Who was wrong to Purvi today?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am very sad for Purvi today...😭😭 Really sad...

but was Archana wrong? No...if she stayed, it would hurt Purvi more-Purvi gave up Arjun so that she can be with her family-this is what Purvi hoped for and this is what happened. With Archana gone to live with her family-Purvi can finally move on, find a job and try to forget. If Archana were to stayed back in the K house, no one would be happy and Purvi will cry somemore.

Was Ovi wrong? No...she only knows how to ask and not to give, so i am not suprised, why not ask for Sulo also and leave the girl with nothing.

Was Sachin wrong? Maybe...he never accepted Purvi as his sister, but after his father told him
that Purvi gave up Arjun for Archana and you...maybe he could have said so sorry..if he told his father the truth-purvi wouldn't have to give up Arjun for her mother.

Was Tej wrong? YES...a big yes to me...how can you do this? You are the sensible one, you lived with her for 3 months, she gave up her room when you were sick...she gave it up again for you and ovi..she took care of you after manav slapped you-didn't even care about her break up with vinay...she told you about her dreams for having a baba and her family back and you don't even talk to her...i am not asking you to take her to the D clan house...i am asking you to talk to her, hug her-she gave up everything for you dearest sister...when she was not your sister, you told the whole world she was like your sister...now when she is your sister-you don't even talk...😕😕

Was Manav wrong? No...he is still in shock from the betrayal of his mother and son..he can't even think straight...how to go call Purvi...when time comes-hopefully soon (at least go see her, she really needs you, ovi doesn't anymore) i want him to go to Purvi himself, not because Archana told and certainly not because he loves Archana so he should do it..he should do it...first because he wants to...second if the girl didn't give up her love, you might have not gotten your love and your dearest daughter might be in the hospital for trying to kill herself...i do not want Manav to go for Archana i want him to go because it is the right thing to do.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Its not jst about todays epi, this is result of many epis that happened in PR:

To Purvi, Ovi was wrong n to some extent Arjun for not taking strong stand!
To Archana, Savita then Sachu & to some extent Manav too!
To Manav, Savita, Sachu, Damodar & to some extent Archana too!
To Ovi & Teju, Savita then Sachu & non-existent Shravni too!

Every1 were happy reunited but missed Purvi in that fami pic :/ & to see her crying alone after Archana too left & to not have Arjun too was v sad!!! Purvi is the reason why this this reunion happened in archanas life & her sacrifice!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Abhi, I agree with everything you have said but Archana should have told the girl, I will take you with me after a few days or this is only temporary or something to that effect. She is the adult and yes, Purvi wants her aai to go but she being the mother should have remembered her daughter's sacrifice and her words a day ago about how Purvi needed her mother now the most. But Archana is euphoric in her new found happiness and while some may say that she has waited so long for this day that it is okay for her to forget Purvi momentarily, and though I am sure she will remember her soul sprung child soon enough, to me, even this momentary lapse is hurtful, for Purvi's sake.

The three children Sachin, Tej and Ovi - you have said it or implied it all - they all fell below expectations and proved that they all have a selfish bone in them. Silly Purvi to have given up her everything for them. Hope she understands that her debt is paid, that her burden of gratitude has been lifted, it is not an akashaya vessel that is bottomless and can never be empty.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiviNitya

Its not jst about todays epi, this is result of many epis that happened in PR:

To Purvi, Ovi was wrong n to some extent Arjun for not taking strong stand!
To Archana, Savita then Sachu & to some extent Manav too!
To Manav, Savita, Sachu, Damodar & to some extent Archana too!
To Ovi & Teju, Savita then Sachu & non-existent Shravni too!

Every1 were happy reunited but missed Purvi in that fami pic :/ & to see her crying alone after Archana too left & to not have Arjun too was v sad!!! Purvi is the reason why this this reunion happened in archanas life & her sacrifice!



Yes...couldn't agree with you more, i also missed Purvi in that family picture...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Abhi, I agree with everything you have said but Archana should have told the girl, I will take you with me after a few days or this is only temporary or something to that effect. She is the adult and yes, Purvi wants her aai to go but she being the mother should have remembered her daughter's sacrifice and her words a day ago about how Purvi needed her mother now the most. But Archana is euphoric in her new found happiness and while some may say that she has waited so long for this day that it is okay for her to forget Purvi momentarily, and though I am sure she will remember her soul sprung child soon enough, to me, even this momentary lapse is hurtful, for Purvi's sake.

The three children Sachin, Tej and Ovi - you have said it or implied it all - they all fell below expectations and proved that they all have a selfish bone in them. Silly Purvi to have given up her everything for them. Hope she understands that her debt is paid, that her burden of gratitude has been lifted, it is not an akashaya vessel that is bottomless and can never be empty.



Yes Jhanvi..i agree with you..i still can remember Purvi's words. To me, the worst part was when Sulo told Purvi that tom i will go and pray for Archana's family..did you see Purvi's face and the way she kept quiet. If she could speak she would say, am i not her family. Isn't that my family too...to watch her see, her family drive away was hurtful...Asha was superb in that part-no dialog but what acting...i am sure Archana will talk to Manav about Purvi...but i do not want that to happen, i want Manav to realize himself that the girl needs her parents now.

