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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sorry, but i dont think that Archana is a bad mother at all. She is currently facing a tightrope situation of balancing various relationships and is coping. There is no perfect solution for her.
When she agreed to give in to Sachin, she had every reason to believe that her children who have anyways grown up without her , want Shravani in their life . Initially manav's behaviour towards her was bad. Even now he is ready to believe the worst of her. She may be wrong in giving in but clinging on to what she believes is not hers is not in tune with her character.
With Arjun and DK it is different. They can be detached to Manav / Ovi's condition but how can Archana be? I dont have a great opinion of Arjn/DK in this matter, but that is another story.
Let us see if her love can conquer her daughters' hatred and to what extent. But she is not a chicken and faces trouble squarely. She is a mixed up woman but in no way a bad mother!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Woo Hoo!!!!! so finally a week of slap-e-daar (just like dhamakedaar) is over 🤣
I have stopped watching this serial Whoa!!!!!! But whenever I saw in bits and pieces I always saw someone or the other slapping Ovi slapping Purvi, then Archana slapping Purvi and Manav slapping Arjun I think last week Archana slapping Punni too 🤔...
Why was Slapchana missed out in this 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: GManda72

Sorry, but i dont think that Archana is a bad mother at all. She is currently facing a tightrope situation of balancing various relationships and is coping. There is no perfect solution for her.

When she agreed to give in to Sachin, she had every reason to believe that her children who have anyways grown up without her , want Shravani in their life . Initially manav's behaviour towards her was bad. Even now he is ready to believe the worst of her. She may be wrong in giving in but clinging on to what she believes is not hers is not in tune with her character.
With Arjun and DK it is different. They can be detached to Manav / Ovi's condition but how can Archana be? I dont have a great opinion of Arjn/DK in this matter, but that is another story.
Let us see if her love can conquer her daughters' hatred and to what extent. But she is not a chicken and faces trouble squarely. She is a mixed up woman but in no way a bad mother!


Nice post GManda. @ red - I liked the way you described Archana's predicament..a tightrope situation of balancing relationships.

Archana has sometimes been her own worst enemy by having such low self esteem she doesn't stand up for herself, but she always comes back and is resilient. i think so anyway. She's been unjustly accused so much of her life, it's no wonder. I think Tej is carefully watching her mother's actions.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: LovePRSoham

Woo Hoo!!!!! so finally a week of slap-e-daar (just like dhamakedaar) is over 🤣

I have stopped watching this serial Whoa!!!!!! But whenever I saw in bits and pieces I always saw someone or the other slapping Ovi slapping Purvi, then Archana slapping Purvi and Manav slapping Arjun I think last week Archana slapping Punni too 🤔...
Why was Slapchana missed out in this 😆


hi Rachu... it was crazy !! good you didn't see all that. i am hoping the CV's got our message and the slaps will cease..cause as you know they escalated it to something even worse.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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hi Rachu... it was crazy !! good you didn't see all that. i am hoping the CV's got our message and the slaps will cease..cause as you know they escalated it to something even worse.


Hi Naava... I cant bear it anymore but the problem is m unable to stop watching it completely too.. So I do watch sometimes Ouch Naava you know what I dont have any hopes on these peanut brain CV's now... They only know to complicate things but they fail to come out of it... Many tracks were left loose previously too and now also they will do the same... There is no sense in this show at all...
Arrey some lines written were so so funny... I mean for example Punni saying to Vinod that she made the MMS so that Archu can believe her... 😆 Did someone ask her if she sent this to Archana... She sent it to the whole world except Archu... I was only laughing coz if I look at the logic then my blood will only boil.. There is the great Savita Aai in one scene where Manjusha had come to Archu said she does not like the hungama's... I think she forget her past 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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3) @ Tanya...i am really sorry to hear you are so down about PR now and i do understand that the physical abuse Manav expressed was so awful to see. So many times i want to give up on this show. But right now i am encouraged. I am a little confused about a couple of things you said regarding the girls. I think, kind of opposite of what you are feeling, that Archana is being a good mother to Tej and Ovi and i think she loves them very much. Think about it Tanya. She was blocked from mothering them in person for 18 years. Of course her daily interaction with them now will be awkward. Especially knowing they were taught to hate her.. I think she is showing remarkable resourcefulness and resilience in being right there and mothering incognito. And the girls are picking it up. Teju especially. I just loved the Tej/Archana scenes..They were my favorite of this show. Archana's love for Ovi didn't go unnoticed by either Ovi or Sachu. You can't really mother from a distance..so daily interaction will prove her love for them. I don't think she's thinking a lot about Sachin and Shravani now..i dont mean she's forgotten it entirely, but right now she's giving her all to loving her daughters...for the first time she's ever been allowed to mother them and state she is their mother. It has given her strength even with SAvita. In fact, her love for her daughters supersedes her love for Manav. What she said to Teju...as a wife I should be angry at him pushing me, but because Ovi is hurting so much i have to see him as Ovi's father who is crushed by his daughter's heartbreak. And then she asks Tej to help Ovi through her grief. Her thoughts are on Ovi only...it's not that she's willing as a wife to forgive Manav's actions, it's because of Ovi's pain. I think tha't's a huge difference and very subtly done and done well by the writers...for a change.
Ok, I get what you are trying to say .I called her a bad mother because at least from Tej's side it looks so obvious that Teju is hurt that mother gave prefernce to money and not her daughters .Even Ovi asked Archana tha tI am giving you a chance to explain why are you filing for a divorce and when savita told the girls about the alimony ...both of them were shattered .
All Archana has to do si tell them that she does not want money but she wants to be with them but she is not doing this because Sachin and Shravani ( in my opinion ) are more important to her ..
At least this is how it is looking .
Actually Naava , the writers are doing a pathetic job in this way ...they are totally failing to show why Archana is doing what she is doing ...
Naava , I strongly believe that the main reason for TRPs going down is Archana's meaningless sacrifices and now the writers have dragged it so much that they have lost the viewers ...
People have just lost interest in the show now .

