Written Update : 6th Nov 2012 - Page 4

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

Really liked your post and agree with it. Ankit is an awesome actor, he knows Varsha is wrong, but he is emotionally attached to her so he is not allowing himself to believe it. Satish's return would be great one of my favorite actors!

I dont really know how I feel about what Sulo did it was already obvious that she was dead to her.

I think it was the brother they showed today.. Teju's love interest is supposed to be like her..

Yup Purvi and Arjun are out of the Montage..Cv's themselves are confused with what to do.. They made a big mistake with Making arjun and Ovi marry. They think that Arvi will just go away if they stop showing their scenes..

About the precap... I at first after reading it thought that Archu was kinda cold about it... but after watching it I could see the care in her eyes.. She definetly cares about Purvi but I felt that she should have cared more. I really was looking froward for an Archu-Purvi heart t heart convo, but we didnt see that. Purvi is one of those people who knows how to hide her emotions well, she has rarely cried after what happened. She is just bottling it up inside, Archu needs to help Purvi let it all out so she can start on a clean slate.

Archana basically told Purvi to get over it and man up and face reality. There is a big difference with getting over things and getting through them. I always loved Archana and Purvi's relationship but now Cv's have put it to the side. They just show Purvi going all out trying to bring happiness for her mom. What Purvi really needed in the last to months was someone to tell her, Im her for you and I care, and give her a shoulder to cry and fall on. Someone to give her a bear hug when she needed one. I wanted that to be Archana instead instead it was no one.😭

Archu cares for Purvi no doubt, but when Purvi needed her the most she could have been there most.. though I dont blame her cuz of Soham... but still..

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

According to me a mother is a mother and there is no care less or more when a mother is concerned.She loves the same in all points of a child life which is the case with Archu.

At the moment among all her children ,Soham is the one who is in danger of either getting killed or killing someone due to the people he is surrounded with.So Archu is rightly focused to do whatever she can for the major major unintentional unrepairable blunder she did of trusting her Pyscho sister Varsha.

She is doing the right thing to do whatever she can to save Soham but that does not mean she cares less for any of her children.All her children are equal to a mother and she is trying her best.

Archu is a normal human being ,she is not a God to be there for all at every moment.She can only try and she is still trying and will continue to try .But she just cannot focus on anything at the moment coz her son's life is in danger at every step from every corner including his own father now who is hell bent to get Soham behind bars.so she is bound to be focused on Soham.

The same case was there with Purvi when she was with Arjun and we felt that Purvi was least concerned about Archu and was with Arjun.Lot of times what we see is not what is perceived.

Archu is a mother and mother will be a mother always and her love n care for her children will same always no matter what.It does not have to be shown everytime ,sometimes eyes speak a lot and it does always Archu - Purvi case.

Originally posted by: naava

Yes, xoxoarvi, (cute user name, should we call you that or..? ) ...i really liked your post too, and you said what i was trying to say. i wasn't just talking about today's precap only, and i understand why Archana is totally focused on Soham...but as a mother watching another of her children in need (Purvi), knowing she is a kind of person to hide her emotions, I too wanted Archu to let her know she understood her pain, let her know she recognized that her heart must be broken, and be there for her to cry with. Just once i wanted to see that. As a mother i wanted to see this happen. It doesn't mean the Archana doesn't love her, and was concerned for her safety etc. Of course she does and was. I just wanted her to connect to Puvi's heart, that's all. Thanks for sharing your thoughts too.

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

And NAava there are many instances where I could point out that Purvi was shown to be little concerned over Archu like when Purvi was with Arjun and we all were waiting to see when Purvi will detect it..Well it happened right..

So this will as well..

There are so many if's and buts here but at the end of the day a mother is a mother and certain things dont have to be expressed through words and eyes are enough and this is seen in Archu - Purvi case.

Yes hugging is bound to help but realism is something that does not exit in PR.We cannot compare reality to PR .ITs better we try to find whatever iota of reality within PR to avoid headaches.😉

I agree to disagree here.For me Archu did no wrong here .She is trying to save her long lost son from evil hands ,doing her best and her daughter Purvi is supporting her in this case coz she knows her Aai is right.

Time will come again Archu will support Purvi like she has done so many occasions before.

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

I agree with what you have to say a Mother is a mother. And I understand about the whole Soham thing. I guess it was more me and my expectation from the Cv's ( I have since learned to not have any expectations 😃) I dont expect Archana to be there for Purvi always but not once in the past 2 months have they shown such a scene, two mins would have been enough. When I first read the precap I thought it was harsh but after watching it my opinion totally changed, you can see her love and care for Purvi right through her eyes. But sometimes a person needs to be verbally told something even though it is obvious.

Ha Archana does have to focus on Soham right now and I do recognize that that is more important. But that doesnt mean that she couldnt stop by every now and then and talk to Purvi help her get through what happened. Yes the desicion was Purvi's and she is responsible for the consequences, but as her mother I expected Archana to try to be with her as much as possible..

Archana and Purvi's bond is one that is very unique and full of understanding, it's just sad when you see that their relationship is being pushed to the side..

Instead of being told to move on I felt as if Purvi needed a shoulder to cry on. But who knows what the pretext of the scene was have no clue in what circumstance Archana said what she said.

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Yes there are circumstances that always dictate.And yes there always if and buts and ultimately is CV's who decide what to show and what not to.

I guess its better we try not to see compare reality with PR ,its a impossible case 😆.Best thing is to find whatever iota of so called reality CV's show and be happy with that I guess.

They are trying to show Archu's love through her emotions and through her eyes for the moment later on it might change who knows.Guess CV's want to focus on Archu - Soham and not on anything else even Arman together is not much now.So bottomline consider yourself lucky to get good scenes in between by luck 😆😉.

This I have learnt from the experience of watching PR for 3 long years.

Originally posted by: naava

Of course the CV's can add back in any missing pcs. They do it often.. Realism in the show isn't what i expect, but the Arjun - Purvi - Ovi mess was a HUGE part of the show. From the standpoint of the series itself, the big drama of ARVI and then Ovi and then Purvi's sacrifice for Archana, was just dropped as if ARVI never existed. Purvi was just supposed to be A-OK now...she herself acted strong about it, but inside there was a lot of sadness.. Archana is a loving caring person...from the standpoint of her character i thought it was wrong for it not to be shown, at the least, that Archana connected with Purvi on this particular matter of the heart. I just wanted her to show to Purvi that she recognized her grief, even if just with her eyes, a loving understanding look...It did't happen, and i was just disappointed because i think it was out of character for it not to.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

why is Archana saying that Arjun has moved on ? I thought that she was of the impression that there is trouble between Arjun and Ovi .

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

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I was actually wondering the same... Either she is just trying to get Purvi to move on or she saw Arjun and Ovi comfortable with each other or something