Yes, i felt all three were selfish...she has done what she always wanted to reunite her mother with her family...she has paid her debt...great one there...the time has come for her to live for herself...not for her aai's family anymore...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ARCHANA, PUVI, ARJUN, TEJ, OVI, AND SACHIN... ARCHANA NEED TO MAKE OVI UNDERSATND AND REALISE THAT ARJUN WILL AND ALWAYS LOVE PURVI HIS WHOLE LIFE NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS ARJUN AND PURVI ARE MADE FOREACH OTHER AND THEIR RELATIONSHIP IS PURE AS "HER AAI AND BABA (ARMA'S) PAVITRA RISHTA....AND YES OFCOURSE IT IS ALL CUZ OF PURVI THAT MANAV AND ARCHANA ARE TOGETHER AFTER 18 YEARS AND THE TRUTH HAVE COME OUT OF SAVITA... IF OVI HAS A LIL GOOD FROM HER ARCHANA AAI SHE SHOULD GIVE PURVIS ARJUN BACK TO PURVI AND LET THEM LIVE A HAPPILY MARRIED LIFE IN CANADA... PURVI WOULD BE 1000000% FAR BETTER LIVING WITH THE "KIRLOSKER" FAMILY DEN LIVING WITH THE "DESHMUKH' OR THE "KARANJIKER" FAMILY.. I BELIEVE THAT OVI, TEJ, AND SACHIN ARE STILL SELFISH THAT THEY DID NOT EVEN THANKED PURVI ONCE FOR WHAT SHE DID FOR THEM...THAT IS JUST RUDE AND PATHETIC...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree abhi...
no one is blaming archana here..point is they shud not take her to D clan...she is good here in K clan..the point here is tej and sachu wer being so selfish...atleast tej culd have hugged her..could have consoled her she only said one thing to her that is andar nahi bulaogi purvi..??
no hopes from sachin here...
and i ws really mad at sulo for saying main kal arch k pariwaar k liye prarthna karungi..?? and dat too in frnt of purvi who lost her everything...
and yes the debt has been paid..nw its time for purvi to move on and live her life..her ultimate dream of reuniting her parents is nw fulfilled..!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashvikluverrr

agree abhi...
no one is blaming archana here..point is they shud not take her to D clan...she is good here in K clan..the point here is tej and sachu wer being so selfish...atleast yej culd have hugged her..could have consoled her she only saod one thing to her that is andar nahi bulaogi purvi..??
no hopes from sachin here...
and i ws really mad at sulo for saying main kal arch k pariwaar k liye prarthna karungi..?? and dat too in frnt of purvi who lost her everything...
and yes the debt has been paid..nw its time for purvi to move on and live her life..her ultimate dream of reuniting her parents is nw fulfilled..!!



Yes i could not agree more...i was like are you kidding me 😡😡😡 seriously...the kid has lost everything...at least hold her...no see had to say those words (bold) 😡😡 even i am not saying she should go to the D clan house..the point is tej and sachu...i just could not believe what was happening...especially tej...i think my opinion is well stated above...i wanted to scream...ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Abhi,
Liked ur post. I really felt sorry for Purvi today... I felt her loneliness and her sadness. She did all she can and now she is alone... and the ONLY person who truly accepted her as their's - Arjun - she lost over her own choice. She was truly alone today.
AND I thought the guilty parties are the children... they do NOT accept Purvi as their sister... they only accept Archu as their mother.
Also... I wanted to beat Sulo. Not even one word to say "Im here for u" or
I support u" or "Ill pray for u to find happiness again". NOTHING!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arjunaluis



Yes i could not agree more...i was like are you kidding me 😡😡😡 seriously...the kid has lost everything...at least hold her...no see had to say those words (bold) 😡😡 even i am not saying she should go to the D clan house..the point is tej and sachu...i just could not believe what was happening...especially tej...i think my opinion is well stated above...i wanted to scream...ARE YOU KIDDING ME?


Hi guys I am new here!! I started watching pavitra rishta again after seeing Arvi's chemistry. I couldn't agree with you more!! I always respected Sulo till now she didn't even care to notice or comfort purvi in any sense. She had not sympathized Purvi at all after she gave up the love of her life for her mahaan of a daughter Archu! I feel as if that she is a hypocrite almost she was the one supporting Purvi and Arjun's relationship before Archana did and now what happened to that... who cares about purvis rishta if her beechaari archu ka sabh kuushiya firthe milaygei..

As for the three bachas (Teju, Ovi, and Sachin)... Ovi I didn;t have any expectations for, but I expected atleast a sorry from Sachu I didn't expect him to acept Purvi as his sister this will take some time...
But TEJU seriously! She didn't say a word she was crying so much for her Aai but she didn't realize the only reson her mom was still alive today was because of Purvi and the only reason she is with her aai now is because of Purvi's huge sacrifice..
I felt so sad for Purvi today, before I was mad at her for sacrifising Arjun but now I see how she feels indebt. And she has already started to pay for sacrfising Arjun as the only person she loved more than Arjun was her Aai and she kinda just left her vulnerable today. Arjun is the only person in my viewpoint that Purvi blindly loves as we tend to hurt the people we love the most. She could not hurt Archu like this by marrying Arjun, but yes she still loves Archu not saying she doesnt!

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