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naava

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: bonibright
Even I wanted that Arjun behaved rudely with Ovi and set her straight.But according to the WU,Arjun is supposed to be saying in the precap that he is trying to forget his past and needs Ovi's help in that.My heart broke into thousand pieces and my blood is now boling.This is disgusting..Damnnn.😭😡

Boni, while i don't understand the hindi and have to rely on all writeups or posts for the words, i will say that after i watched the pre-cap i became convinced that Arjun will not be intimate with Ovi... He was very frustrated with her always accusing him because in truth most of his meetings with Purvi are not pre-planned...and he said as much..i will be bumping into, seeing Purvi here and there (obviously they are in the same circles and even family) and you can't keep making a problem about it - it just won't work. In other words "stop it Ovi"...I think when he said he was trying to forget his past he didn't mean forget Purvi, or that he would stop loving her, i think he meant he was trying to block out that he should have been married to her, it's too painful, but everytime Ovi accuses him it brings it all back. He needs to remain neutral.

But the clincher for me was the look on Arjun's face when she said no wife would share her husband...it was a look of disgust that she still doesn't get it...because basically she was still accusing him of having an affair...and it was like...i am trying so hard to be honorable in this disgusting situation and still you are talking like this... He was angry Boni, not in agreement or any other positive emotion.

I am sure he won't be intimate...It's also an assumption on peoples part that he is sleeping in the bed with her, as it wasn't shown. Yes the day before, they were in the bedroom and she was in a nightgown, but so have lots of people seen various women in their nightgowns. In the scene the other day he sat down on the end of the bed with his head in his hands, while Ovi lay down to go to sleep. For all we know he then went to the couch to sleep...

if the pregnancy track (with Purvi) does in fact happen,,,,,a HUGE mistake on the part of the writers and Ekta, it will simply further destroy the intact integrity so far of both Arjun and Purvi. Also Ovi...for whatever else she is...not a nice person and completely selfish, i still can't believe it is consistent with her character to have an extra marital affair either...

Let's hope that Ekta or the writers realize while this may have been a story line for other shows, it's simply not an acceptable one for PR...they will lose most of the viewers .

Edited by naava - 13 years ago

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bonibright

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sherma
i dont get wat ovi did that u cnt beleive?
ovi is questioning her husband,who ditched her and lied to her for her ex
she has a right to ask him a question
i am glad she gave arjuna reality check
he needed that

REALLYY???DIDN'T OVI KNOW THAT THIS IS GOING TO HAPPEN BEFORE SHE GOT MARRIED TO ARJUN,A GUY WHO CLEARLY SAID HER THAT HE DIDN'T LOVE OVI,BUT LOVES PURVI AND CAN NEVER FORGET HER???THEN WHY THE HELL DID SHE GET MARRIED TO HIM,IN FIRST PLACE..ITS NOT ARJUN,BUT OVI WHO NEEDS A REALITY CHECK,THAT ARJUN LOVES PURVI AND NOT HER.AND THIS WHAT IS CALLED ''U SOW WHAT U REAP''..SO GOOD LUCK,OVI..

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zonan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: sherma
i dont get wat ovi did that u cnt beleive?
ovi is questioning her husband,who ditched her and lied to her for her ex
she has a right to ask him a question
i am glad she gave arjun a reality check
he needed that

true..
ovi has every right to question her husband, arjun.

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bonibright

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: naava

Boni, while i don't understand the hindi and have to rely on all writeups or posts for the words, i will say that after i watched the pre-cap i became convinced that Arjun will not be intimate with Ovi... He was very frustrated with her always accusing him because in truth most of his meetings with Purvi are not pre-planned...and he said as much..i will be bumping into, seeing Purvi here and there (obviously they are in the same circles and even family) and you can't keep making a problem about it - it just won't work. In other words "stop it Ovi"...I think when he said he was trying to forget his past he didn't mean forget Purvi, or that he would stop loving her, i think he meant he was trying to block out that he should have been married to her, it's too painful, but everytime Ovi accuses him it brings it all back. He needs to remain neutral.

But the clincher for me was the look on Arjun's face when she said no wife would share her husband...it was a look of disgust that she still doesn't get it...because basically she was still accusing him of having an affair...and it was like...i am trying so hard to be honorable in this disgusting situation and still you are talking like this... He was angry Boni, not in agreement or any other positive emotion.

