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Posted: 13 years ago
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may be sulo do something or convince archana that arjun will stay at their home or chawl...:)if arjun will live in different chawl then how the 'shirt da button' song will picturise on them...:)so it is possible that arjun will live at purvi's chawl...:)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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if by any chance archana puts the condition of arvi not meeting then i m seriously quitting the show
coz separation is separation, whether they accept their love or no. earlier the judai was due to MU and now if there is anymore judai due to the conditions led by archana i will bang my head on the wall and curse cv's and ekta till they are showered with bad omens😔
and please that shirt da button is very immature song which does not suit arvi at all
here is the link
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dear Shyamala,
Please read my response in blue.
Trish

Originally posted by: sashashyam

Trish,

If Archana, with all her experience of Savita, can still be 'influenced' by her, she needs to have her head examined. Savita can influence Archana quite easily. She took her family from her, her husband her children for 18 years, so Savita can definitely do anything to Archana.
To my mind, it is not that at all.She detests Arjun because he had ditched her ladli beti Ovi, and she is ready to force Purvi to give him up so that she should not have what Ovi could not have. She might camouflage this as concern for Purvi, and say that Arjun is unreliable, but that is her basic motivation. The motivation came from Savita's conversation today. When Archana said "Arjun is not a good boy" Savita said " Achha, he's not a good boy for Ovi but for Purvi, he is.. " So, Savita put words in Archana's mouth .. Archana replied to this saying " Arjun na Ovi ke liya accha hai na Purvi ke liye"

In the old days in Hindi films, the mother used to force her son to do her bidding by saying Main apne doodh ki keemat maang rahi hoon. Now Archana is extracting her pound of flesh from the all too weak and wilting Purvi, as the keemat for having adopted her and given her a home.

She says that Purvi does not love Arjun but only thinks she loves him. When she tried to say something similar to Ovi,she got a befitting, stinging reply, but with Purvi, she is on safe ground. Purvi will never rebel.
Yes, you are right, Archana knows she is on safe ground, she is taking Purvi for granted. But the drop of poison was put in her mind by Savita in that conversation when Tej was eavesdropping. That's why I said influenced. Am not saying, Archana is not to blame at all, but Savita has a way of twisting her arm and getting things done. But, yes, we all expected a lot more empathy from Archana which was just absent today.

Shyamala




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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Trish, I did not like today's episode either. Archana and Manav have both ruined their own relationship and now with all these conditions, they are set to ruin Arjun and Purvi's too.

I did not like Archana asking Purvi to choose between her and Arjun. And she still has not given a chance for Purvi to explain her side of the story. Savita took the cake today, why would she want her granddaughter to marry someone who does not love her?
Glad Teju overheard. Looks like Ovi will turn mental and instead of helping her, Savita is going to make it worse.



Jahnvi, @bold - very True, 100% true, fully agree, I also didnt like 2day's epi. i dnt knw why - still I didnt like it. When Archana slapped Purvi & behaved illogically, i understood a mom's broken heart's pain, but today I really feel sad. I personally do not feel that one can prove his/her love by staying in the chwal or struggling with the middle class life style.. Arjun is in born rich & it is nt his fault.

I do not know how she can put the condition in front of purvi - to choose either her mom or her lover - tough one. Moreover, she knows how it feels to be seperated from love ones..the method of judging one person is not right , I am confused (may be my lack of experiencešŸ˜•)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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im really excited for this track!

but keshu no more Doriyaan plz archu cant keep this conditionšŸ˜”
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sashashyam

Dear Abhi,

You can amuse yourself trying out all sorts of permutations and combinations, but the one certain thing is that it is a stupid story that will geteven stupider. I see nothing but an unholy mess ahead.

Purvi does not seem to have an ounce of gumption in her, and stares at a hectoring Archana liked a petrified rabbit. The other day, when the Friday episode was still in the future, Janhvi was, as usual, criticising Arjun for asking DK what he should, and wondering whether if DK said no to Purvi, he would fall in line. Well, DK did not say no to Purvi.

But now the shoe is on the other foot, and Purvi is not letting out a squeak in defence of Arjun, but stands behind Archana when she is insulting Arjun, with nothing to say for herself.

