Soham

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Priya Desai

@dumbo15

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Posted: 13 years ago

I honestly cannot blame Soham for hating Archu. Sorry to say, but it seemed like she never cared for him and as usual gave her greedy maayka more priority. I remember when Sushant was Manav, Archu had given Soham to Varsha for a few days, but those few days ended up being months and she didn't even try to get him back from Varsha. I remember the old Manav screaming at her about it telling her to get him back but she still didn't budge b/c she cared about her maayka's happiness more than her son. Poor Soham was being tossed around like a little toy by Archu and I felt really sorry for him. What pisses me off even more is that Archu and everyone else doesn't even think its her fault about what happened. 😡 It IS her fault! Varsha had kidnapped Soham like twice yet she still gave him to her b/c as usual she cared more about that greedy b***he's happiness more than her son's safety.😡 Archu was totally irresponsible and I feel as if she didn't even truly care about Soham b/c she was always into her stupid greedy maayka all the time instead of focusing on poor Soham's safety which shoulda been her priority.

Edited by dumbo15 - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

I sort of agree with you!

First, Soham was too young to understand what was going on back then😆! He believes what Varsha has told him.

Second, Archana is the only family member Soham has confused feelings about, rest he truly hates😆!

Varsha is a psychotic 🤬, always was and always will be! We can all blame Archana for Soham getting kidnap and I agree with you on that part but my pov is that Archana already was punished for her stupid mistake and it is time Varsha also pays because both are 50/50 to blame for Soham. Varsha for her abortion and then being obsessed with Soham and betraying her sisters trust and Archana well we all know the story with her! In my opinion Archana already has paid for her mistakes from being away from her kids and husband and her sister betraying her, and with a personality like Archana it is a big punishment.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with you totally .

She always cared more about her selfish sisters than her children ...be it Soham or Sachu .

She left Soham conveniently with Varsha for long periods although her husband told her umpteen number of times to bring him back ...she ignored him with furtive eyes and gave evasive answers .

She left Sachu the same way for long periods with Savita as it was convenient for her to run on the roads solving maayka problems .

Not just that but she clearly told Manav she could just not manage two kids .

After that he grew exasperated with her answers and unwillingly agreed for the adoption as he thought maybe Satish Varsha would look better after him , not so negligiently .

She was perfectly willing for the adoption till Sulochana opined otherwise .

Then she ran and stopped the adoption at last minute and in the process really sent Varsha off the deep end . Had Satish and Varsha adopted him at least he would have got a good education and not been turned into a gunda . That was the turning point of Soham's story .

Archana's flip flop decisions ...encouraging and encouraging Varsha and then suddenly playing the Maa made her snap and run away with the baby .

Everyone blames Savita and Varsha for Soham but this Archana was no less and I for one blame her totally for it .

Then in the party she argued and argued with her husband and gave her uncured sister her son to hold . Sister was protesting and trying her level best to stay away from him . She knew her obsessive disorder damn well . But this woman Archana was once more trying to pacify her . Her goal of life ...pacifying her sisters . Without having any knowledge in the subject she announced her sister was cured and risked her defenceless baby to prove a point . In the process she argued publicly with her husband .

Those few hours proved detrimental for Soham .

Satish was any day a better option than Balan .

Archana and her crazy pacifying love for her sister which is mistakenly called her ' achaayi' today is solely responsible for Soham's fate .

Not a single baby habit of Soham she knew . Varsha knew everything and this woman found it very convenient .

Now she is hearing baby music .

What nautanki .

Someone should ask her all these questions and even scold Manav sharply for not being stricter with his wife .

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wensue

@wensue

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with all you guys, Archana bought all the mess on herself. She paid the price though, eighteen years of lonliness. What I don't get is that she hasn't earned her lesson in all this, Sachin made a ridiculous request and she honored it now Soham made another ridiculous request and she like a fool honored that. Did she not once think that she would be putting her family in harms ways, but that's how it is with her. Seems like she forgot all about Purvi when she got Manav back now she's disregarding that Balan is a dangerous man and he will hurt them.

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zonan

@zonan

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Posted: 13 years ago

Same old story...same old topic..
Everyone agrees with that..even me, archana fan didn't blame soham.
Archana deserved it...and as we see what is going on right now..she is paying for that.