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JShiv

@JShiv

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am a little confused about Manav's actions these days as a father. Don't know why but i have a feeling he don't give a dam about Purvi nor Soham i am not saying he should forgive soham but he and Archana always wanted Soham back in their lives they found him he is a gunda what they expect he will change as soon as he spot them and run to them with open arms no that's not how it works they have to try and win their son back i know they tried but try harder he is their son don't matter how you turn it or twist it. Manav only care's about his two daughters and son Sachin. I know Soham is old enough to understand right from wrong but Manav is not understanding that Soham was brain washed and made to do wrong things and was then told he is doing the right thing. Manav should understand that cause he was brainwashed loads of times by his mom to think Archana was bad so it baffles me he dose not understands Soham situation.😕

Coming to Purvi She is only crazy cause she wants to support Soham she was not crazy when she give up her happiness to save this same ungrateful Manav baba and Aai's marriage and family then is when she was crazy not now oops i forget Manav;s other daughter Ovi madam got what she wanted too so Manav baba didn't care about the person whose life and dreams was shattered in order to patch his disturbed family back together.Up to a day like today i haven't seen Manav nor Archana sit and talked to Purvi and find out how she is coping with life what she planned to do with her life nothing so now when Purvi thinks she can fixed all the problems they thinks she is crazy. Purvi thinks she is doing good for the people she cared about but she is wrong cause these people are not even thankful for her goodness She is only making her life a living hell.

The one who is supposed to be told that what she did was wrong is being pampered all the time no wonder she is such a b***h When will Manav get rid of his catarrh from his eyes so he can see his other beti is crazy and obsessed with a man who clearly loves someone else Please Manav behave like a father to all your kids and stop this ranting about Soham is a gunda we know is he is (and so is your darling daughter Ovi) but you can try to change him and make him a better person.

This is just my POV you don't have to agree with me you are free to put across your POV as well without bashing anyone 😉

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Tanzia Scott

@latanzia

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Posted: 13 years ago

I understand and agree with some of your points, but with the idea of purvi lying to save soham is just stupid and crazy just like her idea of giving up her happiness for her sister. u cannot force someone to change nor can u uphold wrong doings, because in the long run everyone involved will suffer, soham has to want to change, this is what purvi doesn't want to or fail to understand. we can also c the result in the ovi situation, no one is happy , not ovi, arjun or even purvi herself.

Somethings are better left to nature and god.

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Md. Ashfaqur rahman

@ashfaque2012

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jonelle
I am a little confused about Manav's actions these days as a father. Don't know why but i have a feeling he don't give a dam about Purvi nor Soham i am not saying he should forgive soham but he and Archana always wanted Soham back in their lives they found him he is a gunda what they expect he will change as soon as he spot them and run to them with open arms no that's not how it works they have to try and win their son back i know they tried but try harder he is their son don't matter how you turn it or twist it. Manav only care's about his two daughters and son Sachin. I know Soham is old enough to understand right from wrong but Manav is not understanding that Soham was brain washed and made to do wrong things and was then told he is doing the right thing. Manav should understand that cause he was brainwashed loads of times by his mom to think Archana was bad so it baffles me he dose not understands Soham situation.😕

Coming to Purvi She is only crazy cause she wants to support Soham she was not crazy when she give up her happiness to save this same ungrateful Manav baba and Aai's marriage and family then is when she was crazy not now oops i forget Manav;s other daughter Ovi madam got what she wanted too so Manav baba didn't care about the person whose life and dreams was shattered in order to patch his disturbed family back together.Up to a day like today i haven't seen Manav nor Archana sit and talked to Purvi and find out how she is coping with life what she planned to do with her life nothing so now when Purvi thinks she can fixed all the problems they thinks she is crazy. Purvi thinks she is doing good for the people she cared about but she is wrong cause these people are not even thankful for her goodness She is only making her life a living hell.

The one who is supposed to be told that what she did was wrong is being pampered all the time no wonder she is such a b***h When will Manav get rid of his catarrh from his eyes so he can see his other beti is crazy and obsessed with a man who clearly loves someone else Please Manav behave like a father to all your kids and stop this ranting about Soham is a gunda we know is he is (and so is your darling daughter Ovi) but you can try to change him and make him a better person.

This is just my POV you don't have to agree with me you are free to put across your POV as well without bashing anyone 😉

I am totally agreed to u

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 13 years ago

Jonelle , on some points I agree with you .

I don't think Purvi is neglected as such from Archana ... this show runs for 30 minutes only and there are so many characters ..In this time it has been shown that Archana has asked her many times about her job hunting and they have been on the phone so many times ..

Purvi's moving to the Karanjkar house is her own decision ..

There are other characters also in the show and they have to be shown as well...I didn't see Archana asking Teju what she is doing with her life and why is she not studying ...That does not means that Archana is not bothered about Teju's education...we will just have to assume that Teju is doing something constructive like maybe an online course and Archana is well aware about it .