It was good that she sort of did say that as a wife she should be angry with her husband ..Of course she should ..She should forget about this sharing the pain nonsense and just give this man a royal ignore ...he is simply not worht it .


Where i was surprised in the show was that Purvi wasted no time in saying yes. It was a sweet scene and well done also. I am glad as i didn't expect that...and now the show can move forward. Plus Arjun was able to say some good things about always putting others ahead of yourself. Good job Arjun. 👍🏼
yup, that was great .Even I was not expecting it .No one gave a damn about Manav's anger ...😆. they are doing the right thing now in following their heart ...

Hope y'all are having a good weekend..today i took a 4 hour nap. omg...i must have needed that. 🤣
I also slept for 2 hours , usually never do but today I did ...now it wil lbe difficult to sleep at night .


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: GManda72

Sorry, but i dont think that Archana is a bad mother at all. She is currently facing a tightrope situation of balancing various relationships and is coping. There is no perfect solution for her.

When she agreed to give in to Sachin, she had every reason to believe that her children who have anyways grown up without her , want Shravani in their life . Initially manav's behaviour towards her was bad. Even now he is ready to believe the worst of her. She may be wrong in giving in but clinging on to what she believes is not hers is not in tune with her character.
With Arjun and DK it is different. They can be detached to Manav / Ovi's condition but how can Archana be? I dont have a great opinion of Arjn/DK in this matter, but that is another story.
Let us see if her love can conquer her daughters' hatred and to what extent. But she is not a chicken and faces trouble squarely. She is a mixed up woman but in no way a bad mother!

Ok, I understand what yo uare saying ..But if in time , even after seeing how her daughters are understaning her and are miserable that their mother si not giving up divorce ...even after seeing their pain , Archana stil lis going firmly ahead with the divorce ...then obviously Sachin means a lot lot more to her than Ovi and teju ..
A good mother should not differentiate between her children ...
OK, now i can sort of see that she feels that her daughters would be happier with Shravani but of she is getting loved back by them or even signals that they want her ...then if Archana does not try and get back with them for good then I think even yo uwould feel disappointed in her as a mother .Wouldn't you ?
I don't care about Manav . I really dislike this fellow now ...but I want Archana to try hard and stay with her daughters ...and specially after seeing how Savita manipulates them ,.
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Rachu, nice to see you here .Don't blame you for being put off.I feel the same way as well...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ovi asked Archana tha tI am giving you a chance to explain why are you filing for a divorce and when savita told the girls about the alimony ...both of them were shattered .

Tanya i think i missed that or at least the impact of it.. that was terrible on Archu's part if she let them think that... i vaguely remember some conversation.

i think, like you said in your later post, that if she sees the girls loving her, and still goes ahead with the divorce...i will be flabbergasted... for sure then, she will not deserve them.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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The day the girls found out that she is their mother , clearl yOvi asked her ' saying that she is giving her a chance to explain why is she going for a divorce and asking for alimony and not her daughters ' , to that Archana did not say anything and savita told the girls that your mother is doing this because money is more important to her than you ..
Both the girls were crying when the heard this ..
Archana only said to savita ' yo uknow the reason ' ( meaning Shravani and Mnav's wedding ) and she did not tell the truth to the girls even though they wanted to know why their mommy does not wish to be with them ...
this is wh yI call her a bad mother ..
yaar , yo uknow I like her bu tI have to be honest na .this is wh ythe TRPs are so low ...tell me , how can anyone like such a woman who is more concerned about getting her husband married to another woman and not concerned about her daughters pain .

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