Archana had no objections to Arjun marrying Ovi when too he was in the same professional position as he is now. That was wonderful for her then. Now, apparently, he is not acceptable to her as he has 'nothing' of his own! One would think Archana was some Maharani and Purvi a princess to see the way she carries on. And her stupid adopted daughter would any day ditch Arjun rather than displease her aai. So much for her great love for him.

If I were Arjun, I would tell Purvi what someone else had suggested yesterday - take me as I am or stay with your aai. He will not do that because she is his greatest weakness, and if he gives her this choice, he knows very well whom she will choose.

Shyamala


My Dear Shyamala,
Thank you for ur response, and that too a very realistic one. It is nice that you give me this grounding and about the "unholy mess" that is to come too. I shall keep myself abreast with the written updates and watch ISA's uploads of ARVi only at that point in time...
Yes, our dear Arjun, has been struck by Cupid's arrow and thus Purvi is his greatest weakness (and hopefully longer term- his greatest strength)...Yes, i wish the fibre of Purvi was made of stronger material so that she could tether these absolutely insane, ridiculous demands of her crazy Aaie (double standard too- different strokes for different folks- Ovi vs. Purvi) and now Arjun being rich (let alone how well he manages all the businesses etc) is a fault of his...does Archana not think of her friend Aashna just turning in her grave over the treatment Archana is meting out to her dear son...
I loved DK and Arjun interactions, they are gorgeous and i hope to emulate DK one day...he kind of reminds me of my Dad too...very measured, strong and charismatic and yet always there when you need him (ya this one is a bit different since DK was gone for a bit there)...but very sincere and looking out for his son and yet not telling him what to do exactly but gently providing that guiding force...
Purvi had better stick up for dear dear Arjun...maybe this time the CVs decided that they will do a 180 degree turn in Purvi's character since she really cannot stand up for herself or her love in front of her Aaie's wrath and prejudice and unreasonable demands. Wonder if Archana is guided by Savita's taunt at all - as i read from the written update...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dear Laurie,

@red. I too fervently echo your hope that they will not dumb Arjun down.

He cannot be a subordinate to someone else after having been his own boss all this while.Nor will he be able to bargain for vegetables and bring in the water. I had no idea that he would quit his own firm to accommodate Manav, and be forced to set out on this own to please this harridan of a MIL to be.

And you can bet your bottom dollar that Purvi would never have the guts to support Arjun and stand by him in defiance of her aai.

I agree completely with Archana: it is now for Purvi to prove her love, and unless she steps up to the plate and stands by Arjun, she does not deserve him at all, and he had better find another Vinay.

All in all, it is an unpleasant and messy twist; the only saving grace is that for the next few weeks, no long posts would be called for, which would be good for my poor eyes, and for you folks as well!

Shyamala

Originally posted by: Axiom123

To be very frank, I didn't like most of today's episode. šŸ˜•

Except for Punni's termination and Purvi's acceptance of Arjun in front of DK 😃 the turn this is taking is very awkward and stunted in thinking.
I understand Archana's feelings that Arjun tried to cheat both daughters by getting involved with both of them at the same time but is she really that shallow not to investigate what happened?
Does she not trust her upbringing in Purvi to know that Purvi (the girl who never took a misstep) never did anything wrong?
Has Arjun, the boy she thought so highly of, fallen from grace becase he chose to love the wrong daughter in her opinion?
Or is she so blinded by her emtions of distrust in Purvi, her assumptions and Ovi's hysterics that she fails to see the truth?
I guess they had to create misunderstandings to stir the pot or how else could they stretch the story. šŸ˜•
Coming to the new arrangements - there are so many possibilities.
I don't see Arjun working for others (but its PR so I could be wrong) - what will he be? A mechanic like Manav for Archana to think he's worth Purvi? 🤣
Maybe he might start his own company with the help of... Satish/Soham šŸ˜† Rival to Manav? Could be the antagonist angle? Soham brings Arjun-Purvi closer like we've been hearing about for so long and in the process get back at his parents?
Arjun's a smart guy and I hope the CVs don't try to dumb him down for this part of the show. Hopefully Purvi will be there with him in stride and will choose to be with him - not leaving him hanging out to dry by himself (although I fear such will not be the case since Archana is her world 😭)
Tej might come around after a while as she still has some unresolved issues with Purvi - nothing that a good heart to heart can't fix. Tej knows deep down that Purvi is a good soul but in defense of her sister she'll be a little tougher case to crack initially.
Wait and watch is the name of the game I guess... šŸ˜•

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Trish, I did not like today's episode either. Archana and Manav have both ruined their own relationship and now with all these conditions, they are set to ruin Arjun and Purvi's too.

