Are men sacrificial goats - Page 9

Originally posted by: m_masti

actually men of this serial should go and take sanyaas...

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Dearest Shyamala,

I think your assessment is partly true. But, to me, it will be more of a natural progression, since Ovi is already crying and has promised herself that she will make the marriage work. So, she will try and it will have the opposite effect on Arjun. That in turn will make Ovi depressed and she will not have the mood to fulfill her portion of the bargain. This will make Purvi realize that she has to do more. This creates a nice entry point for Sameer Rane'

Dear kool,

@red. I could not agree with you more. I have always felt, and repeated ad nauseum, that Arjun loved Purvi far more than she loved him, and that he always ranked low in her priority list - below her aai, her Manav Baba, and now even perhaps her newly acquired and as yet anjaan Soham dada. I knew that at the first test, she would dump him for her aai.

I wrote once that Arjun was buying a house with a triple mortgage on it, and he has now found it out the hard way. Not that he is going to be any less of a fool, for he is not at all angry at the way in which Purvi has, in effect, as you have noted, sold him to Ovi, He is only angry with Ovi for having treated him like a commodity.

What else has Purvi done? She has done exactly the same thing.Why is it mahaan in her but devious in Ovi? Because she did it for Archana while Ovi did it for herself? But a deal is a deal, whatever the motives, and both girls treat Arjun as a commodity.

Well, for Purvi, the chickens are going to come in to roost all too early. I think Ovi is going to renege on the deal with Purvi, who is now calling her to remind her of the promise. Ovi sounds a little off putting already, though she says she will do it.

Then matters worsen, since Arjun finds out that she had struck a bargain with Purvi for him and chews her out before rushing out into the rain. So now she might tell Purvi that she had got a bad bargain, and Purvi might well push Arjun further to treat Ovi well so that she in turn gets Archana "all that she deserves".

Arjun deserves every bit of what is coming to him for his folly.

Shyamala

Originally posted by koolsadhu1000

vgiri thanks for ur reply .

I watch American soaps as well as Indian and both have their stereotypes . Infact this stereotyping is what is formula and that is what I am trying to say .

In my opinion all are selfish .

Arjun for breaking off with Ovi and going after Purvi .

Ovi for going after him .

Purvi for making big talks of 'love' when in reality she sold Arjun for her pririty her Aai's happiness . She hid that she had accepted Ovi's deal . Ovi had not told her to hide the deal from Archana or Arjun or to hide the fact that it was she who submitted the affidavit . Nor had Ovi told her to force Arjun to marry her ...she had merely told her to leave Arjun .

It was Purvi's decision .

Sorry for ur emotional hurt . But I have been there before . My thoughts underwent a change as this soap progressed . I don't appreciate men having no say in a matter that concerns them as if they were sacrificial goats . Arjun would have dealt with Ovi as he deemed fit ...it was none of Purvi's business to force him into a marrige he never wanted . And the besotted lover that Arjun was ...he accepted it . Thats the reason i called him a young fool . I am of the opnion that he loved Purvi far more than she loved him as all the sacrifices were from his side .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Shyamala I bet after finding she is pregnant she won;t even tell Arjun although he has a full right to know as it will be his child equally . He deserves to know as he married another girl not coz he two timed her but bcoz he was forced into it by her . She will heap injustice upon injustice on him . He may grow to love Ovi later but this girl won;t let him live in peace .

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

LOL shyamala dear you like Raghav in nav vaari better than Purvi in rain...

Raghav's yahoo team did awesome with lavni..👏

You are right Purvi did not look good at all in rain and her expressions while crying really look bad...I thought of writing abt her eyes looking like frog eyes when she cries...Now someone pls tell me if I am wrong..

The issue is most of us with opposite views have been there done that seen it in past 3 yrs and we can almost predict what is going to happen and it really is happening...

Today Arjun had the gall to be rude to Ovi and blaming her but he should blame Purvi and himself for letting this happen...Before pointing a finger he should look how many fingers are pointing at himself..He could have simply said NO to Purvi..

Now that we have been predicting for quite a while now that Purvi will be preggo with Arjun child, I will totally be at a loss if this turn of event ever come to pass…..seriously, how much uglier the situation can be because of such morons…now in a Bollywood setting, the easiest solution to date, is to kill a female character under the circumstance 😡 (how convenient) and the female in waiting just happily step into a 'role" whatever it may be, either the wife or the mom….now, the question, what would be your take if such events came to pass (God forbid)…

Shymala dear😃, I wanted to 'like' your post to me, but like the Government workers all around the world, the like button stopped working in that particular post of your😉….well, not sure of the significance though of such selectivity😃….