Crucification of Archana's faith - Page 2

Originally posted by: crazy2012

Yes Sudha, in my earlier post, I have also said this we can not blame Purvi 100% coz she cud nt get support from Arjun if she wants to say anything abt their relationship. But, when she shares each & every small feelings & unimportant stories with her mom, if she cud also tell this to Archu, then the situation cud have been much better. That means, when Archu will come to know she will also feel very isolated, & she might think that she cud nt reach to Purvi's heart though she loves her more than her life..😊

Originally posted by: *Shruti*

Manav-Archana put their trust on Arjun-Purvi. They believe they can't do anything like this. Sadly their trust is going to be broken when the truth is out. Purvi doesn't have strength to tell truth to Archana and feels guilty for betraying those who stood for her against their own blood.

Archana will be hurt the most when reality hits her. Purvi who has shared every little thing of her life with her hided such a big thing from her. Purvi needs to stop feeling guilty she never knew about Ovi's existence in Arjun's life or commitment he made to her when he was in Canada and when she did she decided to be distant from Arjun. I want to see a nice interaction between Archana-Purvi when the truth is out.

Arjun needs to return and tell the entire truth. He needs to support and stand by Purvi in her rough times. The road ahead is going to be tough for Arjun as well as Purvi. Purvi might try to push Arjun away from her for obvious reasons but he needs to be firm on his decision. If Purvi wants to sacrifice her love for sake of other's happiness that would be her choice but she doesn't need to impose this on Arjun. Like she has right to take her life decisions so does he.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Debu, excellent post. Poor Archu indeed, I wonder why after all was said and done, she didn't go home (Karnjikar) and talk about it with Purvi? That would have been the right time for Purvi to confess.

Even if Archana believed Purvi was innocent of the accusation, any mother would follow up on it, Archu doesn't know what kind of impact it has had on Purvi, her first instinct should be to go check on her and discuss the evening's happenings with her daughter. That would have given Purvi, in her vulnerable moment, a chance to confess to her mom. Instead Archana is happily greeting Manju into the Deshmukh house!

Shruthi, I loved your @ bold. Purvi indeed needs to stop feeling guilty but unfortunately she cannot as she knows her parents believe she could never come between Ovi and Arjun. They don't know that Purvi didn't know about Ovi's existence when all this happened, you are so right about that.

If anyone should be feeling guilty it should be Arjun. I still think he botched up everything. He could have stopped all this nonsense before the engagement itself. No tongues would have wagged (or if they had it would have been minimally) if he had explained he cannot go through with the sagaii as he is in love with someone else. It is time for him to return and shoulder all the blame.

Again, Purvi can decide to sacrifice but she has no right to expect or force him to do the same ( I had written this earlier too when there was talk about her sacrifice mode). If he decides even temporarily to go forward wtih marrying Ovi because Purvi asks him to, he is a bigger wimp than he has been given credit for!

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Debu, excellent post. Poor Archu indeed, I wonder why after all was said and done, she didn't go home (Karnjikar) and talk about it with Purvi? That would have been the right time for Purvi to confess.

Even if Archana believed Purvi was innocent of the accusation, any mother would follow up on it, Archu doesn't know what kind of impact it has had on Purvi, her first instinct should be to go check on her and discuss the evening's happenings with her daughter. That would have given Purvi, in her vulnerable moment, a chance to confess to her mom. Instead Archana is happily greeting Manju into the Deshmukh house!

Shruthi, I loved your @ bold. Purvi indeed needs to stop feeling guilty but unfortunately she cannot as she knows her parents believe she could never come between Ovi and Arjun. They don't know that Purvi didn't know about Ovi's existence when all this happened, you are so right about that.

If anyone should be feeling guilty it should be Arjun. I still think he botched up everything. He could have stopped all this nonsense before the engagement itself. No tongues would have wagged (or if they had it would have been minimally) if he had explained he cannot go through with the sagaii as he is in love with someone else. It is time for him to return and shoulder all the blame.