I did not like Archana asking Purvi to choose between her and Arjun. And she still has not given a chance for Purvi to explain her side of the story. Savita took the cake today, why would she want her granddaughter to marry someone who does not love her?
Glad Teju overheard. Looks like Ovi will turn mental and instead of helping her, Savita is going to make it worse.

Dear Jhanvi and ArVi fans, I was thinking the same thing. Why Archana took 180 degree turn? CV are showing that Archana only cares for people who hate her and abuse her, like all Deshmukhs. Archana cannot digest someone truly loves her, and shows so much respect and dedication like Purvi. Archana is saying that she wants to make things right for Purvi or Purvi's life. When she cannot take care of her own life or her relationship with Manav, and now she wants to take care of Purvi's life without knowing all the facts between Arjun and Purvi, and make Purvi's life miserable same as hers.😭 In Ovi's Birthday party, look like she supported Purvi, but she actually supported her upbringing, and showing what a great job she has done with Purvi. Indeed she has done a great job upbringing Purvi. But now under Savita's influence, she is making wrong decision, and not giving chance to Purvi to explain anything. CV continues with this track than they will unintentionally show that when it come to choose between biological and adopted daughter, she choose biological daughter. Wasn't there an article that Archana will support ArVi, What happened to it?

I like Arjun for firing Punni! šŸ‘Arjun-DK were awesome. Ovi did a good job in her acting. Manav and Archana have lost it. No surprise for Savita, she never cares about other's pain, she is happy as long as she gets what her heart desires. Just like her own self, she wants Ovi to get married with Arjun because that what Ovi wants. Savita is never able to think what is right and wrong, so what one can expect from her????😔😔

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Huma-

im really excited for this track!

but keshu no more Doriyaan plz archu cant keep this conditionšŸ˜”

di kaun chahta hai dooriyan but when it comes to ekta shows no one can predict😔
i will be angry if that happens coz i want a sweet and cute arvi scene😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: archverma10

Shyamala you are right. Unless Purvi grows a spine, and continues to meet Arjun and become his greatest support in his quest, the show no longer is worth watching.

First the CVs did a character assasination on Arjun and everyone bashed him. Now that he is the one stepping up to fight and prove himself, she had better make it clear what she feels for him. Because if she sits there quietly, acceeds to her stupid Aai's request to not meet him at all and leaves him to struggle on his own, even if he does win the challenge, I wont want to see my ladla with a girl who is not willing to stand up for him. It works both ways.
This can either be a great thing or a detrimental thing. If they meet, and we get some more scenes where they are together and both agree to be each others support as they try to convince everyone than that is a good story. But if they get separated and Purvi keeps quiet about her love for him, then its her character then she is not worthy of him- whether he wins the challenge or not.
Doing this will make him a better person because it will show him a side of things and allow him to experience life in such a way he hasnt. So its ok for him to quit his company and live in a chawl...maybe in the future when he goes old, he will have the satisfaction of being able to guide his children the right way because he went through this experience. I am not objecting to the idea of this (I dont really see how it proves anything from the love angle, but fine). However, if Purvi chooses her Aai, does not meet Arjun, and keeps quiet about her love for him, allowing him to struggle and suffer without lifting a finger for him, then she doesnt deserve him. You have to be each others support through both bad times and good.
If that isnt there, then this great love story and Jodi is already over.

@ blue bold - GO ARCH!!! I second that emotion gosh darn it! šŸ‘
It takes two to tango
One hand can't clap
Yada, yada, yada.
My advice to you both my dear Arjun and Purvi: šŸ˜Ž
"You have brains in your head.
You have two feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
You're on your own.
And you know what you know.
And YOU are the one who'll decide where to go..." Dr. Seuss
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