Purvi is a very indepenedent girl ..A girl who calls her bridegroom to be , just hours before her wedding and switches the brides is obviously a girl who listens to her own heart .

I think not just Archana even Teju is shown to be concerned about Purvi .

I know she is trying to do a good deed by giving Soham a chance and trying to understand him but what she does not understands is that he himself is not willing to change and the way he is behaving , he can certainly do a lot of damage ...he is being advised by very wrong people and he is better off in jail right now then be close to Balan and following Balan's instructions ...

Now even Archana has understood after hearing that Manav's business is getting effected by Soham and her son is giving Manav a bad name in the media ... Soham really crossed the line there ...

I do agree with you on one thing completely .Manav has been way tooo linient on Ovi .He has always punished Archana very harshly whenever she made a mistake ..he even slapped Teju , Sachin when he was angry ...so why is he so soft on Ovi ..Just look at the way Ovi screams at him and insults good people ( like Purvi, farukh bahi ) around her ..Archana did try to tell Ovi that she is wrong ( before Ovi got married ) but she was rudely cut off by Manav that Archana is no one to tell Ovi anything ..

I think Manav is scared of Ovi .

I think the person who is most responsible for Ovi's bad behaviour is Manav and he knows it but still loves Ovi too much to do anything about it .

About Manav neglecting Soham ...I do think that Manav is genuinely worried about the safety of the rest of his family and he is now not really that emotionaly connected to Soham ..For him Soham is more balan's son than anything else ...

What I would like to see is both Manav and Archana feeling bad about neglecting Soham and thinking about others ( Archana for thinking of Varsha and Manav for only thinking about Sachin ) .They should not have agreed to legal adoption for even one day ...they should feel ashamed of themselves for doing this .

Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago

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JShiv

@JShiv

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: latanzia
I understand and agree with some of your points, but with the idea of purvi lying to save soham is just stupid and crazy just like her idea of giving up her happiness for her sister. u cannot force someone to change nor can u uphold wrong doings, because in the long run everyone involved will suffer, soham has to want to change, this is what purvi doesn't want to or fail to understand. we can also c the result in the ovi situation, no one is happy , not ovi, arjun or even purvi herself.

Somethings are better left to nature and god.

I agree with you i am not saying Purvi is always right she was totally wrong to call Arjun and ask him to lie in court for Soham But just how he told her no yesterday he could have done the same and tell her no he cant marry Ovi What he was supposed to do first he did last

I understand Soham has to want to change but as long as Varsha and Balan is not fully exposed Soham will never change someone have to make him realized who these people (Varsha, Balan) are they are completely ruining him and constantly instigating him against his parents. But sending him to jail is not gonna make things better cause he might come out ten times worse than how he is right now and it's right back to square on things will end up again when Soham will take revenge.

If no one is telling Purvi she is not God to fix all problem then wouldn't she think she can always be God same as Ovi no one is telling her What she did was wrong so that's why she will always be who she is.

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JShiv

@JShiv

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Posted: 13 years ago

Tanya i agree with you but what i am trying to say is sending Soham to jail is not the problem solver yes he needs to be punish and taught a lesson for his wrong doings but he was and is a gunda They cant expect him to change overnight if Soham had Accept Archu and Manav as his parents as soon as they found him they would have forgiven him and put what he did behind them Just like they forgive Ovi for her wrong doings she is no less of a gunda at least Soham didn't ruin anyone's life. Soham needs time to see who the real Varsha and Balan is if he goes to jail who will come and visit him and look after him Varsha right so again he will have no other choice to believe what Varsh tells him he will hate his parents more and only want to take revenge when he gets out.

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nuomi.riceball

@nuomi.riceball

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: latanzia
I understand and agree with some of your points, but with the idea of purvi lying to save soham is just stupid and crazy just like her idea of giving up her happiness for her sister. u cannot force someone to change nor can u uphold wrong doings, because in the long run everyone involved will suffer, soham has to want to change, this is what purvi doesn't want to or fail to understand. we can also c the result in the ovi situation, no one is happy , not ovi, arjun or even purvi herself.

Somethings are better left to nature and god.

Couldn't agree with you more. I know that Purvi is all about Soham dada and how she wants to save her from being sent to prison but purjoring herself is a really bad choice. Setting Soham free will just create more problem for the family as he will rein free from punishments and thus will have the thinking that he will be able to do anything and goes unpunished. He will also continue to stalk and threaten the Deshmukh clans if he was set free by this case. At least by sending him to prison he will know that he doesn't have any privileges being the long lost son of the Deshmukh and can do whatever he wants to do.

And as for Purvi, Ovi and Arjun trio. I know that we don't like what happened between the three of them. How Ovi forced herself to be with Arjun and how Purvi forced Arjun to marry Ovi because he wants the Deshmukhs to accept her mother. Both are now miserable and things are getting haywire. But what can we say what's done is done and Arjun is now married to Ovi. Everything happened for a reason and maybe Ovi is Arjun's soulmate and he just doesn't know it yet.

Edited by rogna - 13 years ago