Again, Purvi can decide to sacrifice but she has no right to expect or force him to do the same ( I had written this earlier too when there was talk about her sacrifice mode). If he decides even temporarily to go forward wtih marrying Ovi because Purvi asks him to, he is a bigger wimp than he has been given credit for!

Originally posted by: rash2222

no archana has gone to meet purvi ... it was shown in today's sbs...

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Jhanvi, from the looks of it it seems ( not 100 % sure though ) that the very night only both Archana with Manav went to see Purvi and how she was doing ..

It was shown that Archu and Manav are both wearing the same clothes that they did in the party and Archana goes in Purvi's room where Purvi is crying a lot and Archana is hugging her and trying to calm her down ... Manav is sitting in the lounge of the Karanjkar house .

The scene with Manjusha is the next morning .

I think seeing how Manav is supporting Purvi, Archana is happy and does not care much about what Punni said or Savita's taunts .

It is very important for Archana that Manav and Purvi should have a good relationship and he is always there as her father ... that is why she always spoke so good of him to Purvi . Purvi does not have anyone else besides Archana and Sulochna is old so maybe that is why Archana always wants her to have someone else as well in her life who could take care of her and be there for her .

If yo uwould notice, Archana hardly ever expects anything from Manav for herself , the only thing she wants from him is to be Purvi's Baba ...he too knows this .

If Manav and Purvi's relationship goes wrong then Archana would be shattered ...

Purvi will always have Archana ...but I don't want her to loose her Baba . She loves him so much .😒

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

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Tanya, I saw Archana in the SBS segment in the same sari so you are right, why didn't Purvi tell her mother then? Sigh!

I think it is very obvious that the girl has made up her mind to give up Arjun forever .She said in Friday's show that both my parents trust me so much but I am doing this to their daughter ...

For the sake of her parents , she will tell Arjun that no one is to ever know about them but I don't think Arjun will listen to her ( I hope he doesn't ) and he should fight her back .

Also I have a feeling that even Archana will put two and two together and will somehow get an idea that Arjun and Purvi were in love and that Arjun never wanted to get engaged to Ovi .

I can understand Archana wanting Manav to be there for Purvi, natural for every mom to want to make sure her child is safe and has someone to depend on but I still feel Manav doesn't like or love Purvi as his own, he know she is 'good' because she is raised by Archana and perhaps feels a vague sense of duty towards her other than that I don't think he feels anything more for Purvi.

You are right .In the begining I felt that Manav really wanted to be Purvi's daddy ( when he talked to her on the holi day ) but when I saw him avoiding her on a party then it was very obvious that he does not wish his daughters to know about Purvi .

That's OK, cannot blame him .He loves his daughters and obviously they are very important to him .Why would he hurt them for Purvi ?

He has already done enough , I mean , he doesn't have to let Purvi call her Baba but he does not stops her ...I think that is enough ..I have a feeling that Ovi will not like it if she hears Purvi call him Baba so that will have to stop as well...

He definitely feels a bit obligated too by the love and respect she has for her baba. I think Manav will not readily agree to ARVI especially with Savita there to poison his mind together with the tantrums his daughter will be throwing. Can't blame him, he will be a father first and foremost. 😕

I also think so .Maybe Manav will even be angry ( but I am keeping my fingers crossed that he won't ) .Manav is completely a mommy's boy .He listens to Savita and is completely under her thumb . God knows what that woman will say to him ..

But one good thing is that Manav trusts DK a lot ..Manav achieved his goals and his dreams because of DK and Ashna and it would be the worst ever thing if he lets them down and mistrusts their son ..It's not only about Ovi and Purvi , this is also about Arjun and his upbringing .

I know Manav does not feel the same for Purvi like what Archana feels .. Purvi is Archana's heart , the child who kept her alive when her own people left her alone to die including the man whome she loved so much ...

She will always support Purvi but I think she will be a little angry with her that Purvi does not consider her like a real mother or else she would have told her about Arjun ...