Food for thought - Sachin, Tej & Ovi

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Savita is a witch, it bears repeating and she is responsible for this whole horrible mess, but let us examine the situation the children. Sachin, Tej, and Ovi find themselves in, independent of who is to be blamed.

In the last few episodes, Sachu seems to be softening towards Archana or at least exhibits a slight shade of guilt. He has the most reason to dislike Archana. He knew her mothering and was abandoned by the only mother he knew, As I have said before, his hurt has embittered him towards Archana and not knowing the reason behind it, he is angry with her. Excusable. Is it excusable to the extent that he is taking it? To break up the marriage of his parents forever? He sincerely believes Archana is bad news for his father and while lying, forging and cheating can never be the means to an end however noble, he still believes he is in the right.

Teju is figuring it all out pretty fast, the math doesn't add up in her head and she will side with her mother. She too has not known the love of a mother but is a stronger person mentally than Ovi. I liked her "thank you" to Archana and the smile when Sulo wished her. Even her monologue when Purvi wished her is feasible given the circumstances.

Coming to Ovi, is it understandable for Ovi to feel anger? Yes. Hurt? Yes. Disrespect and insolence towards Archana? That is a big no. She is a brat of the first order. She is the same age as Teju but has been mollycoddled a bit too much for her own good. It is perfectly okay for the girls to feel confused, hurt and angry at their mother but they still need to behave with a degree of decorum that is befitting an adult which is sadly lacking in Ovi.

Ovi is no petulant child to be throwing such an unseemly fit every opportunity she gets. She is 20, for God's sake and has not been bereft of all love. As Tej once said, they have not known a mother's love to miss it. They have had plenty of love in their lives, their grandma, grandpa, dad and an older brother; it has not been an unhappy existence. The girls have not been mentally scarred as much as Sachin, they were mere babes when they "lost" their mother to their grandmother's evil scheming and the reason they hate their Aai so is because Savita has created a deep, festering wound in them, she has stirred it and rubbed salt in it every which opportunity she has had.

When a mother leaves or gives up a child, there could be bewilderment, hurt and all that but after 20 years of living without her, the hate should not be a constant raging fire unless her absence has caused them to live a miserable existence, which has not been the case in this instance, They have had time to accept their mother didn't want them, the time for grieff and denial has long been over, acceptance should have set in or at least getting used to the idea of living without a mother. If Savita has indeed taken the place of a mother figure, they have not missed much. They have all moved on, Sachin is a successful (?) lawyer, Ovi a succesful model, and Tej a successful bindaas girl. They seem well-adjusted on that level.

Yet Ovi persists in behaving like someone with arrested development. Tej's reaction of anger, stand offishness, confusion is much more realistic than Ovi's constant shrieking at "wus aurat". If an adult (Ovi is an adult) met their long last mother after many a year, side by side with the anger, there would be a lot of questions and a curiosity to know the truth about this person who left them. We see this in Tej, Sachin is a different matter as his feeling abandoned is justified in my eyes, he did know Archana as a mother and missed her. Ovi's hatred of Archana borders on obsession, an obsession that is akin to the one Savita has. Savita's deep-rooted fear is that her son loves her daughter-in-law more than herself, that is the root cause of her insecurity and that fermenting cesspool of hate for Archana.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful analysis Jhanvi...

Like u said...Sachin doesn't give those dirty looks to Archana nowadays...but I still don't like the way he tries to keep Ovi-Teju away from Archana or the way he treats her like a maid...he is a fool not to talk to Shravani first n trying to fix her marriage by breaking someone else's marriage...

Teju...she is a sweetheart...the only one with some brains...Manav has spent so many years with Archana, but still believes in her words n not in the love which she has in her eyes for him n all their children...but Tej has spent only 3 months with Archana but she nurtures each n every moment spent with her, she seems to be believing in wat she has felt in these 3 months n not on wat was told to her for the 18 yrs of her life...I so wish she said the word Aayi after that Thank you...but worry not, that day is gonna cum soon...

Ovi is a spoilt child...she loves herself n no one else...she believes in getting wat she wants by hook or by crook...brainless self proclaimed beauty...wenevr she feels things going against her, she starts crying...that is the only weapon she has, emotional blackmail...

She is just not interested in knowing the truth about Arvi relationship, about Archana or anything...she is happy in wat she believes n wat she has...

P.S.: I feel Tej looked gorgeous in yesterday's episode...the eyemakeup, the hairdo, everything...I find her more appealing than Ovi...

Edited by luvly - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I thought Sachin knew that it was Savita who signed the divorce papers and not Archana If yes - he has no reason to hate Archana.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Okay guys as we all know tht Archana daughters are alwayscomplaining tht they never get mother love but if we look at Purvi she also never get her fathers love but she is not complaining.Tht's all Purvi's sanskars from Archu she even never said bad to his father. Look at Archu's real daugthers soo much atitude and mannerless bas yehi sanskar diye h Manav aur Savita ne unko.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hello ladies,

1st I want to say Bravo on your post (Soapwatcher & Luvly)
In all honesty I am getting so fed up with this drama it is making sick..
I get to the point now where I just fast forward (I record it on my Dvr), because I cannot tolerate Savita and her BS!

