Kool's commentary : Sep 17 PR - Page 3

@Dabulls23, Sulochana spending Manav's money is simply the least of anyone's problems in PR. Manav has oodles, desperately wants to fix all the wrong in his past so is more than willing. I think they show these fake money issues in PR just to make it relatable to middle class. The underlying concepts are anything but middle class but the execution is very much so..therefore PR maintains its popularity with them.

Kool, lovely commentary as usual. Have "leechblocked" IF so that I don't get distracted when I have a truckload of things to do 😳 so I'm not really up-to-date on the happenings in the forum. Anyways, just saw your post about wanting to know my views on the ar-vi2 situation, and here's my take on it. Probably late, since that was last episode, but oh well! Won't comment too much on purvi and ovi since everyone's said pretty much everything on that topic. So will focus on arjun.

While there is absolutely no doubt that Ovi started this mess, it is also a fact that purvi and arjun finished the process by executing it. And all 3 are equally to blame, no more no less. Even Arjun. If he had any brains at all, he should have put 2+2 together and got 4. If he didn't, he's both very stupid and utterly callous. If he didn't know Ovi's involvement in the whole thing while marrying her, then did he ever think if he was doing justice to Ovi by marrying her just to prove his love to Purvi? He already broke her heart without even taking the time to end the engagement with her directly, and then totally ignored her and flaunted his great love for purvi in her face. Did he think he could forget purvi and be a good husband to ovi in every way when he married her? I don't think so! He married her only and only thinking of purvi's demands, forgetting about his own feelings and Ovi's as well. If he did know while marrying Ovi that she was involved in the deal, he has no right to be angry with either purvi or ovi because ultimately he let himself be traded like a commodity. He lost his self-respect and identity when he agreed to do what purvi wanted without thinking about his own feelings about the whole thing.

Ovi doesn't even come into the picture here. Why should someone else think of your feelings when you yourself give a damn about them? He should have clearly told he won't marry ovi whether or not purvi married him. If he didn't have the guts to tell purvi to her face, he should have run at the first possible opportunity. Or called his dad or the police for help saying his fiance and her sister were holding him at "gunpoint" and making him do something he didn't want to. Instead, he waited patiently, getting ready while his fiance called his ex-fiance to come to the temple, got her ready and got married all the while looking at purvi. He was probably hoping purvi would stop him, she didn't. Sow hat does he do? Does he say he doesn't consider the marriage valid and walk off once he knows purvi is going through with it? No, he goes with ovi and takes blessings from everyone telling anybody who will listen that he didn't want to do it, but did for purvi's love. How childish and immature! None of the 3 people involved in this crazyness should even be allowed to date, leave alone marry. Well, the marriage has happened, and he has to abide by the rules of marriage since he himself validated it. He's not a victim, he's physically stronger than both women, he's supposed to be a smart businessman who knows the laws and who's seen the world. So he should stop acting like one, and take responsibilities for his own actions. That means sincerely trying to work on his marriage, which he consented to.

Coming to purvi caressing arjun's picture, I don't think that's wrong. I've always maintained that arjun and purvi should put their engagement and marriage off to give Ovi the time to get over her broken engagement instead of flaunting it in her face all the time. If the marriage hadn't been scheduled so soon after her engagement broke, she wouldn't have needed to try this extreme way to marry arjun. She needed time to get over arjun which she didn't get. The same applies to purvi. She needs time to get over arjun as well, and as long as she doesn't pursue arjun or marry somebody else just to get him to move on, she can do what she needs to get over him. She will not pursue arjun, she's after all proud of her principles and has proved she can do anything for her aai. Neither will she let arjun keep pursuing her, atleast I hope she will firmly tell him not to. I'm not sure about the second part though, she will probably agree to marry some random guy just so arjun will think she's taken. And that will be bad! Ovi at least has as much part to play in this mess as arjun and purvi, but the fourth wheel will be completely innocent and will be used just like Archana used Jaywant. Instead, purvi should start working again while she's trying to get over arjun, and she might find somebody who may not love her with the passion of Arjun, but will think the world of her nonetheless. Arjun needs time too to get over purvi, but he should use that time to sincerely try and get over her rather than going to her and telling her he can't forget her, only to be rebuffed.

