Written Update: 26 December 2012 - Page 9

Originally posted by: naava

Hi Ash,

I also had a soft spot for Purvi for a long time...but i have to also hold her accountable (as a viewer 😆 ) if i i am going to hold other characters accountable. If she had just told Arjun she couldn't marry him because of all the reasons - Archana, Ovi, etc...but stopped right there. And if she had just told Onir she really wanted him to treat her sister...and stopped right there...I could agree.

But in both cases she, in my opinion, "emotionally manipulated" them because it was for them to do something against their will. Doing her own thing is one matter...forcing someone else to do something is another.

In both cases she used the unconditional love that they each had for her, to "force" them into doing something. Saying "if you really love me"... Clearly she is not thinking of how each of those men felt...Arjun or Onir - nor respecting their decisions and them as human beings of their own integrity. It was purely what she wanted to see done only. If she were more mature she would have let Arjun teach her (and at that point he could have) and now let Onir teach her...that sometimes there are other ways to solve problems.

Yes, both Arjun and Onir have full responsibility too if they let her do that and "force" them into situations they are against, just because of their love, or to prove their love. But one should never force another to prove their love. That's just plain wrong.

And, in both cases the demand was wrong...a man to marry someone he didn't love and didn't want to marry, and a doctor to treat a patient in a way that crossed his professional boundaries.

Even saying that, there is still a soft place in my heart for Purvi IF, and that's a big IF, she realizes what she has done, and changes her behavior. 😆 (anytime anywhere someone truly realizes their mistake, and asks forgiveness and wants to change...bango, i'm there at their side.) 😃

Originally posted by: naava

Hi Ash,

I also had a soft spot for Purvi for a long time...but i have to also hold her accountable (as a viewer 😆 ) if i i am going to hold other characters accountable. If she had just told Arjun she couldn't marry him because of all the reasons - Archana, Ovi, etc...but stopped right there. And if she had just told Onir she really wanted him to treat her sister...and stopped right there...I could agree.

But in both cases she, in my opinion, "emotionally manipulated" them because it was for them to do something against their will. Doing her own thing is one matter...forcing someone else to do something is another.

In both cases she used the unconditional love that they each had for her, to "force" them into doing something. Saying "if you really love me"... Clearly she is not thinking of how each of those men felt...Arjun or Onir - nor respecting their decisions and them as human beings of their own integrity. It was purely what she wanted to see done only. If she were more mature she would have let Arjun teach her (and at that point he could have) and now let Onir teach her...that sometimes there are other ways to solve problems.

Yes, both Arjun and Onir have full responsibility too if they let her do that and "force" them into situations they are against, just because of their love, or to prove their love. But one should never force another to prove their love. That's just plain wrong.

And, in both cases the demand was wrong...a man to marry someone he didn't love and didn't want to marry, and a doctor to treat a patient in a way that crossed his professional boundaries.

Even saying that, there is still a soft place in my heart for Purvi IF, and that's a big IF, she realizes what she has done, and changes her behavior. 😆 (anytime anywhere someone truly realizes their mistake, and asks forgiveness and wants to change...bango, i'm there at their side.) 😃

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

Thanks for your valuable post. probably your opinion also right. But now I want not to debate this matter. Request to U that If U mention my name "Ashfaque" that will be better for me.

Originally posted by: strega

Naava - Am there with you - Only since everyone is criticizing Purvi, I feel like playing devils advocate !! Anyway, it is not real - so why not?!!!

And Ovi's hormones have been used to defend her unreasonable behavior. So lets use the same for Purvi, right? After all, she is pregnant too!!

Originally posted by: naava

Strega...yes, poor Purvi needs some defenders right now i guess 😛...good for you.

That's an interesting point about the hormones, because, if the baby is Arjun's she was also pregnant when she forced Arjun into the marriage with Ovi (but i am sure didn't yet know she was preggers).

Thank God it's not real. 😆