This drama has been going on for more than 6 months now.. or so it seems.. it just keeps on dragging.. when is the truth going to come out?
we had a chance a few weeks back, when Archana was talking and explaining... (thinking Manav was there and HE WASN'T) I was so angry.. there needs to be some kind of push on this..

The CVS are really beating this dead horse! it just keeps going on and on...

Justice needs to be done on this.. Archana had 3294901238409138590138501234985609348560234985624 TIMES.. to explain this situation she gets "alone time" with Manav.. why doesn't the directors of this show just make them do it already..

Perhaps I am as irritated as you guys are.. because honestly.. this show is draining me lol.. ah well. still a fan.. do enjoy it.. just now on fast forward! lol...


any way ladies.. I hope you have a brilliant and blessed weekend..
:)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: smilegirl

I thought Sachin knew that it was Savita who signed the divorce papers and not Archana If yes - he has no reason to hate Archana.

He does know Savita forged her signature but he does not know that Archana did not abandon him 18 years ago. He doesn't know Savita fixed that too. That is why I said, lying, cheating and forging are not the means to his "noble" end of setting his dad free. Sachin is upset because Archana left him with no rhyme or reason 18 years ago.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post Jahnvi! 👏

I've posted about Sachin before in another thread. Of all of ARMAN's kids, Sachin has a reason to hate Archana because he feels he was abandoned by her. But the CVs could have handled his situation in a better way. Firstly, the CVs don't even give the actor that many lines or scenes and Sachin's character is a character that has the potential to go through a change. The CVs could have showed us how he went from resentment to loving Archana. I get that Ovi Teju are important but I want Sachin to be important too. He goes on and on about how Shravani is waiting for Manav but I think that's a lie that Savita fed the kids and put it into their heads that Shravani should be their mother. I doubt Shravani has any idea about Manav and his situation with Archana. Plus, it would be really shameful of Shravani to want to marry Manav still even after the way she was humiliated by Savita that night. I had hoped when I saw the episode that little Sachin would be there to see what his pyari aaji was doing to his real mother. I know it would have been traumatic for a child to witness that but at least then Sachin would have seen how his mother was being treated by Savita.

Teju is a sweet character and Ovi is generally nice except that she's very emotional (more than Tej) when it comes to the fact that their mother left them. Well now Ovi is definitely going to turn negative and I don't really sympathize with her that much even though she was told that her mother left them when they were just children. However, with Ovi and Teju, I just don't feel an emotional connection with them since they just came out of nowhere and didn't even spend that much time with their mother before they were left for Canada. Now I am waiting for Varsha and Soham's arrival. Some say he will be a positive character who will unite ARMAN and some say he will be a negative character. I hope that even if he is a negative character, he becomes good and unites his parents.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luci1177

Hello ladies,


1st I want to say Bravo on your post (Soapwatcher & Luvly)
In all honesty I am getting so fed up with this drama it is making sick..
I get to the point now where I just fast forward (I record it on my Dvr), because I cannot tolerate Savita and her BS!

This drama has been going on for more than 6 months now.. or so it seems.. it just keeps on dragging.. when is the truth going to come out?
we had a chance a few weeks back, when Archana was talking and explaining... (thinking Manav was there and HE WASN'T) I was so angry.. there needs to be some kind of push on this..

The CVS are really beating this dead horse! it just keeps going on and on...

Justice needs to be done on this.. Archana had 3294901238409138590138501234985609348560234985624 TIMES.. to explain this situation she gets "alone time" with Manav.. why doesn't the directors of this show just make them do it already..

Perhaps I am as irritated as you guys are.. because honestly.. this show is draining me lol.. ah well. still a fan.. do enjoy it.. just now on fast forward! lol...


any way ladies.. I hope you have a brilliant and blessed weekend..
:)



Then they would not have a show! The show is built on words unsaid. If people said what it is necessary, then where would we have a show?!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by soapwatcher1

Savita is a witch, it bears repeating and she is responsible for this whole horrible mess, but let us examine the situation the children. Sachin, Tej, and Ovi find themselves in, independent of who is to be blamed.

Coming to Ovi,
She is a brat of the first order
Yep Savita is a Witch and Ovi is a brat..Really ?
No choice left to get fair moderating in this section so I have reported this and want to know what mods will do..
Hope DT visits the topic..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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That is not true laila, if they resolved some of the issues in this show they would be able to add new and more exciting story. Almost everyone knows every secret in this show so they r bored watching it. There is no suspense, no aah ha moments n the drama is like really " I so expected that"

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