I so wanted manav to...

I wish Manav had asked that question of Archana. She could have then told him the truth, "I called you, you didn't want me to keep in touch, you put your mother on the phone and sent me divorce papers instead. How dare you ask me that question now? How dare you keep me away from my own daughters? See how they are feeling about the lack of a mother's love? it is all your fault. Pay attention to the dirt on your side of the fence before you go pointing fingers at me, dear husband. I might love you dearly to the point of foolishness but I am done playing this silly blame game with you.".

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I wish Manav had asked that question of Archana. She could have then told him the truth, "I called you, you didn't want me to keep in touch, you put your mother on the phone and sent me divorce papers instead. How dare you ask me that question now? How dare you keep me away from my own daughters? See how they are feeling about the lack of a mother's love? it is all your fault. Pay attention to the dirt on your side of the fence before you go pointing fingers at me, dear husband. I might love you dearly to the point of foolishness but I am done playing this silly blame game with you.".

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I wish Manav had asked that question of Archana. She could have then told him the truth,"I called you, you didn't want me to keep in touch, you put your mother on the phone and sent me divorce papers instead. How dare you ask me that question now? How dare you keep me away from my own daughters?See how they are feeling aboutthe lack of a mother's love? it is all your fault.Pay attention to the dirt on your side of the fence before you go pointing fingers at me, dear husband. I might love you dearly to the point of foolishness but I am done playing this silly blame game with you.".

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I wish Manav had asked that question of Archana. She could have then told him the truth, "I called you, you didn't want me to keep in touch, you put your mother on the phone and sent me divorce papers instead. How dare you ask me that question now? How dare you keep me away from my own daughters? See how they are feeling about the lack of a mother's love? it is all your fault. Pay attention to the dirt on your side of the fence before you go pointing fingers at me, dear husband. I might love you dearly to the point of foolishness but I am done playing this silly blame game with you.".

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

There is no blame game here at all...Alll the blame lies with & on Archana for destroying her marriage with manav by imposing her family on Manav and Deshmukhs...I am not against girls helping their families but having a balanced married life...Not lopsided..

Her courtcase against Manav and Losing Soham to Varsha by handing him these 2 serious blames Archana will have to bear..There is no excuse for that...

Manav loves Archana out of greater foolishness after these 2 events...Another man would not even look at this woman and divorce her...File for sole custody...Again all this I know will be debatable...My my 2 cents..

For a change It would be nice to have the blame game outloud which might bring out the whole truth and nothing but the truth inturn which might put the darn family together or finally divorce this couple and they can both move on to their individual lives...

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

Varsha, totally agree. A sane man or woman would definitely do that. But even with manav's foolish love for archana and her misguided sense of love for him; how is he or his family to understand her motives when she doesn't tell them, especially when they lack all sense. I get very irritated with characters who decide other's lives thinking they're doing it for their good. Who gave anybody the right to take decisions on anybody else's lives but theirs. All of the so-called lead actors of nearly every show have this very irritable trait. And what's more, not only do they take decisions for others but they actually expect the other party to understand and appreciate them for the "sacrifice".

Actually, I found Archu so weird today. She was crying saying that she wants and can give everything to Purvi except a 'Baba', I felt that she was so concern about Purvi's needing a Baba at 19 yrs, what about her own kids? Did they not need her while growing up...what is she doing now when Ovi is going to so much pain...she can't even break through her own kids, what amount of time has she spend tendering a mother's love to the 3 kids so far ... I don't remember any. She only is thinking of Purvi, what about the pain Ovi is going through. How is she going to enjoy Purvi's engagement, when her other daughter is bleeding?? Does she really expect and want Manav to be present at Purvi's engagement, so that both of them can show their support to Purvi and leave Ovi vulnerable and all alone in her hour of need. When one of our kid is sick and the other need to attend some award ceremony, don't real parent share the pain and the celebration together. Shouldn't Archu be the one to tell that "Manav, be with Ovi, I can manage alone Purvi's engagement ... one of us should support Ovi and it is better if it is you"...God has the Cvs totally lost it ... Yes, Manav and Arch will be there for Purvi and NO Parent will be there for Ovi during the engagement. Arman kids the true Orphans in PR...so sad...