a brain and a moral conscious.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: XAiShBaBy08X

Hmm. Arjun does seem selfish, but I don't think he is completely wrong. He was forced into this marriage because of Ovi and Purvi. Ovi really wanted a relationship with him even though he made it clear that he doesn't love her and only loved Purvi. Now Ovi is mad because he has a child with Purvi BEFORE marriage. It's not like he deceived Ovi because she knew ArVi were in love! She knew very well what she was signing up for when she married Arjun and now she expects it to be an amazing marriage. So yeah, she is the one that wants to leave. She is the one to cause Arjun and everyone the heartache. She is the one who blackmailed and threw tantrums so she could get her way. So now she should take responsibility of the consequences that also includes the child.

The crazy and selfish ones (the MORE selfish ones) are Ovi and Purvi in my opinion. Purvi is just absolutely crazy and Ovi is incredibly selfish. Purvi should have taken the child and left instead of keeping Pari with Arjun and Ovi. In fact, that may have solved the problem.

But we can't really expect these characters to have a brain and a moral conscious.



Oh please, let's just try and get rid of this attitude huh? Big bad Ovi and Meanie Purvi made poor wittle Arjun get married to OVI! Isn't he a big shot businessman?! Doesn't he have a brain? Did either Purvi or Ovi hold a gun to his head? No they didn't. NOBODY forced him to marry. He had all the power to say NO. And he had another chance one month after the marriage but NO he's was too much of a wimp to take that decision and stand up for who he wants.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: XAiShBaBy08X

Hmm. Arjun does seem selfish, but I don't think he is completely wrong. He was forced into this marriage because of Ovi and Purvi. Ovi really wanted a relationship with him even though he made it clear that he doesn't love her and only loved Purvi. Now Ovi is mad because he has a child with Purvi BEFORE marriage. It's not like he deceived Ovi because she knew ArVi were in love! She knew very well what she was signing up for when she married Arjun and now she expects it to be an amazing marriage. So yeah, she is the one that wants to leave. She is the one to cause Arjun and everyone the heartache. She is the one who blackmailed and threw tantrums so she could get her way. So now she should take responsibility of the consequences that also includes the child.

The crazy and selfish ones (the MORE selfish ones) are Ovi and Purvi in my opinion. Purvi is just absolutely crazy and Ovi is incredibly selfish. Purvi should have taken the child and left instead of keeping Pari with Arjun and Ovi. In fact, that may have solved the problem.

But we can't really expect these characters to have a brain and a moral conscious.


How is she supposed to know if the baby is before marriage or after marriage? He was forced to this marriage so now he is free, right? why is he wanting ovi to come there ONLY because of his daughter, not for him, not because he wants and needs her ..only because of Pari..who will be a nanny to his baby otherwise? lol
What consequences? Did Arjun marry ovi telling her , "okay, you have to become a nanny for my baby"
She didn't BLACKMAIL. She proposed a deal. Purvi and Arjun accepted the deal.
Look, it's not only about Arovi marriage. It's about the Arovi baby. Look at it from a mother's perspective. Ovi's delivery was handled by Onir. How is Ovi supposed to know Onir didn't deliberately kill the child so Pari was in place of her child..for the luxury and to be with her biological father ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Just watched SBS where Arjun is telling Ovi, to not leave the house till Pari is older and then she is free to go wherever she is

Arjun is telling her , Pari needs her
When Ovi accuses him of being selfish, he is saying she is my priority
then Ovi said she is not going to accept his illegitimate child and he flips out
Wow Arjun, your wife is leaving the house and you're just concerned about your baby not having a nanny
You've plenty of money, why don't you hire a full time nanny?
I don't understand
there is a limit of selfishness 😡



He isn't selfish at all. The whole premise of our culture is Krishan Bhagvan - He wasn't brought up by his birth mother yet she loved him just as much as his real mother did. So Ovi is the selfish one. How can she now turn her back on the baby? it's not the baby's fault.

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