i dont understand this why savita is lving in k house 🤔 she shhould leave it if her son grandchildren dont need her 😔well i m not supporting her she did really bad with archana humiliate many people like vanit but she is lovely granny to manav children yes she plan a lot to create problems in armn life and put the last nail in coffin by bringing false divorce papers but s is she entirely and only responsible for this 😒she should have right to put forward her view abt all this and if manav dont need her she should immediately leve this house .

i think purvi will get job in dk office you know manav will offer and she cant say know to her baba and after that arjun purvi pavitra rishta and ovi ka jal na continue🤪

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Yes it was a very boring episode Varsha . The fun will start when Varsha comes in the picture instead of hiding behind ghunghats ,

Hey Kool...been so busy today...just checked ur commentary now👏

So some things never change...eh...😃

Arjun is running after Purvi...😉

Sulo is running after more money...😃😉

DK is as nonchalant as ever...change of bahu doesn't affect him...😕

Manav is still feeling romantically inclined towards his wife...go to hell all that happened 18 yrs back...go to hell his daughter Ovi trying to get her marriage working.,...WTH, it was DK to came to visit the new romancing couple...ufff, keya ishq hai...what a miss for 18 yrs...just like newly married lovey dovey couple...chalo pyaar hi pyaar...😳😳😳😉😉

Well, will have to watch the great love tonite...😃

Originally posted by: tayabafarooqui

i dont understand this why savita is lving in k house 🤔 she shhould leave it if her son grandchildren dont need her 😔well i m not supporting her she did really bad with archana humiliate many people like vanit but she is lovely granny to manav children yes she plan a lot to create problems in armn life and put the last nail in coffin by bringing false divorce papers but s is she entirely and only responsible for this 😒she should have right to put forward her view abt all this and if manav dont need her she should immediately leve this house .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

sowmya...

Regarding Purvi caressing Arjun's picture after he is married...

I totally agree she needs time to get over her break up.

I had also supported Archana when she had walked off after a 15 day marraige saying that it takes time to build trust .

But this decision was Purvi's alone . Not Arjun ...not Ovi'ss [ who was going around with that deal as she wanted Arjun back at any cost] but Purvi's alone .

This was the time to show unity in love by rejecting the deal if it was that great a love story . Telling Arjun by not keeping him in the dark .

Nobody , as u say , held her at gunpoint . She accepted it after a lot of deliberation and she executed it with deliberation too .

Since i am old school i feel this ...

It takes time to heal break ups so cry in private your heart out .

But discipline yourself not to even touch him mentally for he is married now . It is not even a break up where he is unmarried anymore .

Is this switching emotions on and off ? I think not ...it is however channelising emotions .

The generation above me would have said so and I agree .😊

They never said to switch emotions on and off or that heart wounds do not need time .

So it is my opinion that she can cry in priate all she wants but

she should stay away from her sister and her husband as it is a very awkward situation

she should try to get him out of her system .

I will not even say she should remarry coz that is entirely upto her and it should be fair to the other man too .

But it was her conscious decision . Nobody forced her .

Oh I agree completely that the marriage happened with the consent and deliberation of all 3 people involved and they all have equal share in it. And arjun and purvi must retain the boundaries of their new relation/non-relation even while they're trying to adjust to the new normal. However, in private, purvi can remember her good times with arjun, even after she gets over him. She's not attached to anybody else, so she's not transgressing, and she has stopped arjun from seeing her atleast so far. In the privacy of her own space, if she needs to go through all the good and bad times with arjun, so be it. The marriage is done, and it should be honored. But expecting her to not think about him two days after her cancelled wedding is not practically possible I think, even if she may really want to do it; not just coz he's married but coz she thinks her mother's continued happiness lies in arjun forgetting her and accepting ovi. It doesn't even matter that she was the one who stopped her wedding.

As long as she doesn't do an Archana and keeps her distance from arjun and ovi until arjun and she herself have had time to get over each other and move on, I will not fault her at least on this count.