I am sure he won't be intimate...It's also an assumption on peoples part that he is sleeping in the bed with her, as it wasn't shown. Yes the day before, they were in the bedroom and she was in a nightgown, but so have lots of people seen various women in their nightgowns. In the scene the other day he sat down on the end of the bed with his head in his hands, while Ovi lay down to go to sleep. For all we know he then went to the couch to sleep...

if the pregnancy track (with Purvi) does in fact happen,,,,,a HUGE mistake on the part of the writers and Ekta, it will simply further destroy the intact integrity so far of both Arjun and Purvi. Also Ovi...for whatever else she is...not a nice person and completely selfish, i still can't believe it is consistent with her character to have an extra marital affair either...

Let's hope that Ekta or the writers realize while this may have been a story line for other shows, it's simply not an acceptable one for PR...they will lose most of the viewers .

SORRY,@NAAVA..I SHOULD HAVE WATCHED THE PRECAP AND THEN REACTED.I JUST READ THAT ARJUN SAID,HE IS TRYING TO FORGET HIS PAST AND NEEDS OVI'S HELP AND IMEDIATELY GOT FRUSTRATED.BUT I SHOULD HAVE REMEMBERED THAT ''ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS'',AND SO I SHOULD NOT GO WITH THE WORDS THAT ARE SAID BUT SHOULD RELY ON THE EXPRESSIONS,MORE SO BECAUSE RITHVIK IS A SUPERB ACTOR AND A KING OF EXPRESSIONS AND EMOTES SUPERBLY..THANK S SO MUCH FOR THIS SUPERB POST..

Edited by bonibright - 13 years ago

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sherma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: bonibright
REALLYY???DIDN'T OVI KNOW THAT THIS IS GOING TO HAPPEN BEFORE SHE GOT MARRIED TO ARJUN,A GUY WHO CLEARLY SAID HER THAT HE DIDN'T LOVE OVI,BUT LOVES PURVI AND CAN NEVER FORGET HER???THEN WHY THE HELL DID SHE GET MARRIED TO HIM,IN FIRST PLACE..ITS NOT ARJUN,BUT OVI WHO NEEDS A REALITY CHECK,THAT ARJUN LOVES PURVI AND NOT HER.AND THIS WHAT IS CALLED ''U SOW WHAT U REAP''..SO GOOD LUCK,OVI..

along wid tht he said he needs time to move on(during the reception night)

wat i mean is stay at 1 thing,make 1 decisiion-if u cant frigive purvi,then giv divrce to ovi

if u want the marriage to wrk,stop running after purvi everywhere,i am not saying he did wrng dropping purvi,y did he lie to ovi,waiting for purvi til the time she dne wid intedrview is stupid-purvi left him and came

arjun chrcter is cuming as a guy who has moved on wid sum1 else but cant let her ex move on-wich is disgusting

,nw dnt tell me he did that cause he dint wnted to hurt ovi

he has alwys praised purvi in frnt of ovi

evn during the office scne,he has alwys cmpred her wrk wid purvi

my point is purvi was a wrking women,she was intelegginent and a genius in presentation

whereas ovi ia a newbee-she needs time to learn stuff,u cant cmparer her wrk or inteleggince wid purvi

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zonan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sherma
along wid tht he said he needs time to move on(during the reception night)
wat i mean is stay at 1 thing,make 1 decisiion-if u cant frigive purvi,then giv divrce to ovi
if u want the marriage to wrk,stop running after purvi everywhere,i am not saying he did wrng dropping purvi,y did he lie to ovi,waiting for purvi til the time she dne wid intedrview is stupid-purvi left him and came
arjun chrcter is cuming as a guy who has moved on wid sum1 else but cant let her ex move on-wich is disgusting
,nw dnt tell me he did that cause he dint wnted to hurt ovi
he has alwys praised purvi in frnt of ovi
evn during the office scne,he has alwys cmpred her wrk wid purvi
my point is purvi was a wrking women,she was intelegginent and a genius in presentation
whereas ovi ia a newbee-she needs time to learn stuff,u cant cmparer her wrk or inteleggince wid purvi

OMG you nailed it sherma..
Perfect explanation..👏
so very true...

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naava

@naava

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: sherma
i dont get wat ovi did that u cnt beleive?
ovi is questioning her husband,who ditched her and lied to her for her ex
she has a right to ask him a question
i am glad she gave arjun a reality check
he needed that

hi sherma.. i know that we probably think oppositely about the arrangement with Arjun and Ovi but i just wanted to reply to your mention that re: the fashion show, that Arjun ditched her and lied to her bc. of his ex.

I think and he said his intent was to go to the fashion show when the wedding finished, but then Purvi called for help. If someone - even a stranger calls you for help because they are about to be raped and maybe murdered...i can't believe that any good person would say..oh excuse me i have to go to a fashion show. Add to that that it was in fact the person he loves most in the world about to be raped. No one who is a human being would turn their back... To say that Arjun ditched Ovi in this circumstance seems to be a totally unfair assessment to me. Yes, he did lie to her, which, while normally i don't approve of lying, under these circumstances i think it was the best thing to do...Ovi wouldn't believe or care..it certainly was complicated and he said "things are too confused between us " or something like that. We must remember that .when Purvi was kidnapped Ovi wished her dead, so she would be the only "person" who probably would have been happy to see Purvi raped and murdered and turned their back to a cry for help.

I guess (i think) we are all in agreement however, that Arjun needs to end this ridiculous arrangement. It isn't even an arranged marriage because none of the parents approved. It was stupid favor that Arjun promised to a stupid request from Purvi...but initiated by Ovi for completely selfish possessive reasons... It has nothing to do with marriage and and Ovi isn't really a wife...Arjun allowed her to take the name "mrs. Kiloskar" That's it.

It was wrong on every count, and should be ended...the longer it goes on, the messier it will become...imo.

Edited by naava - 13 years ago

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newt2007

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Ovi is in selfpity. She never understood the reality. Shedding tears and shouting at others just shows she is not fit for a marriage life.

She is talking about wife's expectaion from husband. did she ever thought what is his expectation? all the time she is thinking about her own happiness. she is repeatedly telling about husband and wife. did she ever thought this wife tag is given by a innocent girl?

Did she ever understood how much pain Purvi must be going through to sacrifice her love.

Ovi must be the only person suffering if she agreed for Arjun-Purvi marriage. now Arjun and Purvi are suffering. Ovi is also not happy becasue of her own doubting habit even after getting married to Arjun.

Ovi was in cloud nine and thought everything fell in to places on her favour. she never thought about her husband's expectation from her. She never thought how Arjun must be struggling in his mind. Even now she is talking about her own expectaions and pains. She thinks she is perfect and says Arjun need to change.

What will be Ovi's reaction it Arjun went to help Teju? will she asking the same to Arjun?

Arjun does hide to Ovi about him dropping Purvi. At times nothing wrong in hiding some truth to save your realtionship. till now Arjun never wanted to break his realtionship with Ovi eventhough he married her without any love on her. He always respects relationships. He is not romancing with Purvi. He went to save Purvi. He could have done the same for any other girl who request his help. He didn't tell that to Ovi because she is angry at that time and won't understand anything. he doesn't want to create any unhappy situation between them. this shows how much he respects his marriage life.

why can't Ovi trust a person who sacrificed his love just for your deal?

Arjun don't have to respect a marriage which happened on a deal. Still he does. He is trying to change. He can comeout only if Ovi respects his feeling. Here Ovi is not thinking about his feeling. she thinks only about her own happiness.

Ovi is trying to hide her own deal of mistake and putting the blame on Arjun.

Edited by newt2007 - 13 years ago

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newt2007

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: bonibright
Even I wanted that Arjun behaved rudely with Ovi and set her straight.But according to the WU,Arjun is supposed to be saying in the precap that he is trying to forget his past and needs Ovi's help in that.My heart broke into thousand pieces and my blood is now boling.This is disgusting..Damnnn.😭😡

In indian culture after marriage, even if it is marriage without any love, both partners try to stick to the marriage for the sake of family and society. Success of the marriage depends on couple. Some try to adjust to new life and start living happily by repsecting spouses emotions. Some others break their relationship in a very bitter manner.

Usually a person who was in love before marriage gets taunted by partner in failed marriages. Taking every oppurtunity to doubt lead their marriage to end in divorce.

Those partners who stays calm withnot insulting his past love, gives enough time to come out of past and trusting will succeed in their marriage.

Arjun is also doing the same. he is trying to respect his marriage. but Ovi is not trusting him. He is trying to explain her. but Ovi is not in a mood to listen or trust him.

His expression is clearly a frustration.