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Posted: 13 years ago
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Kool, so agree with you…

Women in this serial have taken men for granted and taken them on a ride, and sadly by emotional blackmailing…blackmailing their emotions, their feeling towards them…they have fallen so low that I can't even call them Men.

To Karanjkar girls, men are like mud to be used as they please. I was stunned to hear that Purvi wanted Arjun to sacrifice in the name of his love towards her…How many times will he has to prove himself? It seems never ending to me.

And why the hell did Arjun accept it? There comes a point in everyone's life, I believe that he/she has to chose how far he is willing to go. Shouldn't Arjun has just said no and walked away. He seems to have been too eager to please and his eagerness has landed him in this mess today.

I truly think that he should just take life can it came to him and move on in a new footing with Ovi. Purvi definitely didn't deserve him, if it came with so many conditions….

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Posted: 13 years ago
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People at the end of the day I blame Men more than those women as they chose to fall at their feet and let the women do tandav on their heads..
Women can only do what they want to do if Men allow it...
Men are over compensating these women and their whims...They jump thru the hoops for illogical and unreasonable demands...Why cant they be firm and assertive and say "NO"
They act as if their tongues are tied and brain is dead..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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love this post!!! you are absolutely right! When arjun came in to the show who knew he would become this lifeless puppet for both archanas daughters...let the men have some respect and spine in the serial...whiy do women make all the decisions for the men in this show? how can purvi make a decision for arjun about who he should marry? And why cant arjun stand up to that? Just blindly agree and believe everything these crazy women say?

If this has to be about mothers and daughters...then keep that the main track fo the show..don't introduce love and other relationships like marriage in between...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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umi and Varsha

girls who enter marraige emulating Archana and Purvi will be in for a rude shock bcoz men do take strong offense .

It is honestly not enough to look beautiful and be tiedto their mother's palu .

No , marraige does not mean breaking ties with your mother at all . But it is a huge commitment and it requiresdedication not flip flop nonsense .

I hope someone points this out to Archana and Purvi .

They had an option . Staying unmarried and just being loving daughters .

They never exercised it .

Everyone's mothers do a lot for their children not just them .


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Btw Kool...love you KC today...glad you made one🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Varsha, I wanted to ask you, why you think Ovi isn't married to Arjun. Why will she agree to this farce, she has nothing to gain with this drama?? So, was curious to know why you thought so. How will Cvs justify the drama to marriage but not really for Ovi who was crying and was so upset for Arjun getting married to Purvi…curious…

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Posted: 13 years ago
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it will be same like Manav putting sindoor to shravani...

it will be same like how archu promised 'that she will not come in between shravani and manav'

it will be same...he was just angry and to prove he might have married ovi...but it is just bad, it is shadi not gudda-guddi khel...

archana will never give the love from purvi's platter to twins platter...for her it will be always purvi...and ek jhalak of purvi will ruin ovi's life...

i am sure, arjun will not have healthy relationship with ovi, and purvi will come back, and asusual ovi will get more hurt and no-one will have mercy on her...

@original post...nice post Kools...I will never want my son/brother/husband to be like the men in the PR...

@Umi, 🤗 don't get too stressed, but sure post on PR topics...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

Varsha, I wanted to ask you, why you think Ovi isn't married to Arjun. Why will she agree to this farce, she has nothing to gain with this drama?? So, was curious to know why you thought so. How will Cvs justify the drama to marriage but not really for Ovi who was crying and was so upset for Arjun getting married to Purvi'curious'

The only reason I think Ovi is not married to Arjun is they did not show us the wedding...They showed us Ovi touching Archana's feet to assume they were married. I dont trust CVs...Their head's are screwed up..
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The way archana and Manav carried on their eye locks after divorce and manav engaged to Shravni, same way Purvi will carry on eye locks and control over Arjun's heart and will not let Ovi -Arjun be happy that is if this marriage goes thru and purvi is out...Like mother like daughter they sacrifice but they control men's hearts and never let go...Physically they are with their wives but their hearts are yearning for these women..😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Kalapi 🤗 i don't even mind the emotional blackmail so much bcoz at the end of the day it is a reality of life .

Men are straight simple creatures and emotional blackmail is a woman's weapon and eachwoman uses it at sometime or the other in her marital life ...as a wife as a mother etc .

But at the back of their mind men know that they are being emotionally blackmailed . They pay attention to the bottomline thats asked of them and give in .

But like Varsha once said ...they rise over this emotional blackmail if it comes to the good of theirchildren , finances or life .

A marraige is a life taking decision ! It is too much of Purvi to demand it of Arjun and Arjun should have never listened to it but been disgusted with the demand . Some hours before marraige , is he a godforsaken toy ?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

umi and Varsha


girls who enter marraige emulating Archana and Purvi will be in for a rude shock bcoz men do take strong offense .

It is honestly not enough to look beautiful and be tiedto their mother's palu .

No , marraige does not mean breaking ties with your mother at all . But it is a huge commitment and it requiresdedication not flip flop nonsense .

I hope someone points this out to Archana and Purvi .

They had an option . Staying unmarried and just being loving daughters .

They never exercised it .

Everyone's mothers do a lot for their children not just them .




Again well Said Di...👏
Bot the underlined statements were , Totally agree.
And the first one,I have seen it too.

and the last underlined goes for both the ones who enter the marriage.Be it the girl or Boy,
value your Mom, and respect her love, Be the way you are to her , the same way ,before and after Marriage,

But ,the same time respect, value your Spouse too. He/she too comes in your world after marriage. anyone should do the needful.

Di, As you rightly said(in green), Its not neglecting the mom, its not breaking ties with them, we can be same to them, but as you said the commitment and dedication should be more as it is for a Life time.

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