Originally posted by: naava
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Actually, I do think that Purvi always felt she wasn't allowed happiness, the love from Arjun took her by surprise. I think she's not allowing herself to feel anything about anything except Ovi...Ovi ...Ovi ... I think she felt guilty that she could have happiness and Ovi couldn't ...and that only because she was way too sensitive to her mother's deep pain at losing her other children. Little Miss Fixer.
All that said and analyzed however 😊, as i have said before, what she choses to shut down in her own life is one thing. but to make Arjun and now Onir suffer is a bit intolerable to me.
Yes Naava . she may be feeling that she has taken all the happiness that belonged to Ovi ( even if it was unintentional on her part ) ...like the mother's love that Ovi always wanted in her life ...Purvi had that love when she was growing up ..
and Purvi knows that Ovi loved Arjun since she was a little girl but lost Arjun to her ...
so that could be the reason why she is extra sensitive to Ovi's pain ...
Still, as you also have said , it does not gives her the right to ruin other people's lives ...Saying No to marriage with Arjun was enough...why force him to marry Ovi , emotionaly blackmail him using his love for her and keep pushing him deeper and deeper in a depressing and a horrible life , that is unforgivable ...
And then again doing this to Onir ...
Again using his love for her and taking him away from his biggest happiness...his charity work for people who do not have means to afford a doctor ...
This is all just not acceptable at all...
Purvi's own personal issues are not more important than the work that Onir is doing ...
And did you see how in the train she said to herself that this is now a test for Onir and let's see if he passes this test or not ...Yet again ,not feeling guilty or bad at all that she is doing this to a person who did so much for her ...
This girl thinks and feels that she can do no wrong ...😆
Here I think we should blame Archana a bit ..She is pretty much responsible in spoiling Purvi and putting her up on a very very high padestal ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 12 years ago