Originally posted by: m_masti
for arranged marraiges PR itself is example there is no love needed...
savita staying with bewda damo
sulo stayed with poor mano, mano with sanskari sulo
manav staying with gothel archu
PR itself is great example that there are worst weddings
archu and manav wedding
manav and shravani wedding
manju and vinod wedidng
vyshu and dharmesh wedding
dharmesh and madhuri wedding
varsha and satish wedding
ajit and vandu wedding
but purvi should go out from the scenario, remember archu moved out of the town to make manav-shravani together...purvi is just playing with ovi's feelings...purvi is not letting arjun to move-on...
I absolutely agree with your part @green. This show with it's mixed ideas about marriage and the likes.
Dharmesh - Vaishali is so ridiculous by sending Madhuri away. Ultimately, heroines win the cake in this show, especially those who fall in love :P Vaishali was shown to date Dharmesh and slowly fall in love with him before their marriage. I guess, that is pure "love" whereas bichari Madhuri ka pyaar kuch bhi nahi. No married couple in this show has kept sanctity of marriage.
Archana and Manav are the biggest examples of how marriage can be played as a game and communication and understanding are not needed when "love" and "romance" come in the way.
Damo insulting Savita in front of grand kids and poking jokes at her and no concern for her safety after spending their whole life together.
Mano leaving the house and Sulo alone, without telling her anything, showing complete disregard for his wife by keeping his problems in the forefront.
Ajit and his domestic violence with Vandu, after improving, again going back to being original villain.
Varsha with no sense of respect for husband, aborting the child without even consulting him and then finally abandoning him and running away.
Vinod and Manju and their blissless marriage with Manju never being happy with Vinod or making efforts to make it work and vinod being blind to Manju's needs and again only sitting with maa ka pallu all his life. And then ultimately joru ka ghulam and then back to flipping over sulo's side.
Even DK and Ashna in the beginning where DK had no sense of marriage and looked at work as his wife. Poor ashna used to feel neglected and unloved, until ARMAN had to make it work for them.
No healthy married life shown at all. After this, how do you expect Arjun and Ovi to be sensible home makers and a healthy relationship of husband and wife? :P No prior examples for them to follow only!
But I don't agree with the part @blue
Purvi needn't make Arjun-Ovi's marriage work. She handed him over and her responsibility is done with. She finally has a chance to live happily with her family and she is the one out of Arjun and her who is making serious efforts to move on and be happy. She stays away from him, she doesn't dream out sequences of them together nor does she try and get a glimpse of him anywhere. He comes and talks to her, she still scurries away. Why should she move out of town to make sure Arjun forgets her. It is his responsibility completely to try and erase all these dreams he has and his love and all that. A marriage doesn't work when other people make it easier, it should work when the two people involved make it work. Ovi is doing her bit, it is Arjun who can;t let go. And for that, he and Ovi should move out of town. Archana is a mahaan character and she left town because somewhere it was unbearable for her to see Manav and shravani together, plus she likes to be the sant that she is, so for Shravani who is nothing to her, she left town. Purvi, clearly can easily seem to bear Ovi and him and sometimes she has these tears or whatever, but I guess as long as she doesn;t show them to Arjun to let him see how distressing this is to her, she isn;t exactly doing anthing to ruin his marriage, Technically, she doesn't even try to talk to Arjun herself. The poor puppy needs to stop wagging his tail behind her and move on to his lovely self involved but beautiful wife like Manav did :P hahaha
Just my